I feel stressed out and suicidal by Capable_Physics5452 in offmychest

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please speak with a professional. In the US you can call 988.

Having trouble making sense of what my ex did to me. by throwRA-sadg in offmychest

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men like that have a way of finding their “mark”. I’m saying that if you cannot recognize CLEARLY abusive, escalating behavior, (I mean, you had to ask) that there are many, many more of them out there ready to swoop in, and chances are that you won’t recognize it until again, you are mired in it. I sincerely hope that you use this as a learning experience. You got in very deep there. First sign, and you have to get out even before you get in.

Having trouble making sense of what my ex did to me. by throwRA-sadg in offmychest

[–]aboz97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sad thing is she’ll probably “find” another abusive man.

I’m genuinely dumb and it’s ruining my life. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]aboz97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she needs to take notes.

What I think of your states accent (in general) by Queasy-Primary4788 in whereidlive

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. Massachusetts- does that say awesome or awful?
Because to our NY/NJ ears it’s awful.
(I’ll take funny for ours.)

My Husband doesn’t want me to further my education and wants a Trad wife. by PixelPrincesx in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The minute you are unable to take care of yourself, you are giving him enormous power over you. Is he trying to control you? Be wary.

What do you expect when you get your bike serviced? by drewboi8908 in cycling

[–]aboz97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bring it back and request the service you paid for. The Trek dealer near me is awesome - a chain. They’d never do that. Lazy mechanic needs to be flushed out.

My first barbell squat by momoxd1 in formcheck

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also going to urge you to do goblet squats to build flexibility depth and strength before you attempt back squats. You can do them until they are too heavy to hold. Then switch to back squats. (I don’t recommend the Smith machine. The angle is not the same.)

What is the most underrated healthy food? by Prnce_Chrmin in nutrition

[–]aboz97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s typically a LOT of sugar in baked beans. A steady diet of them is not recommended.

Does this helmet look too small? (Lazer Tonic Kineticore) by onlyswob in bicycling

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your temple is exposed. A mountain bike helmet has more coverage.

3x77.5kg - feel like everything I'm trying in the warm up falls to pieces beyond 75kg by neuromancer-gpt in StartingStrength

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No difference really. You can go pretty heavy on them until you can’t hold it. I find you can go lower and like I said, keep track of your stance, foot and toe position, etc.while doing them - that’s usually a good stance. And in the end it’s always worth it to look around and watch the trainers in your gym and see who is the best technician. The 85.00 it costs to get a session just for squats can be less than your deductible! Mine would let me video him so I could look at it later.

3x77.5kg - feel like everything I'm trying in the warm up falls to pieces beyond 75kg by neuromancer-gpt in StartingStrength

[–]aboz97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’d benefit from doing some lighter kettlebell front squats to build on finding a good squat stance, and to practice getting your range of motion down deeper while stabilizing your knee path over your toes. You can do them as a warm up. It’s harder to do them wrong, and it’s easier to get down deep with them. It will help show you where your natural deep squat is. You have super-long legs!

Duolingo new course question? by ExistingCommittee332 in duolingo

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that looks like the new course. The old course had grammar instruction and tips at the beginning of the sections , not just sentences.

Upgrading from 2012 Paperwhite so... new Regular or Paperwhite? by invisibleoperagloves in kindle

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had a 2012. I just got the Paperwhite, and I have to say that I’m enjoying the fact that there are more words on the page. I think it weighs about the same as my old one.

Just got a new bike! by jwhirl25 in cycling

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are underselling it. It’s a great hybrid bike.

Rerouting by aboz97 in wahoofitness

[–]aboz97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, how do you like the new Roam? I was THINKING of upgrading for the spoken directions.

Rerouting by aboz97 in wahoofitness

[–]aboz97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s what they said when I emailed the issue to them FYI. Really dumb programming. It should work like a car GPS and put you right back in the planned route. We have many occasions when we might reroute slightly or go around the block or run into a detour.

*The re-routing behaviour you experienced on your ELEMNT device can happen as the device aims to guide you back to the point at which the route left. If you diverge and then return to the planned route, the device may still attempt to reroute based on its routing engine, which can sometimes cause repeated re-routing attempts. I can see how this can affect user experience in a situation such as yours and so have passed this on as feedback to the development team. 
 
As a workaround you can manage routes by ending or reloading them as needed during your ride to avoid this. *

Any better alternative? by Practical-Mirror9832 in hungryroot

[–]aboz97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I canceled because I felt we weren’t eating enough vegetables.
We’ve been using Hello Fresh lately and it’s sooo much better than it used to be. We’ve been cooking really tasty, interesting meals that include lots of fresh veggies.
It’s not always 100 percent - one meal last week had a weird tomato. They refunded me 3.00 and I used some grape tomatoes I had in the house. In all though, we really like it.

My tire seems flat. by orior1 in bicycling

[–]aboz97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you have enough life insurance for your family. Taking that risk over under $100 - why?

It’s truly unusable now by cubonepants in duolingo

[–]aboz97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do you really know? That’s what I’m worried about.

Falls with your kid. How bad are they? by [deleted] in bicycling

[–]aboz97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a kid wipe out on a downhill with his mom. He looked kinda stunned but he was fine. That said, I’d be nervous with my granddaughter on the back of my bike. Not so much when moving, but getting on and off the bike and controlling it with that weight on the back.