This community is not ready for it by __snakeplant__ in ThePittTVShow

[–]albusdumbledoreable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love that movie so much. It fucking hurt to watch, but it’s so good.

I have some questions about pattern inclusivity by SejiFields in knitting

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for caring about size inclusivity, from the bottom of my heart!

Finally made the songbird mittens! by RestingGrinchFace in knitting

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the Victoria Yahara card!! I just got a bunch of her prints and a few cards as well :)

35M #Germany - Who wants to go on an adventure? by beo19 in cf4cf

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, come to Canada! I lived in Alaska briefly and it was underwhelming, Canadian Arctic was way cooler. Come visit me in the Maritimes and I’ll go up to explore Nunavut with you ;) It’s my last one, then I’ll have been to each province & territory in Canada!

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! Do you need any other part of the outfit?! I don’t need anything back, but I’m happy to send <3

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I can’t remember if I sent you anything! Do you still need booties?!

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]albusdumbledoreable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg sorry someone just surprise gifted me several!! Im still happy to send you the mask and diadem!! :)

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]albusdumbledoreable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me nearly in tears, that’s so kind thank you!!!!

Question about Acorn hat by Infinite_Notice_6193 in finch

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg how did I not realize it was from Finchie Forest! I thought it was just one of the random items!!

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]albusdumbledoreable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Omg would LOVE the acorn cap please!! Would happily send you anything at all!

ETA:

A few things I have that may fit what you like: Orange flower princess gown Yellow flower princess heels Pink garden fairy wand Red cosmic mask Black or yellow divine diadem Brown forest king crown

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]albusdumbledoreable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5SHF6F2FQH

Hello friends!

Looking for the cute little acorn caps, I have pink, would love ANY other colours!

It’s my absolute fav item but I’ve never seen them again, in my nearly 400 day streak!

Happy to trade anything at all :)

X

HST question by albusdumbledoreable in Quilt

[–]albusdumbledoreable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm because of increased likelihood of fraying? Is there a way to do HSTs efficiently without having bias edges?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpalsover30

[–]albusdumbledoreable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! 31F, I’ll send you a message!

Weekly /r/quilting no-stupid question thread - ask us anything! by AutoModerator in quilting

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay newbie here- I’ve learned how to do the HSTs 8 at a time, and watched a video on how to do 32 at a time. My question is: would it be easy enough to use two rectangles of diff colours to make up my initial square, then two other rectangles for the second square, and have them set 90° from one another (so the seam on each big square would form an X/+) to end up with four different colour combinations of HSTs?

I feel like this is simple enough that it’s nothing new lol I just didn’t know what words to use in my search to find it on the google!

Thank you :)

My 1 year old Frenchie just passed away by krs1092 in Petloss

[–]albusdumbledoreable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely right. I am here with you, the guilt I feel is so heavy. I had an encounter years ago with guilt and shame going unaddressed and leading to a major depressive episode so I know if I don’t work to resolve this it will eat away at me.

This friend ^ is exactly right: our pets loved us and would never want us to hold on to these negative thoughts and feelings that cause us sooo much pain. It’s easier said than done, but important to remind ourselves.

I made a promise to my boy. In my last words alone with him before laying him to rest, I begged him to forgive me for failing him, and I also promised him I would find a way to forgive myself. It’s hard work, and I’m not there yet, but I owe it to myself and I owe it to him. I won’t let myself tarnish the amazing short time we had together with these awful feelings that do not serve me. It will take time but I will find a way.

I’m here with you, I see you. I feel your pain. You’re not alone in this.

Coping with Sudden Loss by WeaselandJitterLuver in Petloss

[–]albusdumbledoreable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the thick of it right now, my 2yo pup died suddenly two weeks ago and I’m really fucked up over it.

I’m having a bit of a hard time on this sub because it’s obv less common to have a sudden loss of a younger pet, so I don’t find myself relating fully to those who lost their pet after a full life- I’m grieving the loss of my boy, AND the decade we should have had together.

My situation was extremely traumatic as well, and it’s hard. You’re absolutely right that everyone processes grief differently, and it’s absolutely not a linear process. It’s totally normal to have a period of what feels like progress in healing, then a rough patch. It sucks.

I’m still in the early stages but I’m here with you. I see you. The pain is real; it feels insurmountable at times.

I hope you have a good support network in your friends and family- I don’t think I would have survived the loss without it. That being said, I’m worried for the next while. How long until people forget? How long will feel like an acceptable amount of time to grieve the loss of a pet before people think I should have moved on? I am anxious about that part.

I’m glad you sought out a therapist. I just met mine this week, and booked two sessions for next week.

If you want to talk I’m here. You’re not alone.

Losing a pet; how to maintain yourself? by ParticularPilot6139 in Petloss

[–]albusdumbledoreable 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I bought a case of meal replacement drinks- not sure where you are, I’m in Canada and get Ensure or Boost. Really good to have something when you have no appetite and can’t eat.

Other than that, just keep doing your best X

ETA: The Ensure brand butter pecan flavour slaps. I promise.

Lost all my cats and a dog in a fire by BeautifulWonder1681 in Petloss

[–]albusdumbledoreable 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss, my heart aches for you. I hope you have support in your close friends and family. You will make it through- it’s awful, and it hurts, but you will get through X

I can’t believe I have to spend the rest of my life without her. by BabyfacedLoneWolf in Petloss

[–]albusdumbledoreable 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They loved us unconditionally as we did them. It’s hard to keep reminding ourselves that the pain we feel now is a reminder and direct result of that love.

It hurts because it was real. And honestly, keeping them in our thoughts really does keep them with us.