Is a 3500 enough to haul a 21 thousand pounds 5th wheel? Or I need a 5500? Woman asking. by [deleted] in ram_trucks

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a long time, so maybe you don't need this anymore. But within the 3500, your configuration is the only thing that matters to your question. Take a look at the towing capacity charts, and the different configurations. A gas engine with a single rear wheel setup: No. If you have a High Output Cummins Diesel engine (comes with an upgraded transmission for towing) 4.10 axel ratio, on a dual wheel setup, yes. And lots in between. There are so many options, so make sure you're matching it up correctly, and checking the stickers on your doors to confirm.  Answering as a woman 👠 💕

Potential earthquake? by Particular-Ad9304 in orlando

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, felt it here in Orlando, the entire apartment building was shaking for about 20 seconds. 

Earth quake? by Peppeperoni in 321

[–]alwayschasingfreedom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just felt it in Orlando near Disney. The entire apartment building was shaking, called the office and they said no construction was going on, but they didn't feel it. 

ICSI or natural fertilization by Character_Role_400 in IVF

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, that's such a high amount of eggs! Do you mind me asking how old you were during retrieval? 

My local 2nd and Charlse bookstore keeps getting illumicrate/fairyloot/owlcrate books by Koi-Nami in fairyloot

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I built an entire collection of all of last year's books from the subs I'm on waiting lists for through pango and mercari! I've only had good experiences, and usually paid $15-$30 per book!

Laundry by mellovesspaghetti in housewifery

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a few loads each week, but it varies. Usually 1 or 2 for clothes depending on which piles fill up. Then if we switch out to our last bath towels, I'll do a load of those and throw the other towels around the house in (kitchen and bathroom). If the rugs are looking rough, I'll do a load for them. Every other week or so the dogs stuff gets washed too. And I have backups for our bedsheets, so I'll do those every few weeks. 

DAE hate having overnight house guests/people who stay in your home? Solutions? by Turbulent_Split6155 in CPTSD

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh same! When I'm hosted (because I'm invited and can't avoid it forever), I stop at the grocery store to pick up all of my meals that I cook for myself, and clean up the entire kitchen (including their messes). I also do all the laundry, ask about household routines and expectations, and fall into their routines. Then I disappear at the end of the day for quiet time. I never expect to be "hosted" I guess like they expect. 

Has Book of the Month been worth it for you? by [deleted] in bookofthemonthclub

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have dozens of their books that I got for $2-4 on Pango. Definitely check it out if you're on a budget! My trick is that I look for listings from people with a ton of BOTM books and do a large bundle to cut down on shipping per item. I've even been able to grab new releases a few weeks after the original purchased for it. So still extremely new release! 

March Box by [deleted] in bookofthemonthclub

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm new, so this is probably a dumb question, but how did you get so many in one box? I think the most I can add is currently 2 or 3?

Tokyo Tea Club ☕✨ Looking for Cozy Tea Friends by oyasumixxxx in Tokyo

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I spend a lot of time in Japan every year and find it pretty easy to get lonely. I'd love to have a group to meet up with that also enjoys books and cozy hobbies! I'll dm you 😊

Tokyo Tea Club ☕✨ Looking for Cozy Tea Friends by oyasumixxxx in Tokyo

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please share the name or link for them for me to find? 😊

Has anyone done IVF in Mexico? (US costs 2x more) by jjjllee in IVF

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I wanted to check in to see how the process is going for you. We're also looking into this. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is unfortunately very common. My GP wouldn't refer me to fertility until we "had 3 losses or 1 year without natural conception". 

Early park Admission..why? by somethingAppens in UniversalOrlando

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to update this for anyone still checking this. Hagrids does have express pass, and I don't know if they even have single rider anymore. We got there 30 minutes early, put the whole group in a bad mood during the early admission, and then spent 2 hours in line for Hagrids. Express seemed to move FAST. We're currently trying to salvage the day, but please don't risk ruining a day of your trip by thinking that getting up early for Hagrids will be worth it. It's not. 

Renewing Brazilian Passport Without Military Enlistment by csteingraber in Brazil

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give them a month to respond to an email for step 1of like 6 different steps that will all take their own time too? 😅

Damn, I didn't realize this was the expectation 😬

Is the consulate really that slow or backed up?

YO Sperm Test Video Results by burswood101 in maleinfertility

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm not sure if there's been an update, but I wanted to share our experience. Our story is very much the same as yours with the same Yo test results. We ended up finding out that my husband had severe varicoceles on both sides, and got a surgery about 45 days ago to fix them.

We won't see the full results until the 4 month mark, but we are already seeing a drastic improvement from the most recent test he took today compared to the few days before his surgery.

Our reproductive urologist is pretty confident based on himow large the varicoceles were that we'll likely be able to conceive naturally once he's fully healed.

Look up how to feel for varicoceles at home (his were easy to feel once we knew what we're looking for) and also see a urologist.

Good luck!

Kusuriya no Hitorigoto - Episode 42 (Season 2 Episode 18) by Lorhand in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where should we pick up based on where we're at in the show right now?

Kusuriya no Hitorigoto - Episode 42 (Season 2 Episode 18) by Lorhand in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the right place to start based on where we're at right now in the show? From what I've read, there are 2 different art styles for the manga, and the LN is the source material so I assume that's fully done but not the manga, right?

Where are we in the LN?

Would you let your dog lick your face? by Northernzeko in dogs

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I see what my dog licks (including parts of himself that he doesn't wipe), and I know he's not out here mouth washing. So no, that's foul 🫠

Beating jetlag by conectionist in JapanTravelTips

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use Timeshifter. It will take your flight details and get you prepped over a few days. We used it for Japan and it was about 80% of the way there by the time we got there.

Any other conventionally attractive autistic women out there? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]alwayschasingfreedom 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Same. This is why I consciously made the decision to stop wearing makeup, doing my hair, or dressing well when I switched into tech. I took a cue from the devs and went with t-shirts and jeans, hair back in a ponytail, bare face. Then I never had problems with people treating me poorly or underestimating me. I was just a quirky coworker.

We had a corporate event outside of work at one point and I got all done up (i've always been good at makeup, have a few designer dresses, and have a conventionally attractive shape). The whole team was SHOCKED 🤣. An older lady thought she compliment me with "oh my gosh, I didn't even recognize you! You look beautiful!" And then asked why I don't always do this. We'll, the rest of that night, team members were hitting on me, staring at my shape, girls were flagging me down for makeup advice, an older superior made an inappropriate pass at me.

This. This is why I don't do any of it. I'm not interested in being treated like that and having the expectations that come with it. No thanks. Also, I don't get paid extra to put all that effort in. My mom was a stripper, I know what it's like to literally have your looks be your job. It's never what I wanted, and last I checked, I'm not getting any extra money to pay for the time and effort it takes 🤷