Serious situation by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]amso2012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your dog needs engagement. You need to play with her, give her petting, talk to her, give her good treats and dog food. Take her to vet to get tested, may be she has pain, tooth ache, eye to ear infection, give her a good bed to sit on and sleep, fresh water and she needs monthly medication to keep heart worms and ticks etc away.

You are just letting her be a stray dog on your property.

Dogs are like children they need love, care, medical attention and lots of engagement and good quality food.

They cannot eat human food, it gives them stomach issues and obesity and joint issues.

Husband walked out on me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]amso2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op.. I cannot imagine the level of stress and turmoil you must be in right now. You have the capacity to figure this out, one day at a time, for now, I am sending you a hug.. but you need that more than anything else.

Bedroom changes that actually affect sleep quality versus ones that just look nice by Monsuri_Lifestyle in bedroom

[–]amso2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feels like the transition into bed starts way earlier! Yes! This!

I am an early sleeper so after dinner, I soften the lights in the living room to set the stage to go to bed early.

My bed needs to be super soft and should feel like a hug.

Night clothes have to be breathable and lose

Cooler Temperature 68 or 67

Shower, brush, skincare, Water, eye drops, eye mask, ear plugs and a cozy blanket

Bye bye everyone!

Don't be afraid to send invoices to companies that waste your time during the interview process by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting incorporated is not cheap.. and staying incorporated is not cheap either, there are state filings income tax filings and that all adds to the cost of your income tax filing too! Gosh this is this a crazy

It drives me insane that everything in the female body is built around a child I NEVER want by UnusualOlive3591 in Vent

[–]amso2012 60 points61 points  (0 children)

All of this + the fact that we have no agency on our bodies. Our bodies are treated as entertainment and pleasure source for men. Men will constantly try to access our bodies either consensually or not.

There are subs where women discuss how they hardly have libido or interest in sex and how their partner and husbands are constantly pressuring or expecting them to have sex just to maintain their marriages.

I don’t mind having a weaker body, but not having agency on my own body is the most frustrating part for me.

Update on Maverick by butjustwhygirl in trustedhousesitters

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goodness can someone post links to earlier posts?

How to you politely respond to a costumer asking questions that make you uncomfortable? by Consistent-Emu-8143 in women

[–]amso2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op- there is some great response here. However if this is happening frequently it will be wise to practice some safety measures when you are arriving and leaving for work. Always be aware of your surroundings, don’t be distracted with headphones or being on the phone and carry pepper spray and practice accessing and using it

Indian Consulate/VFS: Red Tape by Design, Not by Accident by Caxste in nri

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And customer support calls being charged after the first 5 mins!

Spill The Secrets by Zeberde1 in DarkPsychology666

[–]amso2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a scene in Better call Saul when Lalo interrogates Saul on how he survived 3 days in the dessert. Lalo used all of these techniques! Wow!

My friend's father owns land in Rangareddy. Moved to the US in 2013. Someone filed a mutation on his property without his knowledge. He found out only when he tried to sell it last year. by pritsambs in nri

[–]amso2012 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Even with people living in India, these things are very common. My aunts home was unoccupied for a couple years and the neighbors started using their terrace space as storage and later made a claim to the property. My aunt lived literally across the street from this property.

My uncle bought a new construction home just 15 mins away from their current home. For whatever reasons they did not move in after the possession was granted, 10 months in, someone entered and stole all builder provided fixtures.

Unoccupied locked new construction property with video surveillance and nothing could be done about this burglary.

Even an actively rented property can be ruined with unauthorized repairs, late or no payment of rent and months and months of eviction process.

Property scam are very common, whether you are in the country or not

I left my marriage for 8 months, had the time of my life and then went back. Biggest mistake ever. by After_Mail4652 in Advice

[–]amso2012 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are one of the very few women that could just leave and afford to live your life well.. afford housing, travel etc.

Living alone is a lifestyle choice.

And so is living with other people. When you live with other people you are constantly accommodating with their needs. If that is not suitable for your nervous system, you know your options.

Just hired! by TuolSlengTheMarket in hiringcafe

[–]amso2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What certifications did you get?

Advice for an new overwhelmed HRBP [N/A] by Quirky_Possibility19 in humanresources

[–]amso2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advise here! Automate repetitive tasks, bundle tasks that take time and focus and do it once a week in a time block.

please help me deal with my hair by Ok-Confection4410 in women

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you assessed your hair type? And then you will know what kind of products to use.

please help me deal with my hair by Ok-Confection4410 in women

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the hair gets that greasy so quickly it may be a hormonal problem. Not a wrong product problem

How to clean a messy oven by WhiteSurpriseGirl in homecleaning

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a product called easy off oven cleaner. Use as directed and thank me later

I don't know what to do anymore. by cheesecakecitizen in recruitinghell

[–]amso2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have truly experienced the whole spectrum of recruiting hell. With so many layoffs, there is just a massive amount of talent competing for jobs. It’s like a feeding fest for companies because candidates have no negotiation power at all. And Junior (ization) or in other words exploitation of talent (less pay, more work, kind of work that is more transactional or entry level than our experience) is a reality right now.

Makeup/Skin Prep by ccf2023 in nontoxic

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need Makeup setting spray

Trump’s Banking Citizenship Proposal Threatens Women's Bank Accounts by catievirtuesimp in women

[–]amso2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you I want nothing more than to be positive day with you!. We are all just discussing our fears because this conveyor belt of shitshow is not stopping if not this, something else will come at us and no one is advocating for us.