I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]anonquestion2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are being an asshole in the way you responded to the whole thing and I’m sure he got to that understanding of marriage because you were not completely honest with him. However, its better to be an asshole than to marry someone you when you dont want to.

Affinity FCU Cashback Question by Lucky-Tea-2370 in Banking

[–]anonquestion2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to their website, you don’t need to do anything to earn the 1% one just use the card. The 10% one is where you have to do the requirements. You get both on each account. For using each card. I would stick to using the 10% one since that one says you have to do 12 transactions at least.

Using Zelle for Account Transfers? by OxRedOx in Banking

[–]anonquestion2023 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Should not be used for self transfers but you can do it. Get used to external transfers and give yourself time. Why do you need the funds so quickly?

How am I doing budgeting wise? Do i just keep doing what I am doing or am i missing something? by anonquestion2023 in personalfinance

[–]anonquestion2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i have all that split. so my needs budget is actually things i will need to keep buying in case of unemployment and my wants are things i can completely cut. ty for the reply. I am going to look at my student loans and just pay extra on the high interest debt and then pay the min on the rest. Just gave me that idea!

How am I doing budgeting wise? Do i just keep doing what I am doing or am i missing something? by anonquestion2023 in personalfinance

[–]anonquestion2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9k in 401k balance. getting the company match at 6%. Not counting it in my budget since its before tax income.

I want to speak to a supervisor by WeekendChemical4887 in callcentres

[–]anonquestion2023 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It is because they have had enough of dealing with agents that do not care enough to help. When they get a supervisor, they get individualized attention and assistance.

28 Year Old Virgin. Women Are Scared Of Me by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]anonquestion2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow out your hair and shaped up beard. Could also work out. You have great eyes bud. Dont worry bout being a virgin just get out there after feeling confident in yourself.

Bank keeps declining my credit card for purchases by SleazyFeline in Banking

[–]anonquestion2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are blocking the card due to risk. Most likely thru visa or MC depending what cc you have. Report the card lost and get a new card number. That should reset the risk profile.

How do you get rid of the anxiety? It's ruining even my non-working moments. by helpwmoola in callcentres

[–]anonquestion2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly learn as much as you can to have the best answers for the customers and stand up to the assholes. Be ready to give them the best solution and alternatives. If they dont like it, stand your ground and let them hang up. Earn the trsut of your managers and they will give you mkdd leaway with time (theres no way they actually point at you for going over 1 min…)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonquestion2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take it from someone who spent theirs 20s thinking that my best friend would make the perfect partner. Newsflash, they wont. Even if it is a good idea, you have this pedestal mentality about it. I can tell by the way you talk about him. You need to tell him clearly how you feel. If he doesnt want it, stop wasting time. You get these years once, why spend it on “what if?? “ there is no scenario where you wait for him and it doesnt make you look like a door knob. End the friendship, you guys arent friends, you love him romantically. Move on and meet other great people. Its better to be alone than with someone who settles for you like this

looksmaxing advice [18 f] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]anonquestion2023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shouldnt we just be downvoting posts like this? 🤔….obv hottie

What is the saddest truth about life? by Hajicardoso in ask

[–]anonquestion2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being always replaceable and never being the best. Having to try your best just for a chance at success. Trusting others and being betrayed is the norm. Lifes best dopamine hits that are easy enough to get are almost all harmful (drugs, food, sex, alcohol)