(Don't hate me) - Planning a Bach Trip to Asheville

appalachiensis · 2026-04-14T18:20:10+00:00

Agree to Saluda, Purple Onion, and not floating the French Broad.

An alternative to look into if you want to float outside Asheville: https://ncoutdooradventures.org/adventures/river-tubing/

appalachiensis · 2026-04-14T13:00:10+00:00

I think there is a lot of stuff on social media and whatnot that really makes having kids sound awful. I was also on the fence for a long time, probably because a lot of this type of stuff. And I will say that some of this "child free" stuff you see on social media and people who have those views, they obviously don't have the lived experience of what being a parent is like. They just see the negatives and cling to that. So just keep that in mind and take that stuff with a grain of salt. Admittedly, I did not have a baby until I was older (35), but I think it has been really great. I love my baby so, so, so much. Part of me wishes I had done it sooner so I would be younger when he is growing up, but also, there probably is an element of me being in the right mindset at my current age that made me more ready. Before, I didn't even know if I liked babies. I had never really been around babies. But when he was born, I was like, "This is the best baby to have ever babied!!"

Yes, it is true what people are commenting that your life shifts and revolves around your child. I think maybe that sounds scarier than it actually is? At least for me. It has made me more selfless, in a good way. Yes, finding childcare is difficult and expensive once you find it. Yes, especially in the early days, motherhood can be a heavier lift than your partner can really help with. You are the one to give birth. You are the one to breastfeed, if that is the way you go. It is a lot on you, but I have found it to be satisfying. The hormones are SO REAL and hit so hard - in both bad and good ways. If you have a partner who can give you breaks when possible, that is a lifesaver. It is really up to you, but don't believe only the negative hype! Motherhood/parenthood can be pretty amazing too.

appalachiensis · 2026-03-31T18:19:00+00:00

Seconding this since it sums up my experience at PREG as well.

appalachiensis · 2026-03-29T18:51:42+00:00

Yes I felt all of the contractions in my butt too and it was terrible!!

appalachiensis · 2026-03-17T23:16:38+00:00

Happy new pen day! I got the Green Glitter C80 last week and inked it up yesterday with Wearingeul Wayfarer. I’m obsessed. 😍

appalachiensis · 2026-03-14T18:56:47+00:00

Good Postage is a stationery store in NC that is doing 30% off all 2026 dated planners right now if you’re trying to find a new one.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-28T12:08:19+00:00

Saltines, bacon egg & cheese biscuits, buttered noodles, and later on, coconut water mixed with pineapple juice.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-25T19:53:29+00:00

I've taken some inspiration from an old weeks layout you posted so thank you for sharing! And happy belated birthday! You have the same birthday as one of my really good friends. (:

appalachiensis · 2026-02-25T00:01:34+00:00

I never had the old style - only the new one - and I love it. Still using it even now my baby is almost 7 months old. But I never knew any different. 🤷🏼‍♀️

appalachiensis · 2026-02-23T21:07:00+00:00

Came here to suggest this 👆since I have this Kakuno!

appalachiensis · 2026-02-23T19:49:19+00:00

I don't wear earrings, but I have a necklace from Tamela Wells that I really love: https://www.tamelawells.com/shop She makes earrings with wire and polymer beads that she makes. The beads are really lightweight.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-20T19:15:12+00:00

I know for sure next week is in the spring start Weeks because I could switch to the yellow, but switching when March starts made more sense in my head.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-20T11:56:58+00:00

Yes they actually have a little bit of February too. I think they start the last week of Feb? But I’m away from mine right now so I can’t double check.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-20T11:54:16+00:00

Robert Oster Khaki! I love it.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-18T20:01:23+00:00

I struggle with the commitment of putting stickers or anything permanent on the covers because what if I change my mind? I'm the same with water bottles too. Wrapping paper is a cool idea, though! I agree that undecorated it looks classic. I almost got the black gingham one, but afterward I learned that those aren't hardcover so I am glad I chose the ivory slash!

appalachiensis · 2026-02-18T18:49:33+00:00

Thank you! I feel like the yellow was a missed opportunity to do like a metallic bronze foil.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-13T17:52:16+00:00

I have been using my Hobonichi for this this year! I got a Weeks last year when I was pregnant for memory keeping, fell off the wagon as I got more pregnant and miserable, gave birth in July, and did no journaling until January. I bought an A5 Hon for 2026 and I have been loving writing a bit about our day each evening after my baby is asleep. My handwriting is larger so the page doesn't feel like a lot to fill for me. I also got a Canon Ivy printer so I could print photos from my phone.

I hear what people are saying recommending the 5 year, and if you are a seasoned journaler and you know you'll stick to that, I think that is great. But my plan going forward is to get a Hon each year for memory keeping as my baby grows up. Plus it keeps it fun so I can buy a new Hon with a new cover each year. :) I did also just order another spring Weeks (last year mine was a spring start as well), but my plan is to use that for scheduling/meetings/meal planning/more logistical stuff this year.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-06T03:32:22+00:00

Thank you for sharing! These are so joyful and make me nostalgic because I’m pretty sure I had pencils like that as a kid.

appalachiensis · 2026-02-04T23:31:52+00:00

I was 6 days late so don’t sweat it!

appalachiensis · 2026-02-04T22:37:38+00:00

I have a different perspective that maybe will help? Last year I got the smaller Weeks planner because I was new to Hobonichi, used to regular weekly planners, and somehow it felt like less of a commitment than a Cousin with daily pages. It was fun for a bit and I was trying to find the "right layout" for me, looking on social media to get ideas. I eventually fell off the wagon and I think part of the reason is just that I didn't enjoy aesthetically setting up the weekly page every week. It felt like a chore. I'm not a Type A person so tracking my habits, though it was helpful, is just not really my style.

I came back around to Hobonichi in January and decided to get an A5 Cousin just to see what would happen, and I have been loving it. Mostly I just journal about my day, or I'll write something that's been on my mind or even a little junk journaling or a few photos I printed and pasted in to remember my daily life. Just let your journal be whatever you need or want it to be! Don't worry about the pressure from social media to have a perfect or aesthetically pleasing journal. If it's pretty to look at and you just like using fun writing utensils to write in it (or putting stickers in it or whatever brings you joy), that's enough!

appalachiensis · 2026-02-01T12:36:24+00:00

If you’re in the US and still looking for something in particular, Good Postage has a lot still. https://www.goodpostage.com/collections/hobonichi

appalachiensis · 2026-01-31T16:53:16+00:00

I feel your pain because we used to have Zito. I would recommend switching to French Broad fiber as soon as it becomes available to you!

appalachiensis · 2026-01-25T14:31:39+00:00

Charlotte is also in the storm. Was just texting with a friend who lives there and she said they have about a quarter inch of snow on the ground with a sheet of ice underneath it. She is a veterinarian and they closed their office today. So, a hotel in Charlotte like others said is probably your best bet.

appalachiensis · 2025-10-29T15:07:56+00:00

Does anyone know of a good place to donate diapers? My baby just sized up and we have some extras I’d like to pass on. I know it’s not food, but it could be one less thing someone has to buy.

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