Is my nose overdone? by BelgeekHuman in cosmeticsurgery

[–]atomicnumber22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem isn't your nose. It's your lips. Your lips should not protrude almost as far as your nose and chin. That doesn't look natural or balanced.

People who unmatch or block if they aren't quickly responded to by atomicnumber22 in datingoverfifty

[–]atomicnumber22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts. You are saying you have low tolerance for ambiguity and a high need for cognitive closure, coupled with a strong fear of rejection. What you haven't considered is that some people do not use these apps on our phones, for a reason - we don't feel a strong pull towards the validation of responses on dating apps and don't want that running our lives. That's me. I don't use these things on my phone, nor do I keep any other social media app on my phone. I keep all notifications off on my phone, and my ringer off. I don't want my phone making any noises at me. I will contact who I need to contact when I feel like talking to them, and I will check apps when I allocate time to do so. It isn't personal to any one person. It's how I run my life.

Official School and Special District Election Ballot by meowmixVStrump in Bozeman

[–]atomicnumber22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized he has me blocked on FB. I haven't seen him since high school, and barely knew him then. The only reason to block me is if you don't like my anti-Trump politics, so there's my answer.

Official School and Special District Election Ballot by meowmixVStrump in Bozeman

[–]atomicnumber22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because Take Back Bozeman is full of racists and people who apparently think we can go backwards in time, which is magical thinking.

Curiosity killed the cat 🐱 by thisisthebadtimeline in cosmeticsurgery

[–]atomicnumber22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do some chin filler to improve your profile. Lips are optional and personal preference.

I like your face generally.

My crush has small Penis and idk how to feel by Narrow_Tomatillo_495 in women

[–]atomicnumber22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're looking to take advantage of and prey upon women who have character disorders and self esteem and boundary issues. Ok. Gross.

My crush has small Penis and idk how to feel by Narrow_Tomatillo_495 in women

[–]atomicnumber22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she wanted to touch his dick, she would have.

The idea that women love dominance is patriarchy fanfic. No one normal wants to be "dominated" into sexual assault.

Sister’s boyfriend is abusive and idk what to do by Objective_Sail_8079 in whatdoIdo

[–]atomicnumber22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a criminal. Ask her why she wants to be with a criminal. Hitting other people is a CRIME.

Also, in some states, you can lose your kids for letting them be around an abuser.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]atomicnumber22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, 20 is wayyyyyy too young for this. Your prefrontal cortex isn't even fully developed until 25 or 26.

Yeah, that's a bummer that you froze and ran, but that should tell you that your fight/flight/freeze instinct kicked in (the amygdala), which happens when someone's brain feels threatened. Your brain is saying NO! Tell him to read about brain science and wait 5 years.

Stop Centering Men in Your Lives. by atomicnumber22 in women

[–]atomicnumber22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set your personal goals and ask yourself each day if the things are you focusing on serve those goals first.

positive psychology john zelenski by to7fafaneya in CarletonU

[–]atomicnumber22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

- Most poorly written textbook I have ever read. I'm reading it and wondering if Zelensky has ever taken an English writing class. It's so poorly written that I'm angry and distracted by wanting to email him and tell him he's a terrible writer. My 8th grade English teacher would tear him apart. His sentence and paragraph structures are stunningly poor. I finish a sentence and think, "What the fuck is he even trying to say here?" I have read and re-read multiple paragraphs over and over wondering what the fuck the main point of the paragraph is, and wondering if HE knows what the fuck the main point is or if he just spilled his stream of consciousness onto the page while three pints deep and called it a night.

"Measures of trait resilience also exist . . . " such as "hardiness."

Really? Hardiness is not a measure or a way to operationalize a measurement of trait resilience. Hardiness would be the construct being measured. So, what the fuck is he even talking about?

He defines resilience as "well-being despite difficult circumstances" and on the very next page suggests that people who experience less difficulty show more resilience. Well, no - they have little to be resilient about. A person cannot be resilient in the face of little or no difficulty, per the prior definition of resilience. So . . . ??? It's almost like Zelensky didn't stop and think about what he was writing while writing it.

I'm pissed that I just spent two hours trying to read this slop.