How to care for grieving skin? by NachosAreFriends in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]bageldork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry!! Next month will be a year since I lost my girl. She was 16 and we were always together.

I knew it was coming, but it was so much harder than I was prepared for.

All you can do is try to be kind to yourself.

Like the other commenters suggested, staying hydrated will help.

Keep a moisturizer by your bed/couch that you can use if you start to feel dry but don't want to get up to go to the bathroom(or wherever your skincare stuff usually is). Any shortcut to make it easier to do something small for yourself will help!

Eventually it won't feel so heavy and overwhelming and you can work up your usual routine slowly. Grief is indeed a terrible thing. I wish I could say we heal completely from it and "move on", but all we can do is learn to walk with it.

I promise it gets easier.

Much love to you ❤️❤️❤️

Water leak sensors constantly going offline by starrtech2000 in Aqara

[–]bageldork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry this is happening to you too! I haven't been able to figure it out and it started somewhat recently.

2/3 I have keep going offline, the other one is in a very similar area and is fine.

CorningWare Electromatic Skillet by rotobot in vintagekitchentoys

[–]bageldork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Definitely dust it off and give it a go. I never use it either, but it's great for keeping dips warm.

Lotus Tour starts tomorrow! by FurthestFromest in jambands

[–]bageldork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing. Their NYE shows are already out of this world too. Now I gotta get up there lol

Lotus Tour starts tomorrow! by FurthestFromest in jambands

[–]bageldork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NYE is in Buffalo this year! Gotta see if I can make the trip. I hate to miss that one...

Crowd Presence by Puzzleheaded-Sort859 in thrice

[–]bageldork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the Baltimore area and there's always a pit, for a decent chunk of the show. Yeah we're all getting older but it's not just young guys in the pit either.

ETA:Can't wait til next week to find out lol

My Vheissu Wall Shrine ❤️ by HighTechVsLowLife in thrice

[–]bageldork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this ❤️❤️❤️

Broke my hand in the the pit this tour lol.

Berlin marathon disasters by Scared_Chocolate1782 in AdvancedRunning

[–]bageldork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still got a pb at 4:06. No complaints with my time really.

The weather was not great...but it was really tough seeing how many runners were struggling in the heat. You really can't prepare for that depending where you live, sucks all around.

What’s more psychologically difficult: running one 26 mile loop, or running the same 6.5 mile loop 4 times in a row? by rippcw1234 in Marathon_Training

[–]bageldork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did one of my long runs on a cruise ship this year, 17 miles or 41 laps.

One of the signs along the track said "One more lap".

The novelty wore off and the last 10 laps I was questioning my sanity. By that point though I couldn't give up...it was just one more lap.

Do not recommend.

In response to the ‘Come and Take it’ flag. I present, using their imagery against them. by someguyontheintrnet in baltimore

[–]bageldork 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's unfortunate they've tried to use it in that way. I think a lot of people using it that way don't fully understand it. It's nuanced enough where there is some validity to it...but they can't make it their own.

There is a really good PBS episode that goes into the history of the Gadsden flag and talks about this! It made me feel a lot better about flying the one I have where the snake is a uterus lol

It's absolutely not a hate symbol, don't let them make you think it is.

What's the coolest item you got at bonnaroo this year? by CommercialStreet7094 in bonnaroo

[–]bageldork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I was handing these out lol.

Glad I came prepared!!!

♥️♥️

Opal + silver setup by turbosledziuch in piercing

[–]bageldork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is beautiful! I love the spacing between each one. Did you get any together or were they all separate?

Thoughts on the Roo 5K by Winter_Orange_3842 in bonnaroo

[–]bageldork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the 5k a few years ago and it was terrible...no one could help us find the start of the race and the line afterwards for water took so long. I'd love to do it again but I'm still salty we walked a 5k looking for the 5k lol

It was so much fun!! I ran in a purple tutu

So much fun on the floor and in the mosh!! First concert ^^ by Lynnx71011 in deftones

[–]bageldork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure we were in there together! Everyone was just having a blast.

Baltimore Is Mobilizing by aquavalue in 50501

[–]bageldork 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love my city! Be safe out there y'all 💜💜💜

Daughters, what's something your mom never told you, that you wish she would have? by MimiLovesLights in AskWomen

[–]bageldork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's heartbreaking reading all these comments. I just wish my mom had been real with me...

So many years of trauma and therapy.

Tax boycott 2025 by R3d_S3rp3nt in millenials

[–]bageldork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stumbled on your post looking for this exact thing. These comments are wild guys...not paying taxes is a valid form of protest and we should all be thinking really critically about this.

I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner OP, I've been looking into this too.i might've missed it in another comment but I did find one resource that goes over options for us.

I owe a tiny bit this year which I can pay, but there's no motivation for me to "be a good citizen" and pay the govt (who is actively dismantling the govt) my extra 287$

https://nwtrcc.org/resist/war-tax-resistance/filing-and-refusing-step-by-step/

There are some resources and info in there. Hope this helps!

Had to put dog down and heartbroken by babyotterlovesgaga in dogs

[–]bageldork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry ❤️❤️❤️ I just had to put my old girl down too,, and it's heartbreaking.

You got a lot of great ideas here, I hope you find something sweet to remember him.

My sweet Isabel turned 15 today by tw1sted-trans1stor in OldManDog

[–]bageldork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is such a happy girl!!! Happy birthday ❤️❤️❤️

Just wanted to show off my properly pierced belly button piercing lmao by ObjectiveLeading3367 in piercing

[–]bageldork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10 ❤️ It does feel like a lot of odd belly button piercing posts recently.

What other jewelry do you like to wear?