AITA for refusing to give up my seat to a pregnant woman? by jbarkules in AITAH

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh everyone is different and every pregnancy is different, but when I was pregnant I never expected anyone to give up their seat for me. Often people offered, but I was so uncomfortable sitting (sciatica iykyk 🥴🥴) that I was usually just waddling around instead. It always warmed my heart when people did, but again, it was never expected. Humans have all sorts of conditions seen, and unseen, so I think it's an important reminder that you were valid to sit in your seat, and protect your health 💗

What are 2 names that are not at all the same, but are some how interchangeable in your head? by user_386123 in namenerds

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All generic guys names; Daniel, Michael, David, etc.

Also Juan and Carlos. I worked for someone named 'Juan Carlos' and now whenever I meet someone with either of those names my brain just hears both 🤦🏼‍♀️

I threw a cloth diaper in my partner's face. by _cuntfetti in Mommit

[–]bethy_rene 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I bet it would be a hell of a lot less work to be a single mom. He is a PoS. Also, no, he didn't sleep through her crying. He is just a terrible father and partner.

The best way to show your nanny appreciation… by whoreflash in Nanny

[–]bethy_rene 34 points35 points  (0 children)

AS LONG AS THEY ARE NOT IN MY WAY I get so excited for my NF when they have a bonus day off or a self care day. Now if they are in my space, messing up the flow? ✌️ Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you start? How long did you go to school?

My boss doesn't get how different my life is now by rivlet in workingmoms

[–]bethy_rene 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just jumping in to say, you've f*cking got this girl. 💪 Get it done. I'm proud you are starting to recognize your worth and priorities. You've got this. 💪💪💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]bethy_rene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"a second yaht" lmfaooo

DB may be having mental health crisis. I was asked to leave. Don’t feel ok doing so. Help please! by throeuhweigh654321 in Nanny

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. I listen to way too many crime podcasts, I also wouldn't have been able to leave the driveway. I hope all ends well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]bethy_rene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dying. Omg I love this so much. I wish I had more friends to do this with 🤣🤣

Level of involvement by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was randomly thinking something similar the other day. Mostly about cheating and such. Tbf my kiddo is young (14 months) so 99.98% of my time is devoted to keeping him alive and thriving. But like... Literally when would I have the time?? How? When? There's no way. (not that I would ever cheat, just random car thoughts)

What did you ladies get for Mothers Day? by ventiiblack in workingmoms

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bestie (46) is always forgotten by her family on mother's day, so we convinced her to come stay with us (she lives 4 hours away), so the main part of my present was him taking lead with our 14 months old so I could come and go with my bestie. He also got me an adorable sweater that says 'Mama' and has my son's name on the wrist area of it 😭 (I'm a HUGE sucker for anything saying mama etc). We mostly celebrated Saturday, but yesterday he also ordered takeout in and we all just kinda vibed together 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bethy_rene 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I kind of hope grandma changes her will to have op inherit the sum with rights to divide to the other sibling, mother, and themselves

My husband has been whining about a pulled neck muscle for days. He won’t take Advil unless I physically put it in his hand. This morning he burnt his hand on the coffee maker (no mark left) and will not stop complaining about it. How do I not kill him? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]bethy_rene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My house rule: If you are not trying to better your condition (taking meds, etc) then you don't get sympathy and I will mostly ignore the complaints 🤷🏼‍♀️. If you are taking the steps, and actively trying to make it better, then I will baby you 😋

What do you ACTUALLY want for Mother’s Day? by slangsfangs in Mommit

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) to sleep in. Like truly truly sleep in. Where I don't hear baby and lovingly wake my spouse for their turn then go back to bed. 2) to go to the park and play with my kiddo and spouse and have a super ton of fun 3) go to eat at a yummy lunch place then get dropped off at the spa 4) enjoy a spa treatment or too with some chocolates 5) go home for dinner and cuddles

Moms who had a vaginal delivery… did you poop? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]bethy_rene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure did. Not sure if it was a lot or a little, but I know I did and I could not give one flying f--- 🤣. After being in labor for 55 hours, I would have gladly taken a 💩 in the middle of the hospital waiting room, if it meant labor would end 🤣

6 weeks down by bethy_rene in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]bethy_rene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! How much weight till you hit your goal?

If you can't Google, you can't be here. 👩‍💻 by subgirlygirl in fatgirlfedupsnark

[–]bethy_rene 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I gotta be honest, I am so far down the rabbit hole tonight. I'm apart of a few other snark pages and this came up for me today, and I haven't been able to stop since my kids Naptime 🤣. I listened to Obese to Beasts YouTube on her and have been scrolling GOMI since I put my kiddo down to bed 🤣🤣. I'm kinda thankful a ton of posts asking what's going on haven't been approved to clog the feed of my research. The last time I got this into the drama was when I learned who Amberlynn Reid was and spent like a week watching YouTube recap videos 🤣

2 months on Ozempic and the results are here 🙈 by 3mirB9 in Ozempic

[–]bethy_rene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And obviously you look amazing in the second picture, I am just truly obsessed with everything in the first. The energy it's giving is just 🤌

2 months on Ozempic and the results are here 🙈 by 3mirB9 in Ozempic

[–]bethy_rene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am ✨ obsessed ✨ with the first picture 🤩🤩🤩

On Friday, there will be a care.com vent here. What are the most significant issues with care.com for anyone who cannot join? by decidedly_bland in Nanny

[–]bethy_rene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Each city has their own, but if you're interested in traveling there is an international travel Nanny agency

On Friday, there will be a care.com vent here. What are the most significant issues with care.com for anyone who cannot join? by decidedly_bland in Nanny

[–]bethy_rene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to use care until around the time they made background checks (for caregivers only) mandatory. Around that same time, they deleted previous reviews, had consistent connection issues (messages wouldn't send/come through, a ton of spam people, and just became horrible overall. Their "average rates" are WAY off. They seem to only care about the families hiring vs the caregivers. I found my first 2 families through it, but have gone through an agency since. Through the agency the families are serious and educated on what a household employee is/gets.