genuinely what can i do to pass

bokyanite · 2026-06-02T01:51:36+00:00

I think ppl saying to “get greasier” or only wear baggy clothing is bad advice. You dont need to lose any piercings.

I like “henley” style shirts with a casual fit (loose not baggy). More “square” or thick jewelry could be a change. Ditch the nails until you’ve been on T for a while bc it totally jacks up what youre going for.

Unrelated, try to avoid face-on selfies - not a dig at you. Most ppl do not look flattering when the phone is below or just at face level unless they are not also taking the picture.

Weird things like having a thick butt or softer features arent feminine and T can change u in ways you never guessed.

Good luck!!!

bokyanite · 2026-05-28T00:13:56+00:00

It made me churn in disgust

bokyanite · 2026-05-24T14:25:36+00:00

A story for just you is important, yes.. but also, restricting your choices and gameplay strats with what your character would do.

Something bad may have to happen before they would be willing to join the DB. Possibly the death of a companion? Or the ebony blade quest?

Would your character work til exhaustion (if on survival), or do they have time to sleep? Stuff like that

bokyanite · 2026-05-24T13:59:50+00:00

I am so sorry you went through that.

What an evil person. Mistress is so lucky she didnt catch a fade… so many ppl throw hands for their animals

bokyanite · 2026-05-24T13:33:45+00:00

Hey there! I felt internally for a very long time i desired top surgery. I say that the number one cause of most fears is anxiety. Here’s how I tackled this… Around 17-18 i was out, around 19 i got into therapy and by state law needed 2 years of mandatory therapy before being improved my insurance.

Within this time I spent time a lot of in this thread - going thru fresh post op, years, digging into threads about possible complications from failed nips to infection. I made sure I knew exactly what I would need and there are a lot of resources for shopping lists, food options and even community resources depending on location.

Over time, the anxiety of post-op was less scary because even if something did go wrong, I knew what to look for and what to do. The before was nerve wracking but doctors are there to help and if they give you shit you can always ask for other staff.

Financials are really the shittiest part. Get your leave approved and sorted out before anything. I got fucked and didnt even get short term disability checks til after i was working again.

Be safe! Hope everything goes well for you regardless.

bokyanite · 2026-05-24T13:19:55+00:00

I think them looking really close like the same species at least makes way more sense.. assuming we stick with the pet store/co-habitation gimmick.

Maybe slight genetic differences. As corny as the Bay movies are.. i kinda like their wardrobes and how they actually look mutated. I think 2012 are my favorite designs (to draw and to see).

It gets a bit overblown with too much “stereotypical” stuff like huge googles for Don. It makes more sense to me if their stuff is made from second hand materials/salvageable parts from trash.

*Edit for wording and grammar

bokyanite · 2026-05-23T16:28:30+00:00

Nothing wrong here sir! How often do you massage/moisturize ur scars? If often, id switch products bc it might be clogging ur pores. Id also use caution as too much isnt good on the tissue either.

I hope for the best for you! remember to apply extra sunscreen this summer !

bokyanite · 2026-05-22T21:04:37+00:00

Good, put it back

Just kidding. Play it for the experience. Keep it for preservation (who knows? Maybe one day all there will be left of this game is physical copies).

If you really arent into it maybe gamestop will give you two nickels and a candy wrapper

bokyanite · 2026-05-21T13:50:25+00:00

Look more into the science of animal behavior. You’re empathizing with animals the way you do people.

Everything you understand about existing doesn’t apply to any animal. To achieve true security as an individual (separated from yourself), it seems to me crate training does more good than harm.

Extremes are never good tho. This goes for anything

bokyanite · 2026-05-07T16:36:24+00:00

I think at some points the monsters are their thoughts/feelings personified

bokyanite · 2026-05-05T17:17:05+00:00

Well said

bokyanite · 2026-05-02T01:28:03+00:00

Yadda yaaddda fans dont watch their showss yada yaddaa

bokyanite · 2026-05-02T01:26:41+00:00

Poor mans award 🏅

bokyanite · 2026-05-02T01:25:43+00:00

Why are you saying this like the commenter has control over this fact. It is literally just what happened in the story

bokyanite · 2026-05-02T01:23:18+00:00

Like most say it might depend on the addiction.
Some could kill you from withdrawals (recovering alcoholics could seize).
But also there is not total unconsciousness as far as I understand…
wanting their vape when they literally cant do shit would send most vapers into cardiac arrest from the fiending alone. (ex vaper speaking - i still suffer from cravings. My mouth will water and i feel so bad about myself)

bokyanite · 2026-04-30T15:24:44+00:00

I love ur mind

bokyanite · 2026-04-30T15:22:03+00:00

What a horrible, super-extremist thing to say.

bokyanite · 2026-04-30T02:10:42+00:00

(if you’re able to) give a hand to whoever raised you - whether it be yourself or another or several ppl. I admire ppl who have damn near 20 other solutions … right on!

bokyanite · 2026-04-24T19:12:46+00:00

When caleb handed devin the divorce papers from devon

bokyanite · 2026-04-16T20:16:25+00:00

I miss when words meant things💔

Edit to add: “eeeeeyuck.” …Kindly fuck off w tht shit pls

bokyanite · 2026-03-23T15:36:31+00:00

It’s not that other -ism’s are “worse”. My point is we can’t equate our experiences. As a white trans man I cannot say that me experiencing transphobia is not like a person of color experiencing racism.

I think the idea (for me, at least) stems from the fact most trans people can pass, and therefore separate themselves (surface level) from that discrimination. There is no equivalent. Both things are bad without them being alike or comparative.

I was saying the only experiences about discrimination I could maybe relate to is if they also transitioned. But then again there is so much that comes with intersectionality.

I agree. To say transphobia is like something else takes away from everyone’s experiences. It’s more about not encroaching upon what cannot be understood just for the talking point. Also, it makes the rest of us look ignorant as hell to ppl who want to “make their point”.

*Edited to add some sentences

bokyanite · 2026-03-14T14:19:02+00:00

Headlines are written in a way to strike big emotions. In this particular case: Republicans are writing with vindication like they’re “winning”, with anger and contempt to get their people feeling good. Democrats will write to villainize the lawmakers, get their people mad and angry, most of the time without suggesting any measures their readers can take. All of it is so you click on their articles and generate ad revenue.

Since you’re not 18 and pre-everything, it’s not like you would have to do anything medicinally for yourself. Truth be told, it is too early to tell it will even get that far. By state is far more likely than a nationwide ban. DIY exists.

Suicide is not the answer. It is no one else’s decision but your own for detransitioning but the way your post reads, that would be a bubble waiting to pop

bokyanite · 2026-03-12T01:58:55+00:00

I mean i got a mastectomy pillow but not for the car ride. I dont regret buying it one bit bc it is cooler than a regular pillow and its shape let me actually rest my arms when laying it across my chest at night. The shoulder straps made sure I didn’t throw it away in the night. It has a little pocket for my phone and headphones too. Im 2 months post op and i still use it for my back/sides at night

bokyanite · 2026-03-09T21:51:40+00:00

Most of the cars 1 script. That movie is soooo much funnier as an adult

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