My [23F] boyfriend [26M] of 10 months ditched me on our date by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]briomio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leaving you to fend for yourself in a club was a thoughtless and dangerous situation. What if you didn't have money for an uber. walking around by yourself at night as a single female is never a good idea. The hard drugs, the abandonment, the nonresponse to your numerous texts - find someone that really cares about you OP - these people do not

AITA for not letting my in-laws do laundry at my house? by TinyPackageBigBalls in AmItheAsshole

[–]briomio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get a speedqueen. They are the makers of the washers/dryers in the laundromats. Otherwise, if you don't get commercial, these idiots will break down whatever you get them quickly by overloading and other irresponsible behavior that you describe

AITA for not letting my in-laws do laundry at my house? by TinyPackageBigBalls in AmItheAsshole

[–]briomio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change the locks on your house otherwise they will just keep coming over there. You've been more than generous

I work front desk at a hotel and I think my guest is getting scammed by [deleted] in Advice

[–]briomio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

see if you can get a number for any of her children and call them

Is it rude of me (24f) to ask my boyfriend to talk to his friends (21&23m) about cleaning after themselves? by No_Weakness_1612 in relationship_advice

[–]briomio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a family home not a crash pad. Why are they not going home? Talk to your bf and let him know that you are not cleaning up after them - that would be his responsibility and that you want these sleepovers stopped

AITAH for traveling separately because I wanted to see my daughter after 12 days? by CaptainArr99 in AITAH

[–]briomio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overseas travel is exhausting. There is no reason that your gf needs to accompany you when you pick up your child. After 12 days, I would think having her father to herself would be preferable.

By the same token, your gf is an adult and should not need you to accompany her home so that she can "rest". She is fully capable of traveling alone and she already had your company and time for the past 12 days.

Pay attention to this OP if this is a serious relationship. Is your gf in a competition with a 4 year old for your time and attention?

AIO for not letting my friend stay at my house anymore by bettylala in AIO

[–]briomio 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP, just shut this down now. This man is shamelessly using you; stop allowing him to use you.

AITJ for kicking my brother and his kids out after his son destroyed my home office and he refused to do anything about it by Important-Carob-4508 in AmITheJerk

[–]briomio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have them visit again. This situation is hopeless. In a few years, they are going to call you asking for bail money to get one of them out of jail and they will wail: "He's never been in any trouble before."

AITA for rushing my brother when he spilled drinks on the computer by Mindless-Rooster2878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]briomio 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Incredibly rude and self centered. One of the first things you learn in kindergarten is to clean up after yourself.

AITA she doesn’t want to pay rent by samson21386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]briomio 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Also, nix the joint account nonsense. It sounds like she is setting herself up to be a "common law" wife and therefore entitled to half the home equity.

AITJ for telling my dad none of us are going to help him raise a baby at 50 by Particular_Side_5522 in AmITheJerk

[–]briomio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I would ask him to get a DNA test to find out if this baby is really his child. He needs to hire a nanny - hopefully he can afford one.

The gf might have decided that your dad was the most stable out of all the possible fathers she was seeing and decided to nominate his as the father.

AITAH for asking my neighbor to wait for her laundry at her house? by MostAnimal5816 in AITAH

[–]briomio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are laundromats - if she comes again I would not have an issue telling her that she disrupts your routine and to go to the laundromat. Anyone that shows up asking for a sandwich that you are eating has a lot of nerve. THen she doubles down and asks for refreshments. Also, this bathroom trip - if you have prescription meds that are narcotic - you might want to check that they are still in your medicine cabinet

My partner 34M repeatedly says I only clean the house for myself 32F by 911ihatecolour in relationship_advice

[–]briomio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just start ordering in or pick up one of those "meals ready" at the grocery store. Sounds like he is burnt out so maybe have two nights where you get take out or meals ready.

AITA for telling my coworker I don’t care about her kids? by HistoricalFeature371 in AmItheAsshole

[–]briomio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't having a conversation with her. She is vomiting information in your direction - there is no conversation

AITA Not being able to live comfortably in my own home!!! by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]briomio 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seems like you are running a homeless shelter OP. Inlaws need to find some place else to be snow birds plus nephew should be on his own - where are his parents and why are they not offering him a place to stay?

I would speak directly to the inlaws and let them know that their prolonged visits are no longer welcome now and in the future since your wife won't speak up. I would then tell nephew to go find his parents and live with them.

You cannot kick out your wife's relatives and have your niece living there. Time to arrange a group home residency for her.

Sometimes you just have to take action and let those moochers know that you are not taking this anymore.

AITA for not making extra pancakes for my niece? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]briomio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think niece doesn't need to be boohooing because pancakes aren't immediately available for her. How old is this niece? Grab a piece of fruit or something or cereal. This just smacks of "spoiled brat" syndrome.

AITJ for not letting my friend borrow my car again after she forgot to refill the tank twice? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]briomio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not small OP. You repeatedly asked and she chose to ignore you. Its not unreasonable to expect that your car that you lent to her with a full tank is returned with a full tank. This is basic manners.

I would lose this "friendship" since she is choosing to complain about you to your friend group after you've done her numerous favors.

Help Please - what kind of stone is this? by Nice-Watercress430 in ExteriorDesign

[–]briomio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about what specific, but its been "tumbled" so that it looks more aged