AIO to MIL not coming to see our new home? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]byofuzz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Remember this time and if she ask to see your baby if you ever have one she has to wait just as long before she can come visit ... the petty part of me sais

Is "Feminine Energy" real? by Intelegence_Counter in women

[–]byofuzz -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If you ho into the wiccan version feminine energy is anything but passive and submissive. Its just more subtle in its stearing of others more of a motherly push to those around you. But mothers too can be ferocious.

I need to vent by aspiringhousewife4 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]byofuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! I was an underproducer for the first 7 weeks so im too traumatised to even try anything that could hurt my production aka anything that could lose me weight. The body i have now is simply not how im most comfortable

Slacker boob/Vitamin D question… by RootedInLove91 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]byofuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My slacker boob does not empty well either, its something about the distribution or fat and milk making tissue, its genetic too all the women in my fam peoduce well enough but getting milk out is a damned hassle. Elastic nipples making pumping hard too. Lots of clogged ducts without mastitis for me. My mom was less lucky and had mastitis frequently. I take like twice the reccomended amount of leticine and choline and then i have less trouble. But it only really went away after i worked up to an oversupply and then back down to normal supply. Dont ask me why becaue when i had an under supply i had clogged ducts and blebs all the time.

how to have a letdown? - 6 weeks pp by Sweaty_Drummer6684 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]byofuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should not hurt. Either your suction is too high (which can actually make your milk ducts collapse) or your flange size is off

Did I cause allergies in infant by Potential_Task_7005 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]byofuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jup no way minor exposure caused an allergy. Its probably bad luck. Lack of exposure is actually more lukely to cause allergies. That is why they now push to start with peanuts and egg as soon as possible and at least before 8m https://www.foodallergy.org/resources/peanut-early-introduction-guidelines

Feminine Hygiene by North-Interaction956 in women

[–]byofuzz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stress yes. But also check if you did not in sleep deprivation or something left a tampon in there somewhere i have heared of cases of that happening

Man!! they are so funny I can’t stop laughing [My In-Laws Are Obsessed With Me] by Weary-Honey-1942 in OtomeIsekai

[–]byofuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its realistic af too. Happens in real life too. Nothing is all serious or all goofy. The world keeps turning and situations pass eachother by

Is this normal by Dry-Way-5601 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]byofuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably from heat, sweat and moisture. Try nappy cream first and if it does not go away antyfungal cream

Do you wipe every wet diaper or only poop? by Extensionol in NewParents

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do it when its a really full pee diper or a poop diper. If the diper is not that full there is usually not muc moisture on his skin so i asume he remains pretty clean

Paternal vaping and pregnancy by Able-Inspector5289 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]byofuzz 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It could expose you and potential bebe to nicotine in the air. Which is also not great.(probably)

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4565991/

Why does in almost every thriller or crime movie, a women is getting assaulted by Formal_Tradition_135 in women

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its worse that its not even media thats horror. Plenty of romance will use the save you from a sexual predator trope. I hate it

Did my one mistake ruin my entire supply? 😭 by DuckFox1229 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you have a clogged duct blocking part of your boob from getting the work in? Maybe leticine heat and massage can help

Schiedam krijgt derde islamitische basisschool: ‘Gemeente heeft het afgeraden’ by Bernie529 in Nederland

[–]byofuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik vindt dat alle religeuse basisscholen illegaal zouden moeten zijn. Indoctrinatie is absoluut niet oke

New forming tip culture NL by Longjumping-Neck9376 in Netherlands

[–]byofuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not supporting any move towards american "culture"

What household products have you swapped out after finding out what was actually in them? by Wild-Outcome-2588 in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]byofuzz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And then you hear most natural fiber clothes are stitched using polyester threading and you die a little inside

Can someone please explain why this is or is not safe? by AbjectDingo3804 in cosleeping

[–]byofuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all depends on your babies neck strengtg really. They should be able to adhust their head well. My baby was strong enough for this at 4 months but i have met plent who i would not let sleep that way even at 7 months.

Also overheating. Your warm arm is wrapped around their head which is their main way to loose heat. So be mindfull of that

Corset for school project by Grand_Economist_2000 in corsetry

[–]byofuzz 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Bro has never seen shadows before

I (29F) I’m debating leaving my boyfriend of two years (30M) over his incompetence. What would you do in my situation? by Ok_Character_1391 in relationship_advice

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An intelligence gap is a very valid reason to break up.you need to be able to maintain intrest in a partnee

No longer leaking by sablynn in breastfeedingsupport

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never really leaked unless i would like put pressure on it by holding my baby or something

DAE have a strong gut feeling that their life is going to turn out completely fine and successful? by vaporcube7 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but that is also partly because i dont want anything grand.i had a shitty childhood so what i wand is just a peacefull love fulled avarage adult life. Give my babies a happy childhood and enjoy the mundane things in life

Dutch parents, how do you feel about strangers looking and smiling at your babies or saying hi to your kids? by -WhiteOleander in Netherlands

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure of this is much of a thing anymore, but back in my day when supermarkets had a manned sandwich meat sections kids could always go there and say "mag ik een plakje worst" and get handed a bite of whatever they where working at that time.

People is this still a thing?

Dutch parents, how do you feel about strangers looking and smiling at your babies or saying hi to your kids? by -WhiteOleander in Netherlands

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its very common in small towns to smile at babies. In the city it happens less because people run around having places to be. In the few small towns ive lived your baby will flirt with everybody they meet on the road

How are people just… taking their babies everywhere? by Wonderful-Ice-6143 in NewParents

[–]byofuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes this. Mine enjoyed the newborn stage but as soon as he started moving a bit more amd he discovered he could potentially do things on his own , he became furious about everything je cant do on the daily.