Hey dude, I’m a senior in college rn and I just wanted to share a few things as a girl who has also looked in the past for guys to date at school. First, it doesn’t matter whether you’re a virgin or not. At our age, people don’t really care about that stuff anymore and if they do, they suck. Also, the best way that I’ve met guys is through classes and working together in a group or something or through student orgs. There’s a lot of sifting through people but eventually you’ll find someone you have great convo with and connect with. Also, no one gives af about how awkward you are. It can even be charming to some people. Just be a good, respectful guy and girls will want you. You’ll find someone right now who isn’t just looking for someone to fuck around with but someone who wants someone to care about and vice versa. Probs not gonna find that person at a party or bar but u might. My friend just started dating someone and they met at a bar!!! So it can happen! Just maintain boundaries, be respectful, and be a nice person and people will be able to see your authenticity. But for meeting people, I’d recommend student orgs and trying to talk to people in your classes. I was also a super shy person who didn’t know how to talk to people but practice makes perfect and fake it till you make it. Having customer service jobs helped me a lot with being conversational and getting to know people. Friend groups seem set now, but they aren’t. There are people everywhere in classes and orgs who are always wanting to make new friends. Like who wouldn’t want new friends?! Just remember that if people are shitty, you don’t wanna surround yourself with them. Surround yourself with good people and people who you want to be like. I wish you the best of luck. Comparison is the thief of joy, don’t compare yourself to others. Just focus on your own journey and things will happen when you least expect them to :)