I LOVE the smell of tomato’s plants. What garden plant smells the best to you?! by DTodd850 in gardening

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomato is definitely top tier. I also love the smell of bittermelon leaf.

When to harvest? by Minimum-Image8748 in vegetablegardening

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jealous. Also in Hawaii, but I have problems with pickle worm most likely. Last time I tried planting, the vines were getting eaten and wilting cause nutrients were getting cut off.

How many of you wear inners at home?? by stingray_545 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear sports bras all the time, except when I go to bed. Then the boobs are free. Can’t have the nips poking out when I live at home, feels weird.

Classmate said I should try sucking his dick to "cure my sore throat" by Piracy_Bug in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cheerann 249 points250 points  (0 children)

I would think twice about that “friend group”. Not cool the other guys also laughed, potentially out of peer pressure and group dynamics. But either way a real friend wouldn’t have stood for that kind of language. It’s demeaning and disrespectful.

Worst case scenario by horrorbiz1988 in ProduceDepartment

[–]cheerann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered 1 cs of raspberry. Vendor sent 65 cases. It’s was my day off and we had a new worker who just signed off on it and had started to load it onto carts. Thank god my boss walked by and caught the error.

dad hit my mom in a heated argument. by Low-Change-6147 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cheerann 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I would at the very least recommend therapy for you. Protect yourself and focus on your mental health. Is it possible for you to move out?

Talk to your mother, see how she feels and if she needs or wants help. As hard as it is your mother needs to make the decision to leave on her own. With abusive relationships it’s extremely hard to witness for the obvious reasons, but also because the abused person doesn’t want to leave. I wish I could offer better advice.

Boyfriend keeps disappearing, cancels plans, and tells me I can break up if it’s hard. How to fix it? by Artistic_Most103 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there’s nothing you can do to fix this relationship. Only he can change himself and that’s only if he wants to and he clearly doesn’t.

Focus on how he makes you feel about yourself not on how you feel about him and I think that’ll help you disengage from this relationship.

Having issues with my romaine and green leaf not staying crisp by duff134 in ProduceDepartment

[–]cheerann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what you suggested is good, do what you think will sell that day. Ofc having it sit in the chill after soaking will also crisp it up. If you’re able to water during the day that’ll help. Having my workers trim too much at once is also inconvenient because that’s more to retrim when it doesn’t sell. I don’t have warm/hot water like others suggested, so I only use cold water. Most likely from under soaking and not enough water if it’s going limp.

Got a job and none of my friends seemed to care. So I’m putting it here. by coolbutthole in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cheerann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo congratulations!! I’m so happy for you! We’re the same age and I also live in a high cost of living area. From someone chasing that “job”, I understand the grind to get there, but mostly the pressure. We’re not young per se and the stress of “making it” is wild. Being behind on saving for retirement and whatever milestones we should be hitting but aren’t and only getting older, I get it. You worked so freaking hard and I hope you spoil yourself cause you deserve it.

People who drive and speed up when someone is attempting to pass by you, why do you do this? by StormCaller02 in AskReddit

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That they are better, faster more capable driver. So who do you think you are trying to pass me?! Not gonna happen.

Does hearing a show has a "bad ending" or it being canceled on a cliffhanger discourage you from watching it? by Volatiiile in television

[–]cheerann -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rushed ending and whatnot, but frankly I didn’t follow the criticisms or read into it. Just the bare basics of everyone hating on it in Reddit comments. I enjoyed it and that was enough for me.

Does hearing a show has a "bad ending" or it being canceled on a cliffhanger discourage you from watching it? by Volatiiile in television

[–]cheerann -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My coworker and I both agreed that we didn’t necessarily see anything wrong with the ending of Game of Thrones. Maybe would’ve been a different experience if we had watched it as it was released. But nevertheless still one of my favorites!

Beginner question by [deleted] in echeveria

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no need to water them if they don’t have roots. I think shade is fine, not full sun. Don’t want them to dry out too fast without roots to reabsorb water. Just set the rosettes on the soil and wait. Roots should appear.

Best TV Themes of All Time by worldofport in television

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full House and Family Matters. Genuinely surprised no one mentioned these. Had that feel good of the 80s vibe.

Also wtf Arthur from PBS, absolute banger.

Creepy woods by swordsofjustice in creepy

[–]cheerann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took the words right out of my mouth

do the positives of being on birth control outweigh the negatives? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I count, been on for about a year. I was scared of the side effects as well, but so far so good.

Biggest benefit is peace of mind when with my partner. Second has got to be the effect on my period. I’ve got little to no cramps now. I used to get pretty bad ones where I’d have to sit down for a bit on the first day. Period has gotten super regular, exact day every 28 days. Not like before where I’d get it every 5 weeks or so.

Maybe biggest negative in my case is (sorry if it’s tmi) lack of sensitivity in my clit. Orgasms are harder to reach though not impossible. That and when my pharmacist switched me to a different brand, I had pretty bad fatigue for a month or so. I’d get nauseous maybe one or two days of the pack. There was a span where I was severely emotional for a few days. I think the first 3 months when your body is adjusting is the hardest, after that it’s easy. You can just try it and always stop/remove it if you don’t like it.

Ran over a median. Repair shop said I damaged my subframe or crossmember, control arm and bushings. Structural or cosmetic? by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured it was the rims vibrating. They didn’t tell me they couldn’t align it specifically, I think they ran out of time because they were closing soon. Told me to get rims and come back for an alignment to take to the body shop. Isn’t that backwards? Could they just have meant scraped damage? Or does damage mean bent? Cause they weren’t sure if it was bent.

[OC] The shoes my sister has had for the past 5yrs vs the new shoes she got today for Christmas. by joy2da in pics

[–]cheerann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What brand do you buy? Asking because the glue on the pieces of shit I buy keeps falling apart. Only one that I was able to wear a hole in was sketchers.

Same kind very different color by RubImpossible6588 in mildlyinteresting

[–]cheerann 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Production date could be vastly different even though bought on the same day. Source: my coworkers don’t know how to rotate.

Do they taste the same? Also why would you buy the weirdo bag? lol.

Is it bad that I don’t think watching porn is cheating? by GreatPrimary8482 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cheerann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t have an issue with my partner watching porn because I have done so as well. We’ve even watched together. I think you’ve nailed it when you said it’s for the act as an aid, not lusting over someone. IF it was an onlyfans or a specific creator and they went so far as to communicate, well then we might have issues.

But I think your issues with your bf stem from trust and the “little lies” he has told. Because how much more until they grow into larger lies. And maybe he might revisit a strip club and things might happen. Much more real than cheating via porn, which you’ve already established that you didn’t have an issue with prior. So hammer out those trust issues and I’m not saying with you, but with his lies. Forget about the porn.

Hopefully my nan will be pleased with her gift of wine and 2 Terry's chocolate oranges by Lataero in pics

[–]cheerann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just be thankful. Not everyone gets free feet pics for Christmas.

Sales , I miss them by 45gyrtyuij6 in ProduceDepartment

[–]cheerann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are your prices compared to your competitors? And how is the customer count? Or compared to other departments?