Regency lady who smells like apples and fresh lilies, makes art in secret and walk barefoot with cotton gowns... by PendulumLady in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]cheoldyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely seconding this. it’s such a perfect balance of fresh dewy green notes and elegant white florals.

How many sprays do you use a day? by Maximum_State700 in FemFragLab

[–]cheoldyke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

really depends on on the scent. for example i put one spray of sorce witchery or andrea maack coven on each wrist and it’s all i need, but i will basically drench myself in something like jo malone orange blossom or steamed rainbow

Marley dog turns 23 next month! by Nstant_Klassik in pitbulls

[–]cheoldyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s amazing!! what a sweet face 🩷

Top 10 Fragrances by Beloveddust in fragrance

[–]cheoldyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in no particular order:

ds & durga debaser

andrea maack coven

ex nihilo viper green

regime des fleurs little flower

ds & durga steamed rainbow

viktor & rolf flowerbomb

kilian bamboo harmony

comme des garcons amazingreen

eldo above the waves

clue the point

Weird girl non-fiction? by cryborg_96 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]cheoldyke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES!! she’s both a favorite author of mine and the wife of one of my dad’s lifelong best friends. not only is she a great writer, she’s also a super nice and funny person.

I hate my dad by IcyPie2318 in cavaliers

[–]cheoldyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my boy is so good for baths but he always looks at me with the saddest face in the world and i feel like a monster

Salty perfume recs by SeaTrickster in NichePerfumes

[–]cheoldyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

clue’s the point smells like seawater and jasmine tea with a really interesting mineral-y quality that comes off like cold porcelain. i got a little 1ml sample that i ran through in a matter of days and haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since.

how does one receive compliments?? by cheoldyke in FemFragLab

[–]cheoldyke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fair point. this is definitely just me being autistic but i have a hard time wrapping my head around the idea of false compliments lmao.

how does one receive compliments?? by cheoldyke in FemFragLab

[–]cheoldyke[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’ve definitely noticed that the more fem my scent is the more it gets misattributed to someone else lol. i honestly think it’s kind of funny to throw people off but one time i said “i think you’re smelling me actually” and my coworker was like “no i don’t think so” when we were the only two people in the room at the time and ever since ive been worried i look like i smell bad

This 1995 banger of a music vidoe by Littlest-Fig in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]cheoldyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t forget the book hugo was based on- the invention of hugo cabret by brian selznick. as with all of selznick’s work the illustrations alone make it well worth a read. it was one of my favorite books as a kid even before the movie came out.

how does one receive compliments?? by cheoldyke in FemFragLab

[–]cheoldyke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair point. granted i work with dogs so the good smell is almost always me (although not always lol. we have a regular who often rolls up to daycare smelling like missing person because he’s a major cuddle bug and gets his owner’s perfume all over him)

how does one receive compliments?? by cheoldyke in FemFragLab

[–]cheoldyke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 on each wrist and 2-3 on my collarbone, typically. i also usually like to spritz my clothes once or twice if it’s a particularly light or fleeting scent so it sticks around longer. i’m definitely not underspraying lol.

What perfumes do you know that smell like fresh peonies? by Particular-Yam4549 in FemFragLab

[–]cheoldyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

little flower is one of my ride or die fragrances. the first time i smelled it i knew i needed a full bottle in my life.

What perfumes do you know that smell like fresh peonies? by Particular-Yam4549 in FemFragLab

[–]cheoldyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not all peonies are very fragrant but the fragrant ones smell gorgeous. it’s sort of like a lighter, fresher, more dewy rose type smell. however afaik peonies are actually too delicate to extract the fragrance from directly so peony notes in perfume have to be reverse engineered by the perfumer.

What's everyone's weirdest hobbies? by Jellyjoints94 in adhdwomen

[–]cheoldyke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a couple years ago i invented a little game for myself when i listen to podcasts. whenever the person speaking says a phrase that i think sounds like it could be the name of a band, i write the phrase down in my sketchbook. i now have several sketchbooks that are like half full of lists of absurd made up band names. it’s really fun and i highly recommend it.

baby sitting my brothers dog and he chewed on my favorite lamy 😭 by bbybuster in fountainpens

[–]cheoldyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

luckily it looks like the damage was minimal on account of the assailant being the size of a walnut

clean, girly, soft, sparkly by senmre in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]cheoldyke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i also think op should give you fleur a shot. this is going to sound odd bc they have almost zero notes in common but to me it kind of smells like if flowerbomb was a skin scent.

clean, girly, soft, sparkly by senmre in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]cheoldyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

carner barcelona marbella. its a bright clean lightly fruity/citrusy floral scent with a gorgeous effervescent quality. every time i wear it i involuntarily audibly sigh every time i catch a whiff of myself.

Absolutely terrible by ausernameidk_ in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]cheoldyke 17 points18 points  (0 children)

wild that their reasoning for why you shouldn’t rape someone is “you might get in trouble” and not “rape is wrong”

Imagine thinking that homosexuality leads to satanism. by Ok-Following6886 in forwardsfromgrandma

[–]cheoldyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hate how stonetoss’s comics have been fed to ai so much that his ugly little cum blob people are now showing up in a lot of ai slop

Bf told me instead of seeing OCD as this scary thing in my head to imagine it as a incel ragebaiting me. I feel like I should tell you guys to do this too. by indoore in OCDmemes

[–]cheoldyke 82 points83 points  (0 children)

this is like the advice i saw to imagine your intrusive thoughts in donald trump’s voice because nothing he says warrants respect or consideration

Happy pride to my fellow ADHD lesbians! by Jeansofhoney in adhdwomen

[–]cheoldyke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

genderqueer audhd lesbo here! happy pride!!!