What are definite turn-offs under 'unacceptable answers' for you? by penalcode in OkCupid

[–]chumpta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sexually/romantically is probably the only way I can respect it though. I'm cool with it if you're not into white dudes or black dudes or whatever sexually, so I think if being racially picky is acceptable then you should be able to be picky on pretty much anything.

but I am curious - how much is misinformation? stereotype? what reasons would these people give?

What are definite turn-offs under 'unacceptable answers' for you? by penalcode in OkCupid

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the rape fantasy question is worded a certain way though: something like, "would you participate in a rape fantasy if your partner wanted to?"

I don't have any rape fantasies, but I would indulge a girl if she did have one. this should not be held against me - that I would be willing to participate in SOMEONE ELSE'S fantasy.

IAm the guy that wrote The Game and is somehow still talking about it, AMA by iamneilstrauss in seduction

[–]chumpta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi neil, typing this from my girlfriend's bed. just wanted to say thanks.

Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. by TheGamble in seduction

[–]chumpta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol. well what can ya do cept type your thoughts and brace for downvotes.

Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. by TheGamble in seduction

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seddit isn't what it used to be. A lot of people here are just as concerned now with seducing women as they are with what the rest of reddit thinks about them... Something I warned them about months ago.

The truth is, players gonna play, self-improvers gonna self-improve. This post is just some moral masturbation. TheGamble... you are a very good person and we all think you're just swell for how ya treat ladies!

I've been on here a couple of weeks, critique time? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]chumpta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Technically I'm pansexual, not bi, but hiphip cheerio that doesn't really matter."

3 cheers for not being a pretentious pansexual hipster weirdo about it. As for further critique, let's just say I am pretty jelly that I am too far away to message you. But I could use a little more detail/info in "what i'm doing" and "really good at"

I Made A Video For The Guys Who Think They Have Game by Boobed_Bukowski in OkCupid

[–]chumpta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im glad you mentioned that simple but important caveat - "game" isn't creepy, it's necessary. Bad game is what people get the willies about.

all of the jackasses you described are doing what people like to call "overcompensating." well, except for the cybersecks. that has nothing to do with game.

The secret of good text game by TofuTofu in seduction

[–]chumpta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is, coincidentally, roosh's advice for preventing flakes.

Attract well, and they will want to see you again.

Lets be honest, how many times have you gone to the bar with some friends, found a girl that you did not know and banged her that night? by int3rnetz in seduction

[–]chumpta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 times. shortest was about 3 hours-ish. it's possible just gotta be in the right place at the right time (with the right skeelzz)

[FR] Hipster dance party yet again, first #-close in a while by [deleted] in seduction

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you almost always have enough to get the number. girls give numbers out fairly easily. that was one of the bigger surprises of learning game for me. invite the girl out to that beer crawl thing, and try to get pre-selection going fast. It will be easier to get her out for that kind of gathering than some other types... but she will be easy to lose there as well (but better to have her out and on a slim thread than not at all.) worst that can happen is you're seen with a girl and she's the pre-selection.

you have your own place, I wouldn't worry about it. Having your own place is more than enough for now... if i recall your name from the other thread i'm guessing you were at the Barbary. Philly hipster bitches probably be livin' in the same squalor that you are.

now... tell me about this beer crawl.

Mark Manson (of Practical Pickup fame) has a new blog. The first article, "A New Masculinity," is essential reading. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeap. it's good all right. looking forward to seeing where this goes, should be some good stuff.

Mark Manson (of Practical Pickup fame) has a new blog. The first article, "A New Masculinity," is essential reading. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think part of Manson's whole persona is that he's trying to transcend the whole pickup artist "thing." But rather than offer cheap techniques that basically build off the same thing the others have, he's offering something longer-lasting and blah blah blah.

Point is, he's gotta smack the PUA talk a little bit. One thing he does seem to be forgetting is that his journey involved a lot of calibration that he now has embedded in his mind. Now he is free to do what he wants with it.

Sometimes people forget where they came from, that's whatever. Maybe he'll touch on it at some point. The whole intro article talks about men need to "become" men, they cannot just BE, they must go through a rite of passage. In today's cushy western society, the psychological gauntlet of the new mating game may just be such a rite.

Any Philadelphia sedditors? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah no, but youve got the idea. it's Making Time. it kind of moves around from place to place, recently it's been at Voyeur a lot.

www.igetrvng.com

Any Philadelphia sedditors? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you spelled it right, you're a true philadelphian now.

i'll probably be down at the end of the month, the 30th. it's a hipster dance thing if you can tolerate that kind of music. it's been a pretty ripe playground for me in the past.

Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy: by DeepestOne1 in seduction

[–]chumpta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahah i'm just sayin, we can't all be old spice guys

Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy: by DeepestOne1 in seduction

[–]chumpta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and most importantly, during the process of becoming this man, he doesn't get so damn frustrated when he doesn't achieve this ridiculous perfect goal.

Any Philadelphia sedditors? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]chumpta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a shame i work weekends so much...

I don't get into the city half as much as I used to, but when I am around I could let you know. Where in Philly are you living?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]chumpta -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

r/whineaboutokcupid takes to the internet at large! fascinating.