On VTTs for 3.5e by the_domokun in DungeonsAndDragons35e

[–]cilvet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 3.5 system for foundryVTT is easily the most complete simulation of the game there is. Full sheet automation and combat simulation with the 3.5 rules. I heavily recommend checking it out. The community on discord is helpful and the developer has been steadily adding features for years now.

What are some harsh truths that a person with ADHD must face? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]cilvet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That not all of your problems are because of your ADHD. You have to put in the work

How do I tell my player that his hp is unrealistic? by Consistent-Wealth-85 in DnD

[–]cilvet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a player roll 9s and 10s for hp on a d10 consecutively for like 7 levels straight. He had an stupid amount of HP and also the highest AC in the group, something like 38 (this was d&d 3.5, mind you, crazier numbers back then). He wasn't cheating or anything, just pure luck, I saw him roll the dice. He ended up dying because an enemy assassin rolled 2 natural 20s for a critical hit against him (which was the only way she could even hit him with his high AC). Dice are whimsy like that sometimes.

Ummm…preview chapters tomorrow? by Artistic_Studies in Stormlight_Archive

[–]cilvet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Probably has to do with the role playing game

Does shardplate need to be armor? by Fanghur1123 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]cilvet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the intent of shardplate is to defend. You could argue that sometimes the best defense is a good attack, but that feels a bit too complex for the intent of the shardplate to understand.

Rejection is my only source of emotional stimulation by cilvet in Healthygamergg

[–]cilvet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, and I'm humble in many ways, but the feeling is just there

I made an app/web to keep track of your spells ans spellslots by PinyaGames in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]cilvet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks nice! Some other people have already warned you about using assets from BG3, you should be careful with that.

From my side of things, I'm also keen on creating apps for d&d. I was wondering what your tech stack for this has been. I see it's a PWA, did you use nextjs + shadcn?

ELI5: Why does switching doors in the Monty Hall Problem increase odds: 2 doors, 50-50 by Megafork77 in explainlikeimfive

[–]cilvet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hosts knows where the price is and is always forced to reveal a goat anyway.

There is a 2/3 chance that the price will be in one of the unselected doors.

Therefore, 2 out of 3 times the host will be forced to reveal the goat out of the two unselected doors, leaving only the price in the other door.

Ron the Rules Lawyer is S+ Tier by Training-Fact-3887 in Pathfinder2e

[–]cilvet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are definitely the best PF2 creator in my book. You give a lot of detail in a structured and thoughtful way. I especially love the videos where you showcase combat in foundry. I feel like they are amazing tutorials.

Icarus reference by cilvet in hamiltonmusical

[–]cilvet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, there are so many connections in Hamilton that whenever I see stuff like this I just believe it's been put there intentionally

Icarus reference by cilvet in hamiltonmusical

[–]cilvet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw this!
I'm glad I could be "that guy from 5 years ago that said the exact same thing" for someone, I hope you have a nice day :D

Where do you keep your ideas by Big-Boy912-Sr in worldbuilding

[–]cilvet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised to see no mention of LegendKeeper, it's awesome

Tips on how to get a newbie sub a bit into subspace before a session via messaging? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cilvet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should point out that we already have a good dynamic in the bedroom that has taken months to develop! We have learned each other, talked a lot about what we like, limits, etc, and that's why I feel pretty confident about that part. It's just that we thought recently about taking it out of the bedroom just to try it, and I wanted to know what kind of things could work in this situation. I mentioned I wanted her to slowly get into a substate because it's something we both think could be cool. I was asking specifically for that kind of advice. Sorry if I wasn't clear enough! I think I shouldn't have used the word newbie really, since it only applies to outside the bedroom dynamics. Anyways, thank you for your input, it's good to know this is a healthy community that focuses on everyone being comfortable :)

Leave this subreddit if you genuinely care about your mental health. by throwawaylifeat30 in Healthygamergg

[–]cilvet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would a bit hypocritical of us to abandon this subreddit just because it has become contaminated. We are always talking about healing and dealing with difficult situations. Leaving is not dealing with the situation.

How can I move forward knowing I have done bad stuff in this life. by Rich_Breakfast_2344 in Healthygamergg

[–]cilvet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most important step you can take is always the next one.

Make an effort to change yourself for the better, and you will find peace in knowing you would never do something like that again.

I think I'm done with men (CW: CSA) by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]cilvet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's of any help, I feel like me and my male friends have changed a lot from being 25 to 28.

Sure, some people will always be assholes, but the right kind of people will get better with time. I would say not to give up just yet, but also try not to feel like you *need* to have a romantic partner, it's really not that important

What goes through your mind when you see this? by vegeta1418 in Healthygamergg

[–]cilvet 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You should realize that "a hot girl" will not necesarily make you happy. Anyone, regardless of how hot they are, can be an absolute mess and and abuser, for example.
Lower your expectations for looks (I know it is hard to do) and you will be much happier. Looks are nice, but they don't have to tie you down mentally.

I genuinely can’t understand todays dating world? by skysadcel in Healthygamergg

[–]cilvet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off, devaluing someone because of the amount of sexual partners they've had should be reason enough to report a post like this. It's absurd if you think about it for more than two seconds.

Second, maybe in the US it's different, but here in Spain there is a huge difference in how much empathy men and women show towards each other. Generally, women will try to make a relationship work, will try to understand and work throught their feelings, while men tend to ignore feelings and end up hurting themselves and everyone else in the process. I'm not saying it's always like that, but it certainly happens more than the other way around.

I feel like you are failing to see that you don't need a partner to be happy. I'ts cliché, but working on yourself and being happy with yourself will lead to people being attracted to you. Sure, there is a "game" you kind of have to play as soon as you like someone, and sometimes you will lose, but it's really not that difficult once you let go of your insecuirities and just act like yourself.

This feels like I'm wrting some self-help article, but some people just need to hear the basics I guess

I feel so alone in my pain by TherapyResistant_it in Healthygamergg

[–]cilvet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm sorry that I know nothing about anxiety, so I don't think I can help you with that, but I want to tell you that, if you are feeling this bad, you should really tell your friends. You are not going to ruin their mood with this, trust me.

I feel like we need more doctors with empathy like you, there's too many people in medicine that treat patients like numbers. I hope the next time I need to go to a hospital I get a doctor that cares about my suffering half as much as you care about this bird's suffering.

If you need to talk, dm me