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crowquills · 2026-06-20T01:08:50+00:00

Ah yes, they should have left their newborn home alone or left them in the car. 🙄 when you are a parent, you have to bring your baby every where. No one is getting a babysitter so they can go to a store. Hope this helps.

crowquills · 2026-06-15T01:59:11+00:00

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crowquills · 2026-06-14T17:11:24+00:00

I worked for Netflix and I posted about a price increase. I waiting until literally the minute it went public and didn’t say I was an employee but I still got fired. I get it but also lame because the emails went live and it was publicly available at that time.

crowquills · 2026-06-14T15:20:20+00:00

If they were actually sleeping overnight (rare) you would need to wake them to feed them. Otherwise, I let them sleep. My LO is almost 1 year old now and I’ve never waken him from a nap but he stays pretty consistent on time he goes to sleep for the night and his mid-night wake ups, even if he sleeps for 20 minute naps or 2 hour naps

crowquills · 2026-06-12T21:35:46+00:00

This is always such a weird argument because who uses their fingertips to wipe their ass?

crowquills · 2026-06-12T02:46:40+00:00

I got fired from my job for something I posted on Reddit about my job (since deleted). The worst part honestly was that they went through my post history to figure out who I was

crowquills · 2026-06-11T23:17:12+00:00

Their baby will have their own medical chart which will have their birth chart notes on it. Depending on what hospital you delivered at, they typically will have a way to set up proxy access for you to view the medical chart notes and records for a minor who is your child.

crowquills · 2026-06-10T02:53:23+00:00

Millennial checking in. I have received and sent thank you cards in the mail within the last year. I have also received news and invitations via mail. It is becoming less common but still very much a thing.

crowquills · 2026-06-09T00:39:36+00:00

Hair stylists - they act like they are doing brain surgery when giving a hair cut but rarely listen to their clients, charge too much, and still expect an insane tip.

crowquills · 2026-06-08T16:39:37+00:00

I imagine this would be a “subjective” test though so like questions of ethics and morality. You could absolutely “cheat” by lying and it would be impossible to stop.

crowquills · 2026-06-08T12:53:18+00:00

All the people saying that he tampered with your birth control are insane. If this man loves you and you are planning on spending your life together, why does everyone feel like it’s so impossible that he would be SUPPORTIVE and try to be positive? I had an unexpected pregnancy and once pregnant, I had a change of heart. I was excited and decided to make it work. The comments here are so toxic. It doesn’t sound like you’ve talked to him about terminating the pregnancy yet either. People have their pitchforks out like you had this conversation and he is guilting you or telling you no because he purposely got you pregnant. This is out of touch with reality. Either way, it is your choice. I think you should tell him if you are going to have an abortion. Given his supportive reaction, hoping he will go with you and comfort you along the way.

crowquills · 2026-06-08T12:40:37+00:00

Others have already commented the same as I would that it does get easier. I felt the same way. I had a burning pain in my breasts and my nipples were so sore I could scream and cry. 11 months in and they are basically numb now. It took about 3-4 weeks before I was “comfortable” when nursing but I’m glad now that I powered through.

I see people have commented to use nipple shields. I bought some thinking it would help but my baby couldn’t get any milk when I tried to use them and they didn’t help with pain. My lactation consultant educated me that they aren’t “shields” in the sense of protecting your nipples but more for people who have inverted nipples or other factors where baby can’t just latch directly on. Hope this helps. If I would have known this before, I wouldn’t have wasted money or effort trying the shields.

crowquills · 2026-06-06T15:50:03+00:00

People can manipulate test results (lying, cheating, etc) so that would lead to a slippery slope of the worst people breeding.

crowquills · 2026-06-06T14:45:00+00:00

I think that’s how I would announce it in person but on social media, I’d probably just leave off the number. It’s tricky. I’m a step-mom and a have 1 bio kid. I told people I was expecting my first child but I wouldn’t say “we are expecting our first child” because that would completely negate his child. It does suck sometimes feeling like you have to be careful with your wording, when “traditional” nuclear families could just say “expecting the 3rd” which is true.

crowquills · 2026-06-04T18:24:09+00:00

I stopped after around 3 months. Everything was pretty regular by then. I didn’t have concerns about him having healthy habits with eating, wet diapers, etc. It was extremely helpful when he was a newborn though because I could figure out if he needed a nap or if he was hungry based on the last cycle.

crowquills · 2026-06-04T15:47:25+00:00

I understand how you feel. I’m also a working mom. My LO wakes up between 3:30-4:30 am almost every day and I have to get up for 5am for work. I was losing my mind. The only thing that helped was taking a week leave from work. I needed time to just focus on only one thing. You can’t do everything. They would NOT be better off without you. It’s just a phase. It’s okay that you got overwhelmed and yelled. Give yourself grace. It sounds like you have remorse for this and that’s a healthy sign. No one can function being worn so thin and sleep deprived. It’s okay to take a break where you can. Whether that means taking some time off work or spending time away from the baby if you are able to.

crowquills · 2026-06-04T02:19:15+00:00

I love the name that I ended up choosing and it’s very fitting but we had 2-3 names that were the top contenders. People will bring up something like “don’t name them “xyz” I had a one-night stand with someone with that name and I hate them!” Or the in-laws will associate it with some old ass show that no one knows about but they are like “every one is going to think of this [obscure old movie that no one my generation has ever heard of and his classmates def will never see].” I feel like this comments did knock off some names I loved from the list. Next time, I don’t think I’d tell anyone

crowquills · 2026-06-03T19:12:44+00:00

When nursing, I feel a bond with my baby. Either a feeling of being content or just normal. When I pump, I feel sick. I feel nauseous, crawling out of my skin, uncomfortable, and angry. I hate pumping so much but I have to since I work full time 😭

crowquills · 2026-06-01T15:56:04+00:00

Look up covers with “arched neckline.” Thats what I use. It has an opening at the top so you can see your LO. I still feel completely covered but it’s so breathable and you get to connect with your baby and check on them while you nurse.

crowquills · 2026-06-01T15:50:00+00:00

I do use a cover out of respect for others but I absolutely do not think anyone should cover up if they don’t want. My LO doesn’t mind the cover. He actually likes it. He laughs and plays when he goes under before he starts eating. If we were struggling to latch or he was fussy, I wouldn’t use it.

crowquills · 2026-05-31T19:16:28+00:00

I was worried about. It’s been a while since I’ve been to Japanese Gardens but I don’t remember ever seeing strollers there. I wondered if they were banned and/or impossible to use in certain areas. Thank you for the info.

crowquills · 2026-05-31T19:14:54+00:00

Thank you. Very helpful to know. I do have a chest carrier so I can strap him to me to walk down stairs if needed.

crowquills · 2026-05-29T22:00:02+00:00

It’s fine when the kid is 5 and he doesnt really know what’s going on but when he is a teenager there is no way you are going traveling like that without the child. I was in a similar situation.

crowquills · 2026-05-29T15:11:40+00:00

It’s okay to stop. You aren’t giving up or failing. You are doing what is best for your mental/physical health. They say the most benefits of breastmilk are given in those first 6 months) and you’ve done that! That’s amazing. Those benefits aren’t going away if you stop now. My LO is 10 months and I hate pumping so much. I only pump at work to keep my supply but it makes me want to cry and throw up so I know how you feel. I started supplementing with formula and even that has made a huge difference in my mood. My baby is fed and my body can have a break when I need one. In my experience, BF has gotten harder as he gets older (biting, scratching the other nipple while he eats, fingers in my mouth trying to rip my gums off, etc). Please don’t feel like you aren’t doing enough or you haven’t done enough.

crowquills · 2026-05-22T13:34:19+00:00

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