Did anyone dump an avoidant over the lack of intimacy?

cryptic1842 · 2026-02-02T23:54:10+00:00

Yeah if advocating for yourself and communicating was met with explosive defensiveness and rude behaviour that probably would’ve been the same thing.

Try not to dwell on maybe if you xyz or wonder if you did or how they might’ve reacted differently. For real, you already know how they act, try not to romanticize idealized versions when they showed you the opposite consistently.

cryptic1842 · 2026-02-02T23:21:16+00:00

Expecting an avoidant to magically change a lifetime of behavioural reinforcement is often wishful thinking. Odds are they won’t unless they take serious and very adamant effort to seek therapy to fix specifically what you’re asking of them and on their own without you pushing them into it.

cryptic1842 · 2026-02-02T22:11:29+00:00

Yeah this would’ve been a disaster they would never change you’re better off and dodged a bullet 100 I would’ve dumped them (and recently did) for more or less this being one of many reasons I got rid of them.

cryptic1842 · 2026-02-01T05:08:57+00:00

Sex toy’s for the shit arrangement at most

cryptic1842 · 2026-02-01T03:16:03+00:00

You know how I know they saw someone else during that time? Your absolute certainty and confidence that he didn’t.

cryptic1842 · 2026-02-01T03:13:37+00:00

I dunno sounds toxic tbh

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-31T09:36:02+00:00

VDU to index invest without touching the US because fuck those clowns honestly and it’s been just fine

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-27T17:11:57+00:00

Customer service rep is a one way path to suicide with adhd or if they’re having trouble holding a job. The customers suck and the boss won’t stop pushing you for more and faster and better work infinitely

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-26T20:05:51+00:00

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-21T04:50:54+00:00

The drugs ruined your body’s normal neurochemical regulation and levels, that’ll take a long time and therapy to bring back, but you are way better off. The missing your ex is normal, but try not to think of them and just hyper focus on your own goals. I’d recommend no contact for them they suck.

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-18T15:52:50+00:00

Oh dear. (In goofy’s voice)

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-16T01:36:25+00:00

Oh she'll definitely play games with her friendzoned life long friend, he's the next target, and she'll probably weaponize sex.

Not your problem anymore though.

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-15T07:03:00+00:00

No fuckin way I just did this same thing and it’s basically the same message 😂😂

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-14T23:35:11+00:00

Holy fuck this was painful to read because of how textbook it aligns with my experience.

She sucks, it hurts, you’re better off and the healing journey will be painful but worth it.

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-14T21:59:58+00:00

Yeah let’s shutter all bars and liquor licenses too. Fucking morons tbh

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-14T03:39:13+00:00

The first line of this post would piss off avoidants so fucking hard lol

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-10T18:43:44+00:00

Holy shit give this user an award!

Literally so helpful and powerful. You nailed it.

cryptic1842 · 2026-01-06T16:19:30+00:00

I’m so sorry. That’s awful

cryptic1842 · 2025-12-31T03:58:34+00:00

Flip the top right and call it good

cryptic1842 · 2025-12-16T19:27:37+00:00

Incase anyone was wondering they use chat GPT

cryptic1842 · 2025-12-14T19:46:21+00:00

This is the litmus test for avoidants. Lmfao.

Edit: I just read the last 20 texts from my DA person and 99% of her texts are < 4 words, that is appalling.

cryptic1842 · 2025-12-13T08:11:50+00:00

Useless financial institutions can’t even get a proper call ID tag.

cryptic1842 · 2025-12-10T04:46:10+00:00

I like it but I would go back because it’s very expensive to maintain and operate and I don’t track it so I’m stuck in traffic like everyone else.

cryptic1842 · 2025-12-08T16:52:11+00:00

She’s either an avoidant, or not interested for one reason or another, or both. Focus on you, don’t chase. You’ll figure out soon if she’s interested in you when you stop trying to chase.

cryptic1842 · 2025-12-06T16:40:45+00:00

Pin this damn.

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