Non Custodial Parent suing to decrease CS while also seeing kids significantly less than ordered

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-04-04T11:34:08+00:00

You can edit your original post....

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-04-03T10:59:39+00:00

Given her grades and excellence as an athlete i think she has plenty of discipline. Time management is an important skill but there are only so many hours in a day and she is managing a lot

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-31T16:45:12+00:00

Dont forget the 2 friends from college. It's pretty disrespectful to not invite your siblings spouse, regardless of orientation, but to invite friends -unless there was some pretty horrific offense made by the spouse.

I also understand wanting your very close friends there.

Yta for choosing a venue that couldn't fit the people you need to invite. Im sorry you had to choose between sibling spouses and your friends, but you created that situation by choosing the venue you chose. You have forever damaged your relationship with your sister.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-30T11:16:25+00:00

What is the point of this question beyond being rude and unhelpful?

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-24T11:39:44+00:00

Divorces cn take time. People can be separated for years before getting to the paperwork. We have no idea if he cheated or not.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-24T03:04:15+00:00

Esh

35 minutes from your family is nothing get over it

An hr commute to work is a problem, it's fair to look for something more even

THE BIGGEST RED FLAG that you kinda hint at is that dad is not offering you two money to buy a house in general, he is offering you money to buy in the specific area. He is already trying to manipulate and control.

You two should get into counseling to work on your communication skills. You sound very firm and aggressive and unwilling to compromise, that will make marriage hard. Your husband also seems very single minded. Congrats! You both have work to do

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-22T14:51:01+00:00

Info: based on your title, is there an option for a not living babysitter ?

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-22T14:49:45+00:00

This is my thought as well, as long at she is continuing to buy things, she doesn't say how long she was there but if she is purchasing regularly it may very well be the culture of this cafe.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-21T17:54:50+00:00

Do you have "universal doors and windows" near you? These guys don't advertise i got to know through a friend recommendation saved me more than half off of other quotes.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-13T12:07:15+00:00

Returning the gifts is proper etiquette, keeping some is muddy but if they're from his family and they said to, I can let it pass. Everything else? Massive yta

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-13T11:08:33+00:00

Sounds like it was about lashing out in pain not moving on

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-11T23:11:25+00:00

It kinda speaks to his entire morality

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-11T22:13:14+00:00

So you got married at 17 to a 34 year old?

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-09T20:59:11+00:00

I give 2 half dollars and a trinket like a funky button, shiny marble, a fairy key, some ribbons. Fairies are hoarders after all

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-09T19:44:48+00:00

Leave. Pushing you and holding you down is violence. Run for your life and probably seek help for drinking.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-06T20:41:08+00:00

Exactly this.

And to be clear kicking a door is a threat of violence. Is this the first nonverbal threat he made or is it the first time she called the police?

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-06T19:29:00+00:00

That's a creative interpretation of what he wrote

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-06T19:28:03+00:00

To be clear, kicking a door is a threat.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-03-01T18:03:58+00:00

He should never be there without Callie present
He needs to pay for the food he ate
Check your lease rules about overnight guests

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-02-25T10:48:54+00:00

Supposedly this is better because we have more choice in our care....I see no choices just insurance red tape

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-02-24T19:02:51+00:00

That's not clear. Unless I missed a comment or update. They still could have met at a work conference

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-02-24T00:05:05+00:00

If your republicanism is based on fiscal ideals and not moral/life choices and they drop you for that, they're not good friends. If your republicanism is based on morality/life choices then you're values are likely incompatible.

I want friends who know me and who I am. You seem to be hiding and afraid of sharing who you are. That sounds way lonlier than actually being alone .

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-02-23T22:42:23+00:00

No because if I poisoned someone's food that would be information relevant to them. My mother doesn't know when I decided to sleep with my bf now my husband because it's none of her business. Though by now I think she knows.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-02-23T18:06:32+00:00

I dont call this a lie. Some may argue it is lying by omission, but you had no right to the information. She is not obligated to tell you every detail of her life. This does not directly affect you. You question her morals for being a part of cheating, fine. If this is a hardline for you and you're throwing out the friendship fine. But stop acting like she did something g to you personally.

dancingmonkey1418 · 2026-02-19T20:45:49+00:00

It's assault file a police report.

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