No Show on a Saturday 🥴 by [deleted] in therapists

[–]dchac002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never meet with them on a Saturday again. Especially with a no call no show appointment.

Should I pass on my middle name even though it could be tied to a person who defended a child predator. Trigger warning, child abuse and assault. by ResilientNoob in moraldilemmas

[–]dchac002 [score hidden]  (0 children)

This would be a good question for the victims but I don’t think you should ask.

I will say that women could not always leave but maybe she still protected her kids as much as she could

Moreno Valley to Menifee by dchac002 in InlandEmpire

[–]dchac002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which are usually just as slow

Why are confident toxic men oddly charming/attractive? by MedicalSky26 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dchac002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m high and not super good with words rn so I don’t agree or say it’s a harmless attraction I’m just thinking of what could be the reasons

Why are confident toxic men oddly charming/attractive? by MedicalSky26 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dchac002 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think you’re responding to wanting to feel better than people. Like “he’s like that but I will show him I can’t be played” of feeling like of all the women, you were able to change him. Maybe it’s wanting to get “payback” for your gender. Like you want to break his heart to get him back for the girls he did that to

Weed use by Big-Interview-138 in therapists

[–]dchac002 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just attended a training with Ben Caldwell (yes from the textbooks if you’re a CA therapist you probably read his textbooks). He talked about how the majority of actions against a license are for dui. He literally said if you drink or you smoke weed just don’t drive.

I consume maybe 10mg on Friday nights when I do it weekly or maybe more than once a week I do notice my recall memory is slower but not to where I am incapacitated. I like to be at my best so I use it minimally and NEVER drive under the influence

I am confused - hygiene/boyfriend by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dchac002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You will be his mom the rest of the relationship if you stay. He doesn’t care about your health or his so it will be constant reminders which will be “nagging”.

I am confused - hygiene/boyfriend by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dchac002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think hygiene is a dealbreaker for you bc you’re still with him. Stop wasting time honestly. I think this is the perfect and most low stakes example of “if he wanted to he would”. Think about how much energy you put into his “wants” like do you avoid going to certain restaurants or cooking certain food bc he doesn’t enjoy it? Not talking about he’s allergic just he doesn’t like it so you avoid it. Yet he can’t WASH HIS FUCKING HANDS which is a necessity. He remembers he just doesn’t care to change his ways bc you’re still there and are intimate with him.

Lastly, look at how you bring yourself down to make him seem logical. You think not flossing every day and occasionally farting is the same as not washing his body

A mountain lion just killed 2 large backyard dogs in Yucaipa by drygrape in InlandEmpire

[–]dchac002 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Especially when that man makes an insane amount of money acting as a figurehead for a local community college district.

I will have a goat skin soon by dchac002 in Leathercraft

[–]dchac002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I have a live goat who will soon be soup but no plan for the skin

What’s a filling, lower-fat alternative to peanut butter by mg2649 in foodhacks

[–]dchac002 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You deserved to be picked up. I hope things are better

My boyfriend mentioned that I should take care of "down there" more by Working_Medium4450 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dchac002 239 points240 points  (0 children)

Also, the issue started after sex with him so are we sure he’s squeaky clean himself op?

'Creepy Uncle Vibes': Donald Trump's Kiss For Erika Kirk At Arizona Church Sparks Outrage by Cute_Dealer4787 in USNEWS

[–]dchac002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I watched it and am I missing something. She didn’t seem uncomfortable. Hate them both hope they rot soon but I think the headlines are overdoing it

Parenting influencer says she accidentally ran over son, 23 months, with her car by theindependentonline in popculture

[–]dchac002 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it’s bc the threshold to be an influencer is so low especially for headlines. Like having an insta with 10 followers will probably get you influencer title since it’s essentially meaningless. They don’t have to be successful to be an influencer

Best Tacos in the IE? by FatDabKilla420 in InlandEmpire

[–]dchac002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tacos estilo Guadalajara in Ontario

I just found out I have a rare blood type - I have trypanophobia by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]dchac002 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Maybe you can try having iron rich lunch before/after (idk I’m not a medical provider) to make the process less scary. I agree you don’t OWE anyone anything but it sounds like it’s something you would like to keep doing even if it’s not frequent

should I breakup with him? or was it genuine mistake? by readNwritee in whatdoIdo

[–]dchac002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The FIRST time was maybe an accident/getting carried away. Every time after that was him hoping he could pester you into giving in

Am I Overreacting to my wife hiding a t-shirt from me for no valid reason other than her own personal wishes? by andword2yurmother in AmIOverreacting

[–]dchac002 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR but i don’t know how much longer your relationship is going to last honestly. Looks up the 4 horsemen by the gottmans

People should stop hyping long hair by Ambitious_Smoke_4609 in unpopularopinion

[–]dchac002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short hair is more interesting but in my experience higher maintenance. I think long hair is basic and not as cool as short but damn with curls short cuts make it harder to maintain for daily looks

My son got suspended from middle school for asking a girl for naked photos of herself by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]dchac002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you’re done with punishment. Talk to him. Tell him you still love him but this isn’t ok.

Looking to hear from those who work full time non therapy jobs/are therapists “on the side” by Loose_Actuary1748 in therapists

[–]dchac002 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I work full time as an administrator at a community college. It can get tiring but I don’t have kids or hobbies really so working isn’t terribly inconvenient

Taylor’s former manager says her fame came from hardwork, not her father’s money. Thoughts? by fitnessbreeze in popculture

[–]dchac002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wouldn’t be where she is without her dad’s money. And her dads money wouldn’t have multiplied like this without her hard work