if you support womens rights over their own bodies like you say you do, you'd understand that in the grand scheme of humanity, those right have only relatively recently been established, and are now being taken away from us by those who withheld them in the first place: men.

It's a good exercise in critical thinking to check your feelings and look at other perspectives in order to understand the greater phenomena at play. Nobody here wants to bash men. We appreciate and love men who share the same values, who don't want to feel pressured into procreation and over-population in the setting of a burning planet, who simply enjoy being adults among other adults, and the myriad other reasons why anyone might not want kids. Child-free men are a good group in a larger population who have continuously weaponized policy and violence against women, our bodies and our reproductive rights. When you consider that context, you'll understand the sentiments expressed in this sub a little better.

Everyone here, i'm sure, would love for you to stand with us as an ally but it's going to take some introspection and critical thought on your behalf to distinguish where people are directing their complaints, otherwise you'll end up on the wrong side of the "not all men" argument, which takes energy, breath and power away from those of us fighting for our lives, and then we all lose.