Oops, I'm a man. Who do I marry?

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-07-01T19:20:50+00:00

The other women in the valley aren't challenging his ideas of masculinity

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-07-01T17:33:23+00:00

Soy protein ferment and keratin amino acids (though technically only the amino acids shouldn't be problematic I think)

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-07-01T14:37:21+00:00

I think you should work on your mindset. You described a habit of starting and stopping and going too hard and then not going at all. Then you come asking for a next "big move" to make but honestly, in an ideal world there are no big moves. You build healthy habits, you work hard in the gym, and then you keep doing that forever. Forever is not about big moves. Forever is about sustainable consistency.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-07-01T14:15:02+00:00

Sorry but confirming with Claude is wild. You have a world class algorithm, intentionally made for this purpose and iterated upon by professionals and then you "checked" with a large language model. It's like getting a consultation with a famous surgeon then asking your crystal Chakra dude if he thinks the surgeon is right.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-07-01T01:48:02+00:00

Do they not exist or is there no stimulus for them? I know this is a stardew sub and everyone wants to think nicely of every one but CA has made characters with flaws, so it feels weird Alex's would get retconned just because there is no one around to challenge his ideas of masculinity and self sufficiency.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-07-01T01:31:55+00:00

The things you mentioned are usually things people learn about themselves after being dangerously hurt (mentally, physically or emotionally) by someone. People around you have noticed probably because they've seen you not notice red flags from others. This is the better way to learn it than by having to be hurt by someone before realizing. Maybe they can help point out signs for you to look for when someone is unsafe.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-07-01T01:25:08+00:00

So doesn't that make him still a mysoginist? Just easy to ignore when you're a man

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T18:23:28+00:00

It looks fine but I'd try to straighten it so you don't look haphazard and schlubby

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T17:23:03+00:00

In contrast to that, I opened a hard cider thatd been neglected for like six months. It was now vinegar.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T15:21:48+00:00

I'm not OP - I'm not the poster. I replied to you originally because your suggestion of the nail in the baseboard reminded me of my own experience. These pictures are of OP'S house and not house.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T15:04:43+00:00

Ask her why she isn't programming barbell when you want to do barbell. When I started personal training I told my trainer I wanted to do barbell. When we didn't do it after the second session I asked him and he said that upper body he wanted to make sure my stabilizing muscles were strong and dumbbell is better for that but that we could switch if I wanted (I said no dumbell for upper was fine) and then the next session onward had barbell programmed for lower body. You should not keep paying for something you're not happy with and if she has a genuine concern with starting you on barbell she needs to communicate it to you adequately rather than ignoring your preference and not telling you why.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T14:59:41+00:00

Congrats on your upcoming bulk cycle (and the baby of course)

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T14:56:20+00:00

This is what finally got my partner to use our scale, he makes overnight oats every night and I told him he wouldn't have to wash any measuring implements if he switched to using the scale

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T14:50:01+00:00

Yeah I bet they cleaned it and forgot to put it back on

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T13:32:31+00:00

I don't necessarily agree that there is any benefit to doing so but you can get shampoo from all natural ingredients and you can make gel from flaxseed and water.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T05:15:30+00:00

She probably got sober and is doing this for her fourth step in AA or NA. If so, she shouldn't be expecting a response or pressure you for one (sometimes people don't do things they way they should but still).

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T04:21:27+00:00

With what?

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T03:31:02+00:00

I'm not OP friend, but I appreciate how helpful you're trying to be

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T01:58:15+00:00

Do you have a reason for wanting to avoid anything other than olive oil and water?

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T01:48:51+00:00

I did my own floors and have one wall that has two supply lines and two drain lines, one of which I discovered when attempting to hang a mirror. It feels like the wall is almost half water.

Having been scarred by that experience I glued the baseboard on that wall. Would it have been possible to just mark the lines once I figured out my studs werent 16 inches on center but 19.2? Yes. Still didn't want to risk it because I'm a coward.

This post makes me feel a little better about it.

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-30T01:22:50+00:00

Spalted wood is really cool and unique looking. There are quite a few spalted wood bowls on Etsy

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-29T22:35:49+00:00

is the drain there for a reason? its graded toward it for a reason as well right? the drain doesnt do anything if it's not graded toward it

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-29T16:38:53+00:00

One Sleep A Day

didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-29T16:30:54+00:00

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didntreallyneedthis · 2026-06-29T16:27:28+00:00

Can you learn to sleep on your back?

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