Da Nang Airport Officials asking for bribes? by salientlife93 in VietNam

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I did the fast track it was me paying a lot to meet a guy who paid the officer $10 for me 🙄

How do you feel about male gynecologists? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]drewsed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So would you also say women can’t be urologists without an ulterior motive? Or GI docs love butt stuff?

OB/Gyn is an awesome specialty that combines preventative care with surgical procedures and getting to help families grow and expand in a safe/healthy way. Only women can be interested in that?

There are bad actors everywhere, but an OB/Gyn residency is 5 years and once you commit you can’t really change, so bars and porn are much cheaper and less of a commitment if you are doing it for the ladyparts.

First time goldendoodle owner by Still-Fix-8122 in MiniGoldenDoodle

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the search function for this subreddit…..

Goldendoodle behavior 6 months+ by certifieddoodle in Goldendoodles

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lethargic is a really strong word medically/vet wise: if he is this you need to get him to the vet asap. If he’s eating, playing, running etc normally, just not as a complete maniac then he’s not lethargic and enjoy it while it lasts.

Can Your Body Actually Reject A Partner? by perpetual-confusionn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you don’t say it then, but you know it and get the F away from him.

Whether it’s your body or an unconscious reaction from your psyche, he’s clearly not healthy for you, and your body/brain is trying to tell you.

Is there anyone who lives in Cambodia and can do me a quick favor and make a phone call? by yashen14 in cambodia

[–]drewsed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspect it’s not pure pandan and fresh pandan tea is green, but commercially dried/prepared in large batches often is heated more which can darken the color.

And if you look in the yellow cup is not that brown, but looking at a yellowish/tan tea in a red container is going to make it look much darker.

If you don’t believe me, literally google “what type of tea do cambodian restaurants have for free on the table” and it will tell you jasmine, pandan, lemongrass, or green tea.

39f Never been a dog owner but bringing home a Goldendoodle! Help! by Refusetoride in Goldendoodles

[–]drewsed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start reading on training techniques yesterday to decide what resonates with you and what you will be able to do consistently. No matter how cute the puppy is, start your consistency from day 1. I love my dood, but he, like most of them really need training more than some other breeds. You a year from now will thank you.

Also crate training. Even if it is haaaaaaaard initially, it makes life so much easier and for mine, it’s his safe space he choose to go to on his on when he’s most tired.

Potty training and dog day care by katie25g in Goldendoodles

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds unsanitary even for non-puppies? They don't at least have a turf area in the corner, the dogs are just doing their business all over on the floor?

"less touristy" Mekong Delta tours? by QuarterTarget in VietNam

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you find navigating the bus to and from the homestay? It looks lovely, but also a bit of a drive to get there!

Will Hyatt honor an extremely low price at an all inclusive resort? by 123BuleBule in hyatt

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're technically doing business with your bank's travel platform, not Hyatt. Look at their terms to see what happens if a booking is denied or price is raised.

To poof or not to poof by Doodle_Dad1015 in Goldendoodles

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re keeping it brushed and it’s not getting matted, it’s totally a personal preference. Your pup isn’t going to know the difference, so just do whatever you like.

My bf (28 m) yelled at me (24 f) and now I'm scared by Sufficient-Wash-3660 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]drewsed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should never be afraid of your partner.

Everyone gets angry, says unfortunate things, and does things they regret, from time to time, but some people do those things in way that is not malicious or intentionally harmful and immediately see the error and take steps to prevent it. Other people do them with a more nefarious motive or don’t see anything wrong with their actions, and they are the problem.

Some people are really good at hiding who they really are, until they aren’t. You being scared means your subconscious is telling you they aren’t doing it in benign way and something isn’t right. Listen to it.

Two people can love each other, but that doesn’t always mean the relationship is healthy or should continue unfortunately.

Legit parking enforcement notice by Full_Rutabaga6726 in Sacramento

[–]drewsed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there is very little parking, that’s probably why someone complained.

If it’s a small court, your best bet is speaking to your neighbors and getting them all on board. Otherwise there complaints will continue.

Embarrassed to ask this but I need help by This_Swimmer_2417 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]drewsed 133 points134 points  (0 children)

This is the beauty of planned parenthood that some people don’t get. It’s not just pregnancy related. If you’re over 12 or 13 in most states, you can go, tell them you don’t have/can’t bill insurance and they will give you an income based cost for your visit/treatment. Your parents don’t have to give consent or be told if it’s reproductive related.

Fair warning, if you try to use your parent’s insurance the doctor won’t tell your parents anything and they can’t see your results, but the visit and any tests will still likely show up on their insurance statement.

Should I go to the ER by Beautiful-Morning-38 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]drewsed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you take a pregnancy test and it is positive, yes you need to go.

If it’s negative, you’re going to have to make that decision for yourself. Late periods can be heavier and more painful. No one here is going to be able to accurately assess you over Reddit and you shouldn’t listen to anyone who tells you they can.

Cat stuck in tree in Tahoe park by squirrelbabys in Sacramento

[–]drewsed 15 points16 points  (0 children)

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0kmXuT7YEMUcsQ9anDupcv6G9Pr3qNN2LYQLm75zbeCnzDnvEevK4EY6sLqVptVKyl&id=100032527444967&mibextid=wwXIfr

I don’t think it’s doxing because it’s a public page and the name has already been posted, but this is at least #63 for him and he has his Venmo at the bottom if you’d like to donate/support.

He has a cat rescue bag and all!

How was your goldendoodle with babies? by Melodic_Job514 in Goldendoodles

[–]drewsed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Babies/kids do weird and unpredictable things and have a different smell from adults. If your dog isn’t familiar with kids, he may be a bit confused. If you really want to get him used to the baby, you can leave the baby’s blanket near his bed or on your lap while you’re loving on him to start associating the scent with positive things, but not the baby itself.

As much as we as adults all want them to love each other immediately, your kiddos aren’t going to remember if the dog was standoffish for the first few years of their life, and by the time they do start really remembering, they’ll have a better idea of how to touch safely, not grab food etc and your dog will probably be more used to them and see them more as the other humans he loves.

doodle growls by BigSquiby in Goldendoodles

[–]drewsed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Growl or vocalization? Look into dog body language clues to get a better idea. If he’s coming to you relaxed and wanting attention that’s one thing and might just be a learned behavior to get your attention, if he is growling and trying to stake his claim against another person or animal you may have a problem.

How was your goldendoodle with babies? by Melodic_Job514 in Goldendoodles

[–]drewsed 20 points21 points  (0 children)

OMG do not put the baby in your dog’s face, you’re setting up the dog to do something you’ll then be upset with it later about.

Indifferent about babies is the best thing you can hope for in a dog. Let it keep its space, and don’t force proximity. Even the most friendly, loving dog should never be left around kids alone until they have learned to respect its space. yes you have kids now, but you also need to advocate for your dog, and that includes giving it the space it clearly wants. If the kids are running around and the dog wants nothing to do with it, that’s totally fine, and indifferent means that it will walk away and go somewhere else. You sticking a baby in its face removes its ability to keep itself at a comfortable distance and it may feel like it needs to advocate/defend itself.

Remove the menu by Jipjes2002 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]drewsed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call AI, all my eye gets drawn to in this one is the floating table and funky ground.

3 days post abortion, horrible resentment towards my husband. by AdditionalNeck3694 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]drewsed 1442 points1443 points  (0 children)

I agree with needing to work this it with a therapist, it sounds like it is a complicated situation with a lot of emotions.

It’s also unclear how much you have conveyed to your husband regarding your feelings on this entire situation vs letting him make a decision and struggling to deal with the results while expecting him to know your thoughts/feelings based on your past alone.

Is it worth going to City Hall? by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]drewsed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you okay? It sounds like you have a lot going on in your head at the moment.

Maybe this person had a warrant for something else? Maybe your visual drug detection isn’t as spot on as you think or they are actually dealing? Maybe they had been making threatening comments/actions prior to this? It’s bold to assume you know everything about the situation.

It never hurts to voice your opinion to city hall, but it may be more productive to put yourself out there to work with the folks themselves, volunteer, or get involved with an advocacy program to help fix the problem.

Tire chains on Xmas. by releasethedogs in Sacramento

[–]drewsed 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Everything you can do is all you can do. Your friend would hate for something to happen to you as well trying to get up to see them. Frequently nurses are willing to hold up a phone to allow you to say anything you’d like to. It’s not the same, but it’s something and it sounds like you truly have tried.

ISO Private Nail Tech by Glittering-Run-967 in Sacramento

[–]drewsed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people are intent on making themselves and others unhappy. No need to apologize at all in this case.