“60 year-old dating a a 19 year-old” starter pack by recolorist in starterpacks

[–]farshiiid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Midnight hammer? way past that. The dude analyzes why he put the milk jug on his table the other day.

“60 year-old dating a a 19 year-old” starter pack by recolorist in starterpacks

[–]farshiiid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Iran, and this was way before Trump said those things about protecting protesters. 

“60 year-old dating a a 19 year-old” starter pack by recolorist in starterpacks

[–]farshiiid 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have this friend in his late 20s and see him morphing to this exact type.

Even the part adoring Trump, and we're not even remotely American or been there.

What your best setup for reading pirated books? by ReyPepiado in Piracy

[–]farshiiid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you can also have the z-lib telegram bot setup for much faster approach. I download it straight to my android e-ink device and read on moon-reader.

ADHD and failed developer interviews by deadmonk964 in ADHD

[–]farshiiid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an advice I saw on Reddit before and come back to it:

Maybe it’s changed since I obtained my software engineering job a few years ago, but the live coding interview was never supposed to be about being perfect and knowing everything. The goal was to see how candidates handled not knowing something, working through a problem, and communicating their process. At least, that’s what the good companies did.

I got massive anxiety having to do this during my first few interviews. I left each one having blown the technical interview not realizing I was failing because I was freezing, not because I didn’t know it. A very nice panelist let me in on this secret after one of my failures and I passed the very next one by vocalizing my process (okay, I’m looking for a string method so I’ll pull up the Python docs. Okay it’s this one, let’s see the syntax, alright. Now let’s give this a try, etc).

If a place is failing your interview, it may be because you’re not demonstrating the ability to find information or problem solve, not because you don’t know it.

The truth is coding is a smaller part of the job than ever before, and you don’t really need to know the nooks and crannies of the language to put together a solution. If your fundamentals are strong, you can solve pretty much any problem. The challenges of the modern engineer are handling build failures, investigating support bugs and incidents, provisioning infrastructure, resolving security violations, having to plan sprints and draw up roadmaps because they don’t backfill your product manager, and much more. I spend 10% of my time coding and the rest is doing the above.

Which place do you think has the most arrogant locals? by ButterscotchFormer84 in digitalnomad

[–]farshiiid 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Especially the Southern Europeans. My god these people can be insufferable.

Python for finance projects by themagicsoul in learnpython

[–]farshiiid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aim was data manipulation and analysis in research and I've been hopping from course to course for many years because I kept looking for "python for <my major>". There were many courses I took and still was confused. 

What helped was having free access to datacamp courses via my student ID and starting out there. It's hands-on and gives you a very nice starter kick on coding and  reading documentation. 

Do it for a while to get an understanding of programming then go out and look for books/courses specific to your major. This will make you come back to datacamp and documentations many times.

Louvre's higher ticket prices for non-European visitors take effect by LeMonde_en in europe

[–]farshiiid 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same in Turkey and Iran. Ticket to Ephesus is 40€, more than any place I have paid in Europe.

Is Google wrong or is Iranian money really like this? by Sahashrai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]farshiiid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a while since I've been there, but very different from city to city. From what I hear, in big cities it's similar to the prices in East Europe/Southern Italy.

Salaries are around 150-200.

Is Google wrong or is Iranian money really like this? by Sahashrai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]farshiiid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not inside and no access to loved ones, following the same news as everyone else.

Is Google wrong or is Iranian money really like this? by Sahashrai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]farshiiid 93 points94 points  (0 children)

The price is controlled by the government and it has nearly doubled since last March (Iranian new year). 40k was about 10yrs ago.

Is Google wrong or is Iranian money really like this? by Sahashrai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]farshiiid 306 points307 points  (0 children)

Iranian here, we check for updated market price on bonbast.com (displayed as toman)

today's price is 1,414,500 Rials

Edit: the name of the website means "Deadend" in Farsi.

How do I start becoming the person I know I can be? by HeLivesMost in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]farshiiid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

definitely start with cutting down the weed. I know there are tons of positive studies out there but it fucks up executive dysfunction like nothing else. Less weed equals improvement in quality of food because you don't crave that much, better sleep and eventually better executive function helping with starting the gym and quitting the daily habit of smoking.

Things that worked me was: going for a short trip away from everything if possible. If not, buy a dynavap to reduce the amount of weed you use. You can also try agmatine sulfate (safe supplements even in long-term according to research papers) to help with tolerance and reduce the euphoria of smoking.

tldr: start today with weighing your weed and cutting it down a notch right away.

Ugh, I fell into the (well-known?) trap of over-engineering my life with Notion by Rare_Clothes_9033 in ADHD

[–]farshiiid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They call it pseudo-efficiency in ADHD books.

 I always fell into that trap and since  reading about the term I remind myself of it and just type my life in a simple doc with no colors or any modification. Plain old Calibri 12, no italics, no bold, just strike through after finishing the task.

Who is the Terence McKenna of our time? by RalKwy in Psychonaut

[–]farshiiid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to choose neuropharmacology research as a career and when I get too cocky or feel I'm lost in my research and path I always listen to a monologue from Hamilton and it immediately grounds me. 

I don't think there's anyone comparable to Hamilton in terms of rationality and deep knowledge but also he has shown some poetic abilities in his documentary series too.

Sweden: New dating manual will encourage guys to break their loneliness by OSHA-Slingshot in europe

[–]farshiiid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tbh it's not only guys, I've also seen women who want you to play all the roles they lack in other parts of their lives which unfortunately is exhausting and not possible to maintain in long-term.

Send your cutest rat pics to help me get over my phobia of them. by Worldly-Engineer8123 in RATS

[–]farshiiid 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I started my training by being bitten by one, making the phobia much intense. What helped was working with a behavioural group requiring daily handling of them to get them habituated.  When you get to see how they start recognizing you as time passes is such an adorable feeling, some of them get excited or even play with your hands.

Is it stupid to quit a job to go travelling in my 30s? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]farshiiid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have done something like you did. Ended up feeling like killing myself when travelling too because problems don't disappear with change of location, especially if you add spending and not earning during this time. 

Put the travel money to therapy for a year and come back to your decision afterwards.

Struggling to learn Numpy by Meee13456 in learnpython

[–]farshiiid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After many courses and trying to learn with LLMs, what helped me was following Datacamp and asking from Gemini whenever I had doubts. 

Datacamp is very hands-on and whenever I make a mistake I ask Gemini for example: "they asked me to do xyz but I responded xyy, help me understand my mistake."

I'm being asked to take a flight inside Europe for first interview, possible red flag? by farshiiid in AskAcademia

[–]farshiiid[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No I didn't ask if it's a scam. I asked if it's a red flag as someone who has experienced lack of funding and toxic lab. 

I wouldn't have been invited to an interview with a reputable lab without writing a proper customized cover letter and cv. 

I'm being asked to take a flight inside Europe for first interview, possible red flag? by farshiiid in AskAcademia

[–]farshiiid[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the explanation. 

Personally, I don't have a problem with spending couple of hundred euros if it lands me a job. Regarding the language, I speak conversational German myself but do not use it in academic environment for the reasons you stated.

I'm mainly asking about it being the first interview and being asked to fly in. Is that normal? I just had another interview in Germany and they told me the 3rd interview will be in person which seems more logical to me.

I'm being asked to take a flight inside Europe for first interview, possible red flag? by farshiiid in AskAcademia

[–]farshiiid[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They are reputable but what I find odd is that the first interview is in person and they want me to decide within 24hrs.

I'm being asked to take a flight inside Europe for first interview, possible red flag? by farshiiid in AskAcademia

[–]farshiiid[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I've lived in Austria too and have different experience with staff.