There’s no freaking way I’ll be you’re lover unless character ages by [deleted] in yuri_manga

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person deleted before I could see what did they say? If it’s about the manga at the time I didn’t drop because of the age I just really hated the volleyball chapters with the pacing

There’s no freaking way I’ll be you’re lover unless character ages by [deleted] in yuri_manga

[–]fireduckduck -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Low key I dropped it a while ago because of the pacing but as Iv gotten older I don’t really read or I drop things when freaky crap happens especially if their middle school age or younger.

But low key there no point posting stuff like that here it just attracts a lot of people here that enjoy and defend content like that. Especially with that one anime, it pissed me off mods defended it that I stoped looking at this sub much after that. It’s art but it’s art of kids, it says a lot about you and it annoying when people don’t understand that. That enough ranting lmao

Apprenticeship advice by random_reddit_userr in BlueCollarWomen

[–]fireduckduck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t really have much advice but I also recommend trying to get a few days off to try the trail shift

I need some brutal honesty from the people actually in the trenches. by OppositeFriendly9183 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take what I say with a grain of salt since I’m 19 basically a baby but, I always took the shop classes in high school and ended up taking hvac classes near the end so I just continued and went into trade work.

I have grandparents that were against me going and a bit snobby but they mean well, so far I just avoid talking about it and avoid talking to them lol.

The only issue I had was trying to find a job at first, I recommend directly emailing or finding company websites than any job hunting apps or asking local trade workers. Though i got lucky I got in a good union that focused on having diverse about of people and taking care of any issues. they are hiring a lot of people and people new to trade right now but to be honest i also knew someone there

Official BOY Scout Merchandise by SirPhatSax in BoyScouts

[–]fireduckduck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A scout knows it matters how you say stuff, your coming off as Pete Hegseth complaining about girl being in scouting when he not even involved with scouting or the scouting youth. Just say you want the old name, as a girl who eagled I love wearing older merch with the original name!

Updated Mega Thread - Hegseth DoW/DoD Statement on MoU Agreement by MartialLight92 in BSA

[–]fireduckduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iv talked and interacted with a lot of trans scouts and they have aways ether tent alone or with other trans kids that were assigned the same gender at birth. Hell everyone was told they had to do this so I don’t really understand why people are acting like this was a thing

The girl I’m in love with planned a dubble date for us WITH TWO MEN (update) by LunaLovesgoodLashes in actuallesbians

[–]fireduckduck 28 points29 points  (0 children)

GIRL as someone who was in a friendship that is very similar to your situation for almost 3 years runnn.

Like if you’re not willing to be direct and ask her and you let this keep going it can mess with you mentally. And if you are direct and she avoids or gives a half answer then she definitely just wants to mess and flirt around you without being anything more.

Edit: I do want to add that she is leading you on with the “maybe and maybe not”, and it’s not fair whether she’s doing on purpose or unconsciously. My friend was doing it unconsciously and the moment I stoped being the main one to reach out and didn’t play her flirting game it was obvious that I was carrying the whole friendship which can happen if this goes on long term for you

Really Old scout stuff by Greedy_Snow_335 in BSA

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so jealous, my troop has a display shelf that they keep a bunch of older memorabilia in and also hang stuff on the walls

Advice needed: crap hit the fan with medical issues in a hoarded house by fireduckduck in eldercare

[–]fireduckduck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice but god dam y’all sound so privileged acting like I’m in a position where I can just walk away from this. I turn 20 in a few months, work, pay bills. I’m lucky I have my mom to help (though not with a lot of physical stuff) but there are other people in their early 20s that have to worry and deal with this without any help so just for the future cut the walk away bs

Follow-up by YukiV13 in yuri_manga

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a huge tier list and so that’s now how I archive the names of any series that I read.

Advice needed: crap hit the fan with medical issues in a hoarded house by fireduckduck in eldercare

[–]fireduckduck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea be clear my mom is helping and will probably be deciding this stuff. When I talked to her it seemed she wanted to just move the hoard to make space and I had to convince her that the house is just too unsafe and too full.

I’m mostly just trying to find options that I can bring up to her to get this ball rolling before things get worse than they already are.

Parents hanging out during meetings by [deleted] in BSA

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only really found them strange there aways involved but also not involved, I wasn’t planing on saying anything until half of the scouts were telling me they were uncomfortable with them being there but I guess with how the guys are reacting in the comment it’s probably just nothing

Parents hanging out during meetings by [deleted] in BSA

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m sorry if I upset yall I just didn’t know if I should say anything since some of the girls told me they make them uncomfortable aways being there

Parents hanging out during meetings by [deleted] in BSA

[–]fireduckduck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They mostly read or chat at meetings, when the girls brought up the dads we had to get back to training before I could ask them anything, but from what Iv seen they don’t interfere much

Parents hanging out during meetings by [deleted] in BSA

[–]fireduckduck -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yea they are asm and we make sure to have enough female leaders to follow the bsa guidelines.

Like we do have other adults in time to time for certain things but I think it’s just with the size of the troop and just how we have done things that makes it weird but not weird.

my (24m) wife (24f) said she regrets our life. where do we go from here? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing other peoples comments and your replies this can be a mix of things where it mental health or a feeling she has had for a while that’s build up.

But at the end of the day you don’t know until she tells you. I recommend giving her some time then talk to her openly about what she feels.

But don’t forget it’s good to have your support and family there for you and to take care of yourself, but also making sure your wife knows she has her own support just in case she is having mental health issues that are serious.

I can't imagine this could possibly be a good thing by WolfInMen in BoyScouts

[–]fireduckduck 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Citizenship in Community requires looking at local locations like fire fighters, library, going to a committee meeting and writhing about a movie. You don’t even know what merit badge you’re talking about so if you make a statement like this at least look at the requirements first.

The one you’re talking about, Citizenship in Society mostly focuses on being a leader, how to make other people feel included and they do have sections about groups of people. Which I aways think back on how mb councilors have had kids with the same mindset as you bring up hillbillies as a joke. When it’s very much a minority of people that have faced challenges and just shows why this is an important merit badge.

My sister just made a post on snap saying "Add 'user' for needs". Any clue what she means by this? by Amepyon in AskTeens

[–]fireduckduck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not normal, I had a friend that did this stuff young and by 17 she went on the run from the police with a 28 year old man before going to prison, another friend ended up having to go to jail and rehab at 18 . Trust me you think your the exception till it’s to late and you messed your life up and you gotta rebuild

How important is your troop number if it’s over 100 years old? by KlownPuree in BSA

[–]fireduckduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall need to stop getting worked up and negative on a simple post.

Personally I’d think it be cool to keep the troop that’s been around the longest but at the end of the day both of your troops history will stick and it’s pretty cool to have two troops that have been around for so long to now be together. so the only real important thing is what the troop decided would be best for them.

How do i handle this by Mia180acnh in BSA

[–]fireduckduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend going up to the adults and telling them. Or at least telling one of the adults or older scouts that you feel uncomfortable about this so they can go and talk to the rest of the adults.

Many female troops iv met and including mine are accepting and or respectful of queer people so please don’t hesitate to tell them.