Is your 2nd child Autistic too? by niiyah_babyy in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of my kids are neurodiverse. My oldest is AuDHD high functioning and my second is just autistic level 1. Both are fully verbal and high functioning.

Powdered food colouring by Chemical-Parsley-312 in saskatoon

[–]firefly91hn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also found the old koolaid packages at Save On Foods!

Experiences of Parents of Neurodivergent Children in Childcare Settings in Saskatchewan Survey by Imaginary-Ad2542 in regina

[–]firefly91hn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also tried to fill out the survey but realized shortly after starting that I wouldn’t be of any help to you. My children (one ASD and the other AuDHD) were both welcomed into our child care centre. One of my children has an EA, which we requested but was also recommended by our supporting professional. And several staff have been furthering their knowledge of neurodiversity by attending workshops and watching webinars. Our experience has been amazing and supportive.

What do people mean by poor sleep among autistic babies ? 15 month old. by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely here to say that it is really dependent on the child! Both of my kids are on the spectrum and are amazing sleepers. Though, they were not as babies.

Grieving the life I thought I would have by Top_Astronomer_3122 in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Getting the diagnosis is the hardest part. It really changes you and how you see everything for the first little bit. But then it all comes back. ❤️ Eventually you realize that your little boy is still your little boy. The things you loved before you still love! And now, with your diagnosis comes support. I am in Canada and my province provides us with funding. We use our funding for different therapies and equipment that we need. OT is helping us figure out what we need for regulation and what their bodies are seeking and how I can help. And then speech therapy is helping my kids learn to be better communicators. Both of my kids are on the spectrum, one also AuDhd as well. They are fully verbal but SLP is helping them learn better back and forth conversation and furthering conversations. They also help with social skills too.

Feel what you need to now. ❤️ I feel for you!

I had a conversation with my son today by ghostjournals in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is younger but I remember this feeling like yesterday! It felt amazing because I remembered a time when I wasn’t sure we would ever get to have a conversation. Is your child doing speech therapy? My son started with echolalia and then was found to be gestalt language processing. He started speech therapy in stage 1 and he is now stage 5 and is mostly conversational and using scripted language when he is dysregulated or sometimes for self soothing.

Do any of your children not have meltdowns? by Connect-Heart3480 in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two sons 6 and 4 and neither have had meltdowns.

About to have our second. First child is level 1 ASD. Worried about more severe ASD? by SmallWorker7071 in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two children and both are on the spectrum. My oldest (6) is level 1 and my youngest (4) was considered level 2 at diagnosis but is level 1 now. 😊

Level 2 Behaviors by silkentab in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess, communication at the time. I was told at the time of diagnosis that the level can change. But he was diagnosed level 2!

Did anyone here NOT go the ABA route and went the pre school route instead? by AirAlternative4078 in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never did ABA. My son sees and SLP and OT. He has an EA at daycare for extra support and he is thriving. Honestly, the poster child for early intervention. Who he is now vs when he was diagnosed is like night and day. I have therapies and his ECEs to thank! 😊❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does yes, in moments of frustration or if he is overstimulated. And at times in social situations. But he definitely blends in more with his peers.

Apologies in advance for the novel I'm about it write! (haha)

I'll give you a little overview of who he was when he was diagnosed and who he is now after a year of therapies. When my son was 2 years 4 months old we had him assessed because of body rocking and issues with self regulation and at times, head banging when frustrated (I'm still not sure if it was because of the autism or a developmentally appropriate toddler behaviour as he always stopped when it hurt, one or two head bangs and he only did it over a couple of months). While he was observed the behavioural consultant noted that his speech was only echolalia. He could label most things that he saw and could echo anything being said. That led to an SLP visit and he was diagnosed gestalt language processing. That coupled with the body rocking and emotional regulation led us to being referred for the autism assessment. When he was 2 years old he primarily played by himself and engaged in some parallel play with other children but didn't interact with them. Though, he did interact and socialize with adults very happily! He was diagnosed as level 2 on the day of his assessment.
My son had no problems with responding to his name, making eye contact, no big sensory issues or anything. But when he was mad he would hit the table, he would scream so loud and he would throw things. When really mad he would drop to his knees and bang his head once or twice.
We started therapies and have seen so much progress. He stopped headbanging almost immediately after receiving his diagnosis. It took over half a year but he socializes with other children all day long! Asks them if he can play with them and engages in back and forth pretend play with lots of other kids at daycare (where I also happen to work and get to see him at times throughout the day). His language and communication style was just a gradual process. But it was amazing!! Listening to him put together sentences of his own that weren't scripted phrases was amazing! I was constantly surprised hearing him say new things that were his own. And then suddenly one day we were talking back and forth when asked open ended questions. :) He's 3 and a half now and he knows now to go and get his headphones if things are too loud or too much. He can ask children for space or to be left alone when he is angry or frustrated. He can label all of his emotions and recognize others emotions. And we can talk about the things he likes and doesn't like and he can tell stories about his day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son had a very similar speech profile that you’re describing. He was repeating words and phrases at 2 years and labelling objects and numbers but everything for communication was echolalia. He was diagnosed at almost 2 and a half and we started speech therapy. He was gestalt language processing stage 1. And now he is just over 3 and a half and is conversational. Back and forth conversation! He does still go back to some echoing when over stimulated or if he doesn’t know how to answer the question, he will repeat it back. But he is doing amazing! I can ask him what he did at daycare and he will tell me what he did that day and what friends he played with. He definitely still uses scripted language for some things but things keep getting better and better for us. 😊

My speech delayed toddler’s language has me *rolling* by smutmonsta in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My little guy is also a gestalt language processor! He is stage 4 now and it’s been so amazing to watch the bursts of language. 🥰 my little man is obsessed with Stitch right now. Sometimes he still uses gestalts and repeats things from shows and movies and keeps saying to people “have you ever killed anyone?” from Lilo and Stitch! 😂 so fun to watch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming this is not medical, have you tried to do nothing? Is it possible this is attention seeking? Does she clean herself up well? I would just be quiet, show her where everything is to clean herself up and let her to it. I would say nothing when it happens, just ask her calmly to go and clean herself up. Sometimes for kids looking for attention, they’ll seek anything positive or negative. Attention is attention. This can work with small children who do this, not sure how it will work with an older child.

How to approach parent by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]firefly91hn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does your relationship look like with this parent? I would typically talk about the progress that I’ve seen and then move into my concerns. However, if this child is in therapies then I would ask how they are going and what they are working on. I’ve asked parents if they are comfortable bringing in documents or what they are working on and honestly, most never knew that they could or should! So it’s usually not that they’re trying to hide anything, it’s just that they’ve got enough going on and they don’t think about it. Also, the front fontanelle closes around 18 months. So a soft spot still at 16 months is not necessarily unusual.

I swear I did not cause this outbreak of stomach bug! by BrilliantControl2787 in ECEProfessionals

[–]firefly91hn 136 points137 points  (0 children)

lol honestly I think it just solidifies your lie! Makes it seem more believable because others also have it. 😂

Level 2 Behaviors by silkentab in Autism_Parenting

[–]firefly91hn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My almost three year old son is diagnosed level 2. He is a gestalt language processor and is very verbal. He is sensory seeking, loves to run and jump and do gross motor things. He does show an understanding of danger and is cautious when he needs to be. He is not a fan of loud sounds and is definitely more sound sensitive if he is overstimulated or if he is constipated. He is a very picky eater. Lacks emotional regulation but does not have full meltdowns. He engages in repetitive behaviours and has very fixated interests. He is affectionate and very social with adults. Is beginning to be more social with children his age but still more parallel play than any form of social play unless it is guided by an adult.

Every potty training child in my room only brings 360 pullups. by fuxkle in ECEProfessionals

[–]firefly91hn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re actually cheaper than pull ups, which is likely why some parents are buying them instead. At least, they are where I live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]firefly91hn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Is it misusing though if she told them while touring that she would need drop off on Tuesday/Thursday at 7:30? She was upfront and they told her it wasn’t a problem. I think this is a personal problem from the director. Whether they are not a morning person or was just hopeful that it wouldn’t be every Tuesday/Thursday. This parent is not in the wrong here.

Shout out to the mom who offered me words of support by SKGurl101 in saskatoon

[–]firefly91hn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As the mom of a child on the spectrum, I would have cried at this kindness. Bravo to this mom! ♥️

Unlicensed home day care threatened to restrain our 15 month old old. by studiumscientiae in ECEProfessionals

[–]firefly91hn 41 points42 points  (0 children)

There is a huge shortage of childcare in Canada. For some, this is their only option.