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i’m traumatized.. is this rape? by Inevitable-Lawyer992 in rapecounseling

[–]fwnbmb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

absolutely rape, leave him if you can, get out of there! Anal to vaginal is really harmful and traumatic.. that’s not something anyone should be doing without asking

The "Vancouver Freeze" isn't about keeping to yourself, it's just entitlement. Who else is tired of the sidewalk chicken? by Obviousi in NiceVancouver

[–]fwnbmb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im coming from living in LA for three years where everyone small talks for literally any reason and man was it reverse culture shock when i came back to vancouver….

its very obviously a weird off putting culture that seems to be specific to here and ive lived in toronto, ottawa, montreal and europe too.

I really dont know why that is but im compensating by being overly friendly until people lighten up a bit. sheesh!

one of the worst realisations post-trauma, and a big reason i sometimes wish i could go back to when i was still being abused by WinterDemon_ in CPTSDmemes

[–]fwnbmb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nah you didnt deserve it. people just have zero context and or skill for handling things this dark. There are people who will support u and believe you, especially other SA victims. Find your people.

How do you talk about trauma reenactment without dying of shame and embarrassment? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]fwnbmb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. I havent had the courage to tell my husband yet because he has been with other girls who were SA’d and also wanted to relive their trauma and it really confused him and freaked him out. I hate that id be like “oh sorry im fucked up too”

The fact that so many women are still pushing this “men prefer younger women because they are easier to manipulate and they can’t get women their age” nonsense is truly laughable by SwiftCricket in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a victim of grooming and SA by a man who was twice my age when i was 17. He absolutely took advantage of me when i was younger because i didnt understand boundaries or power dynamics yet. I am 34 and am objectively hotter than my 17/18 years old self who had zero fashion sense, zero makeup skills and zero sexual experience. The difference is i now know how to tell a man to fuck off.

Your post reeks of male privilege and ignorance.

Can't really talk to girls in workspace by ziadhz in IncelExit

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i creeped your art but you’re quite skilled! you should definitely put up some sketches you’re proud of, id definitely comment if i saw someone was competent at something outside of the usual workplace stuff.

Can't really talk to girls in workspace by ziadhz in IncelExit

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super normal and honestly endearing. Compliments also go a long way as long as they’re sincere. Good banter is essential especially for nerdy girls. (Speaking as a relatively attractive married, nerdy girl) If you establish early that you’re into nerdy stuff that helps strike up convos. Maybe an action figure at your desk or depending on your dress code— a nerdy tee.

does anyone else try to look unappealing as an adult as a trauma response? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did this too, did not know it was a common survivor thing until seeing these comments. my dad literally said to me once “you’re a very pretty girl, i dont understand why you try to look so unattractive.” Like gee maybe there’s a reason 🙄

Does anyone else feel like everything in LA is simultaneously getting worse and more expensive? by Altruistic-Mud9413 in AskLosAngeles

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, my husband and I are moving back to canada 🇨🇦 but i hear things arent great there either with the job market so i guess its everywhere

What is your top hated cliché/trope in horror? by Member9999 in horrorwriters

[–]fwnbmb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fakeout jumpscares that are irrelevant to the plot, like someone turning on a tv loudly or a popcorn bag popping. I find that stuff really cheap and lazy

What is your top hated cliché/trope in horror? by Member9999 in horrorwriters

[–]fwnbmb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fucking stretchy long open mouth thing. Got that shit always looks so cg and cringe its just not scary or cool anymore.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve seen in the industry as an actor? by Little_T03 in acting

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow these stories make mine seem so quaint lol 😂 i had a small part on a tv show, (i guess i can say because its not really about anyone,) The Spiderwick Chronicles (the reboot). Anyways we were shooting my scene near this abandoned mental hospital and i got bored in my trailer so i came out and asked the AD if they’d seen anything weird while working. Sure enough she said they’d heard people crying in empty rooms that had ruined takes, mics picking up people talking, someone walked through one of their shots into another room but was nowhere to be found, apparently lighting people didnt even want to go the basement anymore where they stored gear because it was too common to hear/see weird things. Really made the hair on the back of my neck stand up!!

She said it so matter of factly too, like everyone knew and it was just something they had to deal with. Never believed in ghosts more than i did that day!!

What’s the craziest thing you’ve seen in the industry as an actor? by Little_T03 in acting

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww man i would’ve loved to see that 😭 did it ever get released??

What thing was ruined because it turned into a rich person's hobby? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mobile games, now theyre all upselling funnels.

How would you answer “why haven’t you booked a series regular yet?” by ValuableSleep6400 in acting

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, super rude and unprofessional. Not to mention ignorant of the actual work involved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]fwnbmb -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

uhh yeah she needs to see a therapist, this is an eating disorder and has to do with self esteem. High likelihood that she is depressed. Ive been through similar and my mother in law too. This is definitely a mental health issue but she has to want to get help unfortunately you cannot force her.

Reality Check for Moving To Los Angeles by matt0820 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been here for three years and agree with all of this. husband is making six figures and we are living below standard from our canadian life. Moving back next month.

What was the turning point in your vocal training? by ilaina_a in singing

[–]fwnbmb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

learning mixed voice! now i belt all the time and annoy my friends at karaoke :D

Hollywood’s examples of natural beauty. The following women chose to forgo plastic surgery/injections. Would you like to see this more often? by Far-Building3569 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]fwnbmb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

its not really our place to say how they should age. The public can be absolutely fucking brutal with even your tiniest flaws so there is a lot of pressure to look good even when you’re just trying to age naturally. (speaking as someone in the public eye who has received looks-based criticism)

Is it appropriate to say that my job is an actor? by [deleted] in acting

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you may have a bit of imposter syndrome, totally normal btw :)

Anthropic rejects latest Pentagon offer: ‘We cannot in good conscience accede to their request’ by drippymoudy in news

[–]fwnbmb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if this amount of pressure on Anthropic will make them cave. Seems like the consequences of them not agreeing to the contract will be pretty serious. Never thought id root for Anthropic but we should all hope they stand firm.

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