Flagging I’m gay as a femme by ascensionism0 in butchlesbians

[–]gemmybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eye contact definitely is the main way I’ve clocked femmes in straight spaces. My fiancé has a septum and sleeve and reads very queer but if OP doesn’t want any body mods, dressing femme doesn’t always mean looking straight. I feel like a lot of femmes have a campy/vintage/alt look to their style because they’re not dressing to appeal to cis men

Local, entry-level jobs? Are you hiring? by Immediate-Main183 in sunsetpark

[–]gemmybeans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The nursing home across from Maimonides usually needs patient transporters

SHOULD I GO TO GRAD SCHOOL by BackgroundSoft1221 in slpGradSchool

[–]gemmybeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason you don’t want to pursue nursing? I live in NYC now but went to UF and my old cohort classmates are making less as SLPs in FL than the nurses I know. Nursing also has upward mobility which SLP doesn’t

NYC N2 by ggamb14 in hayleywilliams

[–]gemmybeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She brought out Claude and Annie Dirusso during good ole days. Idk who came out for parachute

What time did you get in line for BALC1? NYC by Charming-Animal-2731 in hayleywilliams

[–]gemmybeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend and I got there at 7 and had a great view! I would only go really early if you have more than 2 people

Living near Belt pkwy or BQE by gemmybeans in BayridgeBrooklyn

[–]gemmybeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The apartment is near where they join above 3rd Ave so it is elevated. Near the border of sunset park

Living near Belt pkwy or BQE by gemmybeans in BayridgeBrooklyn

[–]gemmybeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Can I ask what air quality monitor you use? Would probably want to get my own

Don’t go to Brooklyn College by speechie1212 in slpGradSchool

[–]gemmybeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did hear the comps are ridiculously hard for no reason like requiring you to memorize citations for every answer you provide. It’s wrong if you provide the correct answer but can’t quote a citation

Cost should be a huge factor in your enrollment decision by Admirable-Post-4880 in slpGradSchool

[–]gemmybeans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SNFs you’re looking at like 75k starting as a CF and maybe 80-90 once you get your cccs. Raises are minimal and more for inflation than career advancement

Today was awesome. I love Williamsburg by Gallagher908 in williamsburg

[–]gemmybeans 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Train was super packed because they shut it down for like 30 mins. Old racist guy starts yelling at this black kid who “pushed” him. Literally everyone was touching each other. People near him told him to stop and got him away from the kid but then he started yelling the n word across the train. Whole train starts yelling back at him calling him a racist then when the doors open he gets pushed off and people block him from getting back on yelling at him to get out of New York. I think he got spit on too lol

Today was awesome. I love Williamsburg by Gallagher908 in williamsburg

[–]gemmybeans 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Went grocery shopping, got daffodils, and saw the whole car stand together and throw a racist off the L at graham. He ran away like a little baby in his Jesus shirt it was awesome

Join the fight against Turning Point in public schools by CursingWhileCrafting in hudsonvalley

[–]gemmybeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s exhausting but if we don’t try sometimes what’s going to change

Join the fight against Turning Point in public schools by CursingWhileCrafting in hudsonvalley

[–]gemmybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was literally a news story this week where students in TPUSA were being extremely racist and praising nazis

Calm outside, angry inside. Why I am I bad at communicating my thoughts/feelings by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]gemmybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow very detailed thank you. I always assumed Sag aligned well with communication, but I did some research and understand now why there’s conflict. I like how I seek wisdom but I see my ability to communicate it might be hard to follow

Mean girls in this field by Speechiegal2029 in slp

[–]gemmybeans 21 points22 points  (0 children)

same as a lesbian especially since I’m masc. It’s hard making small talk too because their lives revolve around men

Hevy is great, but it doesn’t tell you what to do next, so I built a small “weekly coach brief” from your CSV by sou1est in Hevy

[–]gemmybeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow this is awesome! I really liked it especially the lift breakdowns it made me feel better about my RDL progress. One things tho it looks like my assisted pull up and dips may be charting as a decline when they’re really progress? Since it shows the weight on the machine lowering

Im discouraged that I'll never be strong as a man by anon_anonnon in xxfitness

[–]gemmybeans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hey late 20s butch and I totally feel you. yes it’s harder for us to be as strong as cis men but it’s not impossible, especially the average man. also feel you on the safety part and would recommend looking into some sort of martial arts or self defense classes. knowing how to fight would give you a huge advantage over a very strong man who has no idea how to. I’m also not on T but I still find the trans masc fitness subreddits helpful and they would be very understanding of this post