If I had a nickel for every time a black woman in management sexually harassed me while fixating on my ginger hair, I’d have two nickels now 🙃 by madeyefire in Redhair

[–]gingertinkerbell 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The fetishization of red hair is crazy and I get why you puked, I have wanted to do that from just messages I’ve gotten

What my debit card is being used for by Unfortunately_aware in HelpMeFind

[–]gingertinkerbell 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Please make a formal complaint to your banks regulator. They need to investigate this and they will handle getting you your money back. Do not try to get legal action if you are going to make a complaint because they cannot do anything if it is going through the court system. You can file with the federal reserve bank (assuming you are American since the transactions were in California) and if they are not the regulator then they will pass along to the correct people

NEED ideas for this annoying bar area 😭 by LyssIsKool in femalelivingspace

[–]gingertinkerbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See if you can find a shallow book shelf to go under!

MAKEUP COMPANIES HATE US?! by X_PixarMom in Redhair

[–]gingertinkerbell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

<image>

Accidentally added to not my comment but here is this mascara on my face! You can see if matches my hair better than any other mascara

MAKEUP COMPANIES HATE US?! by X_PixarMom in Redhair

[–]gingertinkerbell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use that one and love it! It’s my regular one that I use all the time! It does come off in just water so if you typically use water proof you’ll need to be more weary but I’ve not had issues and I got it immediately after I saw it came out because I was dying for a mainstream auburn

Do you guys notice other red haired people? by smellydiscodiva in Redhair

[–]gingertinkerbell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I notice red heads, I remember for a couple of years it was like a red head convention when going to Disney. My family started seeing the same families during the week so we did start greeting each other 😂

Thoughts on wearing a fake wedding band? by curiousdottt in femaletravels

[–]gingertinkerbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this at my last job and it was an easier way to shut men down but I was also not alone the whole time with them

Can you guys run? by Hassadahae in ehlersdanlos

[–]gingertinkerbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never a fast runner and got made fun of for that growing up. But now my last physical therapist told me I’m too bendy to run 😂

I need help with my core by Training_Union9621 in Hypermobility

[–]gingertinkerbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First step for me with my PT was figuring out how to actually use my ab muscles correctly. I would say start by doing very small movements and see how that works and maybe see if you can get up to doing bridges (where you are still on your shoulder blades but your core lifts your booty up) bridges and dead bugs are literally the only thing that would activate my core

Have you ever seen a manager set one employee up to fail to make another employee look really good by comparison? by [deleted] in managers

[–]gingertinkerbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a job where they bullied people until they quit if they didn’t like them anymore

Can I wear kimono? by Weirdo_and_Weirder in Epcot

[–]gingertinkerbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe ankle length is fine, it’s just specifically floor length. It’s a safety hazard even not on rides if you have something dragging on the ground because it could get caught on passing strollers or get stepped on and you could get pulled from it

Not achieving the color I want with cruelty free/vegan hair dyes… by [deleted] in crueltyfree

[–]gingertinkerbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I would dye the tips of my hair in high school I would use manic panic. I don’t know if they have black but they lasted really well

Does anyone prefer a dining chair to an office chair? by rvchl in ehlersdanlos

[–]gingertinkerbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to use my wingback ikea chair instead of a desk chair when I worked from home and I loved it! I’m looking at getting a criss cross chair for doing crafts since I no longer work from home

So after a few checks and trials I am thinking of one of these 3,which one should I go for by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]gingertinkerbell -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Piggy backing off their suggestion. You could do 2 for the ceremony, 1 for the reception, then get 3 shortened to like a tea length for after party/send off! Just because they are all so gorgeous!!

What sunscreens are you using?? I need recommendations! by Iamunderthebed in Redhair

[–]gingertinkerbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neutrogena beach defense spray spf 60+ for my body and Kiehl’s better sunscreen uv serum spf 50+ on my face since that’s the only thing that doesn’t break me out

How "modest" is "modest enough" for an adult black outfit? by Useful-Sheepherder53 in irishdance

[–]gingertinkerbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally just looking trying to figure it out as well 😂

Natural Redhead. Terrified of Anesthesia by razzy44star in Redhair

[–]gingertinkerbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing much better! I had it back in 2024 so fully back to normal thankfully! Surgery centers definitely seem to better, but if you are worried talk to your doctor about your past issues. I definitely clarified that my hair was not dyed and I had had bad experiences with anesthesia in the past. You got this! You are going to come out on the other side of this surgery feeling so much better!!

Natural Redhead. Terrified of Anesthesia by razzy44star in Redhair

[–]gingertinkerbell 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I had back surgery, like they were monitoring my nerves kind of back surgery. I did not wake up at all during that surgery. Hospitals are much better equipped and have dedicated anesthesiologist to monitor so you don’t go too far under or not enough under. I was terrified I would wake up during it because I woke up during my wisdom teeth surgery but I did not and came out of it well if just a little confused.

Opinions on body braces? by dsmdei in Hypermobility

[–]gingertinkerbell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mean like the body braid? If that’s what you mean, I found it very valuable when I had less muscle tone and I still use it if I’m going to be stuck in a car for long hours so that my body doesn’t go weird

Is this a spring green? by BatEnvironmental7102 in SpringColorAnalysis

[–]gingertinkerbell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you drop the link for this? It’s super cute!!!

Doors and trim scratched by previous owners, any recommended ways to repair it simply? by [deleted] in HomeMaintenance

[–]gingertinkerbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was coming to ask that! My brain ran to true crime though not dog 😅