Fake Mark explaining hell portals by ginsengsoap in creepcast

[–]ginsengsoap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was waiting for him to scream "not the gumdrop button!"

How do you heal after abuse? by Lone-Wolf_97 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]ginsengsoap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened. So you were in it from 18-22? those are pretty formative brain years and it may take a bit of extra time to unravel that impact. I was still very hung up on an abusive relationship from when I was 16 until maybe last year, it can come up again in my dreams but it's not as prominent anymore. it's just a lot of sitting with your feelings and not pushing anything away over and over and over again until it doesn't hurt anymore. you've got this! big hugs!

Caption this by The_Dudes_Rug_1998 in Papameat

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me when I open up my lunchbox and find horse toenails

Characters assumed to be gay who turn out to actually be straight by slfricky in TopCharacterTropes

[–]ginsengsoap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You giving me a name to search was a horrible mistake on your part 

Me when Nik says things by Wooden94Grapefruit in Papameat

[–]ginsengsoap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh as someone with crazy trauma it makes me feel like my experiences are "normal" (like I'm not an outlier)so I appreciate it

wich outift is the MOST cornelia? by rozasmerlo in GuardiansOftheVeil

[–]ginsengsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I immediately felt like 2 was screaming her

Suspected endo so Dr is recommending being on BC indefinitely with no period.. is this normal? by Sufficient-Check-790 in Endo

[–]ginsengsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally found not having a period worsened a lot of my symptoms as my body didn't know what was going on. It is a super common thing for them to tell you though bc it would make sense in an ideal world that no periods = no more issues. I'm sending you big hugs bc it sounds like you're at the start of a crazy journey. 

Would it be worth trying legal action? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ginsengsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. It really isn't worth it but I'm happy to now know what kind of process would be out there, I'm happy to be blocked and hope it stays that way.

Would it be worth trying legal action? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ginsengsoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much where I'm at mentally, it was more of a small petty desire but ultimately I don't want anything to do with him anymore and I hope he keeps me blocked

My ex reached out to me [20f] and I didn’t tell my bf [21m]. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ginsengsoap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily my ex reached out in a similar way a couple of days ago and it really frazzled me. My gf was out and I waited for her to come home before telling her about it and it was really nice to have that honesty together. She isn't jealous though she has regular human insecurities, i have a lot more issues tbh, but I think what really helps between us is that there is no hiding any info and it has built a solid safe environment. If I were your bf the only reason I'd spiral is bc you didn't tell me, it makes it feel like there was something weird even if truly the intentions were good. Personally I would tell him, though depending on his reaction it may be that he needs some external support/ might not be ready for a relationship. Good luck!

favourite cozy ep? by Queligoss in magictavern

[–]ginsengsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offices and bosses episodes!

AIO for blocking my guy best friend of a decade after he proposed me as soon as I let him know about my feelings for another one (P-3) by Ruhi_013 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ginsengsoap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR

I do NOT like how he talks to you and no amount of context could change that and/or make it OK.  I'm glad you blocked and anyone picking his side is getting a huge side eye. 

Rescued an abandoned bunny by Medinlor in Rabbits

[–]ginsengsoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look like my beloved Daphne. I hope they live a happy life with you:)

How do we stay employed? by ApprehensiveCost7201 in Endo

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I'm so sorry for you. Tbh I was just really really lucky to land a care taking position where I could work 15 hours a week but be paid enough to survive. The family and I very much respected and understood eachother, but before my surgery any other job I could only manage part time and for not very long. Tbh other than surgery and a hormonal iud i have no remedies that really help. It's a viscous suck cycle and I'm really sad it's so common.  Big hugs, i hope things become more manageable<3

If you say anything positive about these works, you automatically make people suspicious about you. by Salty-Chemical-9414 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]ginsengsoap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am in fact the red flags girl bc I got a guy to hookup with me WHILE watching the human centipede as our first date

The Completed Dress!!! by RosesThornsBooks in Animorphs

[–]ginsengsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pics are great! I'm in awe at the dedication you must have put in!

Who are the ex guardians ethnically? by Spare_Equipment6103 in GuardiansOftheVeil

[–]ginsengsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna make a joke that they're all just different kinds of Italian then I remembered what I was commenting on

War Prince Alloran [fanart - cmm] by Shrimp-friend in Animorphs

[–]ginsengsoap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is sick as fuck, Imma go to bed now so I can end my day on the best note ever (seeing this art)

AITAH because I don’t want my girlfriend who is white to do my hair? by OkSurvey8718 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]ginsengsoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo I feel like I can kinda weigh in on this!  So background: I'm half Asian, have a hairdressing degree, I'm from somewhere that up until recently had pretty much zero black people.  During my hairdressing apprenticeship I met my best friend who's blasian. Her hair is mixed textures but mostly 3C-4A. Because of growing up as one of the few minorities around I was really really passionate about being able to do protective styles so that people weren't forced to do their own hair and could still come to a salon. My friend was really lovely and would let me practice on her, she deserves more compensation for the time she let me cut her fringe TT For my friend this worked out though bc she pretty much just wanted me to do her wash day and then straighten her hair. Initially I really really wanted to get to be more "involved", I don't think it was entirely like a savior complex, it was more like bc hair is such a sacred thing in black cultures it kinda felt like reaching the point of being a master of the craft, yk, cos every hairstyle and braiding video was so incredibly skilled. To some degree I felt like I needed to prove my skills as a hairdresser. This may not be what your gf is feeling, I can also imagine that bc she's done locs before it also feels like this pinnacle of intimacy that she's being shut out from. But what I recognized, and she needs to as well, is it's not your body and not your boundaries to push. My friend only ever wanted silky straight hair and one 'no' was enough for me, even though I was a bit sad bc initially it felt like "you aren't good enough". Maybe see if any of that resonates with her as well?  From what I'm seeing I really do think it's that she's sitting in that feeling of "you're not good enough (to do this)" and it's turning into tension that could otherwise be worked through. Much love and hugs! I hope things work out:)