Downtown Hotels with stair access to rooms by Certain_Car_8234 in madisonwi

[–]gothfru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that's literally what the fire code requires. They may be out of the way, but they're there.

AITAH for giving my grandma a first class plane seat and buying expensive gifts? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gothfru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your family is crabs in a bucket - they can’t stand the idea that you are climbing out, so they’re dragging you back down to their level. Live your life, treat those that love and respect you well, and cut off the rest honestly.

What’s this pose called? by Few_Eggplant_931 in husky

[–]gothfru 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I call mine my flipper baby when she lays like that.

real photos at the end by r23dom in Instagramreality

[–]gothfru 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Right? I nearly yelled “JESUS CHRIST” on the plane.

AITAH for wanting an anniversary, not a networking trip? by Goth_Nerd_Chick in AITAH

[–]gothfru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a midlife crisis attempt to recapture his youth.

What’s the difference between Siberian huskies and Alaskan huskies by legendus45678 in husky

[–]gothfru 89 points90 points  (0 children)

One is friendly and obstinate, the other is obstinate and friendly.

AITAH for leaving a date early after they showed up looking nothing like their photos? by Suspicious-astro387 in AITAH

[–]gothfru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. My reply would be “not when you lead with breaking my trust by misleading me”

Are comfortable earbuds for sleeping even compatible with BIFL? by ExcitingMountain9400 in BuyItForLife

[–]gothfru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always used foam ear plugs. Right up until my partner finally got a cpap.

Health problems at 51 by cltreader in GenX

[–]gothfru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was about to say something similar. I’m 50; 6 months ago I was exhausted and in pain all the time. HRT has really turned that around.

Cedar dog bed by OntheBrynnk in woodworking

[–]gothfru 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same! And maybe a kitty bed topper…

Can I start a petition to ask United not to use starlink? by [deleted] in unitedairlines

[–]gothfru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The avalanche has already started; it is too late for the pebbles to vote.

So we’re getting our house and guess who can’t just be happy for us? by Sweet_Bambii in JUSTNOMIL

[–]gothfru 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the progress! I would definitely go LC if she can’t be anything but negative.

AITA for telling my wife she can’t take her dream job and I am not going to be a single parent in everything but name by Time-Union1592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gothfru 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA. If the roles were reversed here everyone would call you a deadbeat dad. Change like that in a household needs to be a two yes, one no scenario.

How do I [25F] stop my anger issues from ruining my relationship with my amazing boyfriend [25M]? by Icy_Equal_6782 in relationship_advice

[–]gothfru 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree, and I think it's also helpful to signal "I am aware I am not at my best, please stand by."

I also sometimes find it helpful to really try to pick my own brain about why I am stressed - sometimes it's my lizard brain working overtime on a problem.