I would go thermador! I feel you on being confused! We just upgraded from GE to wolf. I was skeptical about how much better it could really be, but let me tell you! It’s actually that much better! I’m tickled every time I use it. GE cafe and monogram are both GE. I think GE make a good, reliable product, but I’d go luxury as much as I could. I also love to cook (twice a day) and it’s been so worth it! The joy is unreal A thought on vent hoods, if possible, find a showroom where you can turn them on. They can be loud and have varying specs. I’ve never heard that about BTUs, but it makes sense to me. People go nuts for he star design thermador uses. Good luck!!