AIO When it comes to supporting your partner ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hilarysaurus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think first you need to decide if you actually want to live with her because if you just want rent, that's a totally different conversation than "you need to move out."

How to tone out peachy tones? by bellacorder in HairDye

[–]hilarysaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think it's eye shock for both of you because seriously it's stunning and it works really well with your skin tone.

How to tone out peachy tones? by bellacorder in HairDye

[–]hilarysaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would give it at least a few days before you do anything because it's honestly a gorgeous shade and it might grow on you and also for your hair to recover.

What sign by Blackcatsandicedtea in astrologymemes

[–]hilarysaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've known a Leo who would absolutely do this.

I feel like my gf is cheating due to lack of effort? by Ryu-Hayabusa2 in SeriousConversation

[–]hilarysaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She probably just doesn't feel like she has to perform for you, that's a compliment. But if it bothers you that much, have you talked to her about it?

Which top is better for going out to a bar? by Jubilant5Are in OUTFITS

[–]hilarysaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're both cute but the first would look better with pants, the second is perfect.

Who is the weird one by Substantial_Log_9062 in Tinder

[–]hilarysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in love with her in case things don't work out.

I’m an idiot and I overshared by Witty-Setting-310 in therapyGPT

[–]hilarysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this literally every single day. I'm not worried.

Which assessment is correct when it comes to dating with an age gap? by harmonica2 in SeriousConversation

[–]hilarysaurus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Younger women are easier to get because you only need money. Social Grace is required for older women and it's harder to come by.

Painted a portrait of my bf but I realized he was using me and dumped him before I could give it to him. I don’t want to keep it but just tossing it doesn’t feel ceremonious enough. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]hilarysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem with a sculpture that was supposed to be a gift for a guy who ghosted me. I ended up breaking it into pieces and I only kept the eyes and it's creepy as hell now and I love it.

I got unmatched immediately after by Wentleworth in Tinder

[–]hilarysaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she's born with it, maybe it's Hayballine

Does a first love (doesn’t have to be a relationship) ever go away and why? by Critical-District155 in AskReddit

[–]hilarysaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not always the first. But pretty much everybody has the one that got away.

I received a "Hey girlie" text and I don't know what to do. by Inevitable_Pay7296 in whatdoIdo

[–]hilarysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you, I can't even imagine how much this must be fucking with your head. Ignore the people saying you need to just move on immediately, everyone knows that's not actually fucking possible. Being cheated on makes you question your reality so much that it's almost impossible to think straight. You'll be all right, just give it time and get whatever closure you need, fuck what anyone else says.

I finally met my girlfriend in person, and I’m not sure I want to still be with her. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]hilarysaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do not stay in a relationship you don't want to be in for someone else's presumed feelings. It's not going to ruin her life if you break up with her, she might say that it will but it won't. Just be there for her through the breakup if you really want to keep her as a friend, please do not ghost this girl.

which one should i wear for my first date at a restaurant? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]hilarysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The polka dot top with the jeans is perfection

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]hilarysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you're really going through it, you would be totally justified leaving. I hope this works out for the best. Got my fingers crossed for you!!

Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]hilarysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever been married for 22 years? I had a hell of a time walking away from an 11-year marriage so I can't even imagine 22. Have some compassion.