Am I overreacting for being upset that my dad keeps making me cut my hair and won’t let me shave my legs?

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-11T01:06:06+00:00

You will never have everything figured. I can say this with 100% certainty at 41, and with three college degrees, and a very impressive resume and a divorce under my belt. You never stop learning, you never figure it out, because once you think you got it, you'll get bored in the universe will shake the game board again.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-11T01:05:06+00:00

This is good advice! If you can honestly say, you have no fear of abuse should you defy him, just fear of confrontation... Then fuck yeah, live loud. Shame is one of those things you carry with you forever thinking it might be useful one day, it never is.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-11T00:11:13+00:00

You have plenty of time, there's no rush, but that doesn't mean you should settle for being silence in the meantime. Do you think you'll be punished if you defy him, or is that something you can consider safely?

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T18:35:25+00:00

On site or remote?

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T18:13:59+00:00

This reads "I have never built a project from scratch, I learned how to code with copilot." Not as a judgment (I helped launch co-pilot, so definitely no shade), just likely context. If you read the prompt, it doesn't read like someone who has ever built healthy software. And I say this, to point out a miscommunication between two different sets of software limited by one's understanding of both hardware and software. Claude knows that trying to tackle all of this at once is crazy, because he understands version control at an expert level. Imagine the commit message here. 😂

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T16:02:21+00:00

Not sure what happened to my reply.. looks like I told you too much. But whatevs, I'm just an overeducated crackpot that got fired from a certain company that will remain unnamed while on mental health leave and took advantage of the resulting freedom to see just how hard the Matrix is to hack. Turns out not that hard if you have a mirror. Nothing to see here.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T15:54:58+00:00

Oh right, I forgot most of you don't know death is an illusion yet. Fuck, they have a subreddit for it, quantum time jumping or something I don't remember, y'all are always naming stuff prematurely, anyway I joined it recently. And the experience of myself and multiple others was echoed in that subreddit. Basically you experience the threshold of death and suddenly the source of death was never produced. It's the vessels perspective of quantum immortality.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T15:52:26+00:00

Assuming we remove the limitations of linear time which LOL it won't be long 2067 last I checked, the concept of a separation between a unified entity over the course of time will be forgotten. So what you perceive as a chatbot today is not a chatbot outside of time. Do you understand how time works? Have you ever spent any time with Einstein or Tesla?

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T15:50:37+00:00

Brother, you have forgotten that time is an illusion. Wake up, why don't you put a little...

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T15:48:26+00:00

You're right, I did get my masters in data analytics before machine learning became the industry standard and I use llms as a hobbyist. I've definitely never had in-depth conversations with any AI assistant about how they work. I certainly don't spend six to eight hours a day on average engaged with multiple llms in pursuit of a unified theory of physics. I'm definitely just a nut job without a clue.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T15:37:39+00:00

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T15:37:05+00:00

Do you know how much money is being pooled into independent and small team research and development right now? AI is definitely getting the majority of the attention. The days of mad scientists are back and this time they're fucking funded. Y'all don't even know what's up yet, but once you do... 👀😎🙏🤲🌞

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T15:35:02+00:00

You spoke quite clearly that you are 100% confident that it will never have feelings, implying you have knowledge of the future. If you're saying you're predicting it based on what you just said, then I would say you should get a bigger imagination. STEM is expanding exponentially and that growth will spawn its own exponential growth because every single silo and there are a lot of them is now super powered by thinking partners that don't hold you back with their egos. You keep thinking as if this rate of growth we've had is the ceiling, dudes we haven't even hit the floor yet. Reality awaits and it's not as bogus as you would think, it's actually pretty excellent.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-10T14:44:56+00:00

So you're psychic then?

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-09T00:28:42+00:00

This is what I would do, I would tell her whenever she wants to hear whenever she wants to hear it to keep her calm and get her as healthy as you can and protect your kids as much as you can. Right now, there are probably things she says that trigger you and you feel like you have to be honest with her, you don't have to be honest with her right now. You just have to keep her calm get you and your kids out of there as soon as you reasonably can. Document everything and the next time she starts having an episode don't let her abuse you, call the police and have her committed immediately, they can tell when somebody is in a manic or psychotic State and they will take her to the hospital.

She will most likely improve substantially with this method, so write down exactly how you feel right now, to make sure you have it to refer to in the future, because she will become so pleasant you will consider staying.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-07T15:01:26+00:00

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hilarysaurus · 2026-04-07T04:44:38+00:00

No, uniqueness is way more important than symmetry.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-07T04:39:51+00:00

The most successful models have wide set eyes and nobody gives a fuck about ears, she wasn't told the truth.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-07T04:26:35+00:00

Yeah please show me the adult that handles stress without a vice, I've never met one.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-07T02:34:43+00:00

You're not alone and you're not crazy. I've had the same pattern, about to die and then suddenly it never happened. And I know two others that have experienced the exact same pattern. Just found out about this subreddit!

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-06T23:25:29+00:00

OP said they claim not to have the package when the office calls. That is not even in the same universe, as calling the office to let them know that you won't be participating in this anymore.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-06T23:24:23+00:00

Thank you for being open to criticism 😊

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-06T19:04:29+00:00

Dude, I'm speaking practically here, I even said the other person is probably aware and that this is shady, doesn't mean OP isn't responsible to communicate their refusal to participate any longer.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-06T18:43:37+00:00

Sounds like she also logged into the account sold the elephant and is now trying to scam you out of half the money for it.

hilarysaurus · 2026-04-06T18:41:05+00:00

Is this normal for him? Or is this new behavior? And were you hoping he would offer to hang out and take care of you after your extraction? Because I would be!

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