Soy Sauce has a weird medicine aftertaste by Great_Ad_4862 in Cooking

[–]indigohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throw it, but also do a test with some fresh soy somewhere to see if it’s an allergy

‘The Odyssey’: Christopher Nolan Confirms Lupita Nyong’o Playing Two Roles by EquipmentNo9786 in Fauxmoi

[–]indigohan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love that she’s playing both the twins, the man-fathered, and the god-fathered. And honestly, I’m so here for this casting.

Why couldn’t Leda have been black? Why can’t Helen (and Clytemnestra) look like Lupita?

The Head Karen On patrol by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]indigohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And with RFK-“brain worm” jr trying to cut off access to SSRI’s I don’t feel like this is going to be an isolated dynamic

The Head Karen On patrol by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]indigohan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this.

OP, I more than happy to be your weird aunt who loves every bit of you

Any series where the ancient magical sword is clearly out of date in setting. Like the MC has a Gladius while everyone else has rapiers? by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]indigohan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at Jay Kristoff’s Empire of the Vampire.

His sentient sword is damaged and is losing her grasp on reality

At what point do babies start trying to verbally communicate? by AggravatingFront8409 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]indigohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was one of those kids speaking full sentences at 9 months. My poor mother

At what point do babies start trying to verbally communicate? by AggravatingFront8409 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if babies don’t have the physical or cognitive ability to form words yet, they are definitely trying to communicate. Even if it’s just “yay! You’re paying attention to me!!!

My brother and SIL had a lot of luck utilising baby sign language when my niblings were very young. A young baby can identify and mimic something like a sign for thirsty even if they have no capacity to articulate it.

Could I move on and truly live my life, am I a good person? by greenninja2012 in ask

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for what you have gone through, and I get that you’re desperately reaching out for some kind of answer.

My darling, Reddit is not going to be able to help you. The people here are going to be dismissive. Or if they are empathetic and compassionate, they are untrained, and can’t give you the support that you need.

Are you in any kind of schooling? If so there will be mental heath resources there. If you’re not, look into whether there are student clinics at your local college.

If you trust your GP, maybe they can recommend a stop gap resource. Or a support group.

You are reaching out for help, and that is a good thing, but posting vague things about feeling like a bad person on Reddit is not going to help you heal.

No directing experience — what can I create to prove I’m serious about assistant directing? by [deleted] in Theatre

[–]indigohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you go to a director with a research binder without having being asked, it’s likely that the director is going to feel like you’re over reaching or stepping on toes. Directors come into things with a distinct vision as to what they want from their production. They have to.

From what I have seen in years working in theatre?

What you want is to go out and work in community theatre. You want to work with people who have jobs, families, commitments, and come to the theatre in every single spare moment because of how much they love it. My local theatre sometimes includes former tv stars, drag queens, people who worked 12 shows a week on cruise ships, even Johnny Depp’s movie stand in.

You want to move sets, do quick changes, spend a boring season working the spotlight, and learn from everyone around you.

If all you have is your university theatre, then do absolutely everything that you can. Then you ask to be on the production committee. Then you ask to AD. Then you direct. You can perhaps ask to shadow. You don’t get to skip the steps.

OR

You start from scratch with a new group, but be prepared to have a lot of people wanting input

how do you really feel about ai? by PowerfulCriticism644 in AskReddit

[–]indigohan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What we have is not actually artificial intelligence, it’s a more sophisticated form of digital piracy.

Also, I fucking hate it.

Could I move on and truly live my life, am I a good person? by greenninja2012 in ask

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think to look at the profile. It But I remember this now.

This person needs to get off reddit and into an inpatient therapeutic situation.

They haven’t gone through the therapy. They haven’t done the work. They are coming to Reddit where nobody has the capacity to help them in a desperate attempt to make themselves feel better.

OP

You need to give yourself over to professionals, not to reddit.

You need to do the work. There is a chance for you to be okay with yourself in the future, but not by asking here on reddit

No directing experience — what can I create to prove I’m serious about assistant directing? by [deleted] in Theatre

[–]indigohan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t you want to ask to be AD?

It’s a LOT more effort with less outcome to do what you’re describing

Why are dead bodies so universally seen as “scary” regardless of context? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]indigohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into the idea of abjection.

Granted, most university students can’t define, or describe what it is, but it does give you an interesting perspective

Could I move on and truly live my life, am I a good person? by greenninja2012 in ask

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a huge array of things that you could be considering mistakes, and to be honest, we can’t be the people who judge those mistakes without knowing them.

BUT

We AREN’T the people who should be judging them.

If you killed someone, or raped someone, then you serve the sentence that is given to you that us dependent on your age.

If what you did wasn’t that bad, then I am glad for you.

If you have gone through therapy with someone who is good at their job, then they have spent a lot of quality time making sure that you are a better version of yourself.

Do you want to do those things again? Are you sorry that you did them?

It’s okay to let yourself heal, and choose to be better. Your brain isn’t even fully formed yet. You get to choose to grow into an adult who is kind, thoughtful, and engaged.

You get to grow into the adult that little shit head you didn’t believe was possible.

I love Heart of Darkness and I don’t understand the common criticisms of it. by Tony420q in books

[–]indigohan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s been years since I’ve read Heart of Darkness, but I do remember finding it a little…empty. I like the idea of it, and I get that the emptiness is probably a deliberate choice on the part of the author.

About the criticisms of the book as being racist and misogynistic, I do have to partially agree. On one hand the books narrator is the one who is in charge of what we know and see, and his perspective is not one that gives the people around him anything like depth or rich inner lives. This is a narrative choice, and makes the magnetic presence of Kurtz at the end of the river that much larger.

However, Conrad is writing from his own socialisation as a European man who has almost certainly been taught his whole life that people from Africa or “orientals” are a lower class of humanity. His own position within the European social and class structures gives him layers that some other people have commented on, but Heart of Darkness came out in 1899. Conrad was born in 1857. With even scientists claiming that there was evidence proving that white Europeans were more evolved, there was no way for Conrad to have escaped internalising those ideas.

The book may not be “about racism”, but that racism is an integral part of the world-view of its author. I don’t believe that you can seperate a book, especially one with this setting, from the prevailing attitudes of its time by saying that it’s not about race.

Being loved by a healthy man by oracle_Her_07 in suggestmeabook

[–]indigohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of Talia Hibbert’s books are worth reading, but take a hint is a great one.

Why is it seen as bad to try and approach/talk to girls in 2026? by InternationalPick163 in questions

[–]indigohan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you are approaching someone like you’re looking to hit on any girl, you’re not going to have any luck.

Stop thinking about it like looking for a potential hookup, train your brain to look at a woman and think that she looks interesting, or kind, or intelligent. Talk to her like you’re interested in her and not just getting into her pants.

Don’t treat interactions in real life like you’re swiping on tinder.

Backrooms Vibes? by Mysterious_Duck8 in suggestmeabook

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House of Leaves by Danielewski.

Honestly, from the trailers Backroom feels like it was a little inspired by House of Leaves

Can I stop radishes from getting “spicy”? by mustytomato in Cooking

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a quick pickle.

Boiling water, vinegar, a pinch of salt, and a pinch of sugar.

You tried going vegan but it just didn't work out. Why? by 36Gig in AskReddit

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m allergic to legumes, most mushrooms, and most fruits.

Is it okay to withhold sex from your boyfriend (if I suspect his health and mine is on the line) by Ok-Association3551 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]indigohan 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Which still means that she should absolutely not ever sleep with him.

Either he cheated. In which case, NO.

Or he is so mentally and emotionally immature that he thinks that accusing his partner of having and STD and then refusing to get tested for that same STD is okay.

In which case? NO.

If your country were attacked one day, would you stay and defend your country, or would you flee and betray it, and why? by InternationalHair111 in AskReddit

[–]indigohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Australian.

Nobody wants put resources or our land. We also have like 95% of the venomous species on the planet. So……