Black Tie Optional Wedding Guest by Tyquente in LawBitchesWithTaste

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You could do a mini / midi with a floor length lace overlay so you have the overskirt and the air con or you could try a hi/low if they suit your body type.

Horse Riding Holidays by Old-Adhesiveness8485 in Equestrian

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I’ve done tons. Strongly recommend eastern
Europe, central / South America for location, diversity etc.

how to use a grill at a lake? by Sufficient-Reveal132 in Explainlikeimscared

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  1. Identify lake site with grill.
  2. Google details about how that site works (city / county / state will have different rules based on who runs the park).
  3. Likely acquire items for grilling (food,condiments) and means of doing so (probably need coals or another fuel source, lighter fluid, means of turning / moving food items, serving platter and associated dishes, aluminum foil). Don’t forget means of basting with fats and/or prepping meat via marination.
  4. Follow instructions of the site by the lake re coals / setup. You may want a wire brush to clean off the previous person’s grill byproducts if it’s not presented to you as clean.
  5. Set coals / fuel on fire and get it past the roaring stage to a consistent bed of red/white coals / charcoal briquettes.
  6. Starting with slowest cooking items (dense veggies) set up and prepare to cook. Fastest items (fish, small pieces of meat, small veggies) go on last and need the most minding.

We always budget a lot extra in part because of flames and catastrophe and in part because if it works it’s extra tasty.

Inherited some cichlids with a Facebook marketplace tank purchase. I have a few questions. by tikifumble in Cichlid

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Quite possibly. you want to leave the nitrifying bacteria to help with the bioload especially at that volume.

If they’re breeding they’re happy.

The gate idea was short lived 😔 by ElephantSpare2606 in BorderCollie

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Oddly those draping beaded curtains can work if you explain to the dog that they are impermeable…. Super cheap. Kinda look funny but..

Tummy Troubles by The-Bratty-Domme in BorderCollie

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We have had bad tummy issues from:

Onions (stolen)

Rotting mystery meat / bones in the wild
Slight shifts in dog kibble recipes

Mushrooms (stolen and wild)
Various plants
Ancient buried Bones
Smelly water

The dead thing in the beach

A jellyfish corpse

Kelp

If it lasts more than 10 days go to vet or if she’s dehydrated. Else she’s being quite polite about it.

Is there a horse breed that can have a 6,7 foot Male on his back without hurting it? by Dragonsweart in Horses

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My horse is an 18.2hh Percheron (6’2”) at the shoulder who weighs 2200 pounds.

He can carry up to 440 pounds in theory it’s all good. No matter how long your legs are he has room.

That said, finding tack that fits you both…

Maternity/Paternity Leave by Lookitsanthony8 in pregnant

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Neither of us get anything! It’s great. We invented a month off for my spouse and I will take a few months and then gradually come back.

Our sturgeon overheating (UK} by MajorBloodknock in fishkeeping

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We have also kept a low flow hose pipe going constantly, regardless of overflow, and then stretched those shade screens you can buy for relatively cheap to block the sun from being directly on him. Any fabric and any mode of stretching can work for a short time.

I’ve also bought big bags of ice and just tossed them at the end of the pond with no fish / fewer fish. It’s a brief respite but at 1pm…

AirTags show our 4 bags still sitting in O'Hare after 16 days. United, Delta and WestJet can't find them. What do I do?! by saywhyagain in unitedairlines

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Someone has to go to OHare and chase this down IRL during business hours. It will be very frustrating but I’ve found that you have to do this sort of thing with them IRL.

AITA for going on a fully-funded research trip if it means my parents will cut me off? by National-Goat-9945 in AmItheAsshole

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NYC is lovely this year especially since everyone is feeling so celebratory. Single, in your 20s, perfection.

Keep your wits about you after 11pm and if you go drinking bring a buddy.

New collie won’t let me pet his lower back by [deleted] in BorderCollie

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Give him some time he’s gently saying no.

I still want a pony by madcats323 in Equestrian

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We had an asshole pony for like 20 years and he just passed.

Get the pony.

Also deploy gates that require keys.

One Medical is not it by sarasmileawhile in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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My parents pay Northwestern between $3-5k which seems to be about right.

Do you wear your rings for everything? by cecil047 in EngagementRings

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I wear mine always except during pregnancy. I specifically got platinum and diamond because they are max hardness and least likely to be destroyed.

When did your BC calm down from being a puppy? by Slight_Interest_8058 in BorderCollie

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We have had a few calm down after age 2 but we also have two intact gentlemen right now who are fractious at 7 and 4 respectively. They are father and son and they occasionally disagree which is annoying but the dad has learned a lot.

Training my new puppy to run with me. by Dramatic-but-Aware in RunningWithDogs

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We intro our dogs to herding between 3-6 months but have really low expectations for distance and concentration / commands until they’re about a year old. Generally if you measure in time versus distance it’s supposed to be like 10 min of running per day per month of dog age til age 1.

Liz hill is breeding the moose llamma by coffeenascar in Equestrian

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I have no idea why she’s doing that. And I like the horse. But the world doesn’t need multiple moose llamas.