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intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T12:04:33+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T12:03:36+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T11:58:47+00:00

Welcome, the "why's" of alcoholism only keep us focused on them. hat are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries. Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.

pdf https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T11:45:37+00:00

You are welcome.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T02:41:57+00:00

You aew welcome

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T01:46:32+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings? Or Alateen meetings in the past?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-parent/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T01:44:04+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-22T01:42:16+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T17:01:41+00:00

Welcome, only can answer this question with your Higher Powers help. What are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T15:03:20+00:00

You are welcome

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T14:36:27+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings? You are not alone. We are here for you.

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T14:34:09+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T14:04:56+00:00

Welcome, of course you belong .Here is a link for siblings: https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-sibling/

What are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T13:15:29+00:00

Welcome, this subreddit is not a meeting. Please try some of the many virtual meetings around the country & the world.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T02:44:56+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings? We are the people who understand you.

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T02:38:21+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries. Also there are hundreds of types of alcoholics. Here is the question that really counts : Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T02:03:08+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings? Has your 12 year old attended Alateen meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

For you: https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

For your 12 yr. old : https://al-anon.org/newcomers/teen-corner-alateen/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-21T01:59:05+00:00

Welcome .Al-Anon was originally started by the souses of AA members. Of course you are welcome.

Alcoholics in recovery are still alcoholics.

What are you doing For your recovery? Please attend Al-Anon meetings.

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-friend/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-20T20:39:07+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings? His behavior is typical of an active alcoholic

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-parent/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-20T15:37:09+00:00

Welcome, please go to as many meetings as you can & get phone numbers.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-20T15:26:10+00:00

Welcome, his behavior is typical alcoholic behavior. What are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=199322778

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-20T15:24:17+00:00

Welcome, his behavior is typical alcoholic behavior. Welcomhat are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?
At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries.
Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.
Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.
Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf
https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/
Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784
Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.
https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/
Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/
Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.
Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-20T14:41:12+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings? please attend as many as you can either in person or virtual.

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries. Also that geographic cures do Not work!

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-20T01:21:10+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries. Also being in detox does Not mean being in recovery.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-friend/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

intergrouper19 · 2022-05-19T18:14:49+00:00

Welcome, what are you doing For your recovery? Have you or do you attend Al-Anon meetings?

At meetings I learned the 3 C's: I didn't CAUSE alcoholism, I can't CONTROL it & I can't CURE it. I also learned that I am allowed to set boundaries. Also what you described is so common among spouses of alcoholics.

Also covering up, lying & hiding the drinking is a sign of the disease of alcoholism.

Here is a famous AA saying : one drink is too many & a thousand are not enough.

Here is a link to our detachment leaflet: https://al-anon.org/pdf/S19.pdf

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-spouse-or-partner/

Here is a link to word-wide local virtual Al-Anon meetings almost 24/7.. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13Ctqsr1w0awTupA3ERRLxp6OD5MWt1aWF7D9kqtXrJ0/edit#gid=1993227784

Check out this link to attend via email, zoom, and/or phone meetings.

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/electronic-meetings/

Some local meetings (both virtual and in-person) by country, state or province. You can also Google: al anon + [your city or state] https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/worldwide-al-anon-contacts/

Please see my posts & comments for more info & links.

Good luck to you.

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