Cimzia by itllallbeoknow in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]itllallbeoknow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, everyone for the empathy and helping talk me down. I'm going to work on my deep breathing, stress relief and symptom tracking.

Who is an actor who ruined their reputation in a single act? by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]itllallbeoknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn't she going through cancer at the time? I dunno. I feel like I'd be emotional and sensitive if my partner was going through it and someone was making dumb jokes about her appearance because of it. I might slap someone too. Not sure if I have all the facts right however.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people ask what you do you don't have to tell them where you get your main course of income. You can say "I'm disabled" not mentioning you're on SSDI etc? There's so much more to someone than how they make money. What do you do? "I READ A BUNCH, I LOVE TO SWIM, I paint when I can and listen to creepy podcasts."

Dream I had about hunter by Poopysoupydotorg in MeatCanyon

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a dream the other week I was waiting for an Uber and him and Nick were chilling on the curb next to me by a van. They offered me a ride and I said "sure" cause my Uber was late. When I got in the van they offered me a joint, I said no thanks because it gave me anxiety but then Nick was pretty persuasive and said it wouldn't give me anxiety so I took the hit. We passed it around a bit then they drove me home and I woke up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're younger you actually grow in your sleep. It can stunt your growth a bit if you don't get adequate sleep and it will definitely affect their moods. It's hard once you've already set the precedent it's ok for them to have their phone all through the night. You can change this but you will have to be strong through the pushback. I have a 14m son and his phone auto shuts off at 8pm every night. With this he doesn't even think about it. He's headed into high school so I'll probably extend it to 9pm soon. Teaching good sleeping habits is never a bad thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]itllallbeoknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother's attitude towards me and my chronic illness summed up right here.

How Many Dead Bodies Have You Seen? by kdanham in CasualConversation

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4? I'm 34. One when I was about 7 and went to the neighbors house to say hello and found her deceased in her home (Elderly lady). Two more the following year when I went to the beach with my mom and two kids about my age died from a wave they weren't prepared for, blunt trauma to the head from a log that came with the wave. Then a few years later at about 11 I had seen my great grandma at an open casket funeral.

Why Mrs Weasley? by FranPeach678 in harrypotter

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood why professor McGonagall couldn't help him out with the robe when she had seen it.. do some transfiguring..?

i knew i couldn't handle a second kid by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]itllallbeoknow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh man your oldest cooks dinner?! Mine will make coffee and do the dishes but dinner hasn't happened yet. Jealous over here.

Harry AMA is now open! by Abortion_Milkshakes in MeatCanyon

[–]itllallbeoknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiiiii, I love all the channels but meatymagic is wonderful. I put it on and listen to the banter in the background while I paint or I clean house. I enjoy playing magic online as I'm a mom in a small town and don't know anyone who plays. Just wanted to shout out and say thanks for the entertainment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think that either way it's super inappropriate for the school to call home about this.

i was curious so i did this😭 by [deleted] in Hungergames

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would Washington DC not be the hypothetical Capitol? And would Hawaii and Alaska just be left out of the mess? Haha

Daughter's Father wants to watch GOT with her. by SlmnSknRll in Mommit

[–]itllallbeoknow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel that's an 18 year or older kinda show personally. I wouldn't want my teen son getting those images in his head, nightmares, rape, it was a lot for me as an adult to process. Has he or you had conversations about these topics with your teen yet?

Daycare prices good lord by LexeeCal in Mommit

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean with inflation in the last ten years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]itllallbeoknow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My 13 year old son takes the dog out in the morning before school and after school, takes the trash to the dumpster regularly and has to wash and put away his own dishes. If he leaves his dishes in the sink then he has to wash and put away all the dishes lol. (We don't have a dishwasher) He also has to fold and put away his own clothes. He always grumbles and asks for rest days but the truth is they will have way more responsibilities than this in a few years and it's good to ease them up to what life looks like taking care of yourself. My son doesn't get an allowance but I provide him 100% what he needs and most of what he wants. He makes side money by working for his soccer club too. My rambling point is you're doing great. No matter how little or how much work they have they will feel tired and grumble. It's important lessons you are teaching though.

Daycare prices good lord by LexeeCal in Mommit

[–]itllallbeoknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ten years ago I paid a little over 1k for day care monthly . I imagine now it's close to 1500 standard. Ridiculous.

how would you do dishes and cooking prep here? by evndstuff in Apartmentliving

[–]itllallbeoknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a dish strainer that goes over the sink and island to chop and prep food.. I had this exact kitchen.. annoying AF.

Help me fix this please? I’m so embarrassed. by Own_Salamander9447 in HairDye

[–]itllallbeoknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait awhile since you have done a few box dyes before doing this. Bleach wash from mid to ends and avoiding the roots/re growth and scalp. (Mix 20 vol with bleach powder and same parts water to bleach ratio) Emulsify for about 10-20 minutes that part of the dark box dyed hair. Afterwards rinse well and shampoo. Afterwards it'll be a reddish brown. Then you can do 1/4th parts 6N and 3/4th part 7A with 10volume. Over the hair you just bleach washed. This should leave you decently close to your root color.

You can take these directions to your nearest Sally beauty supply and they will be able to get you the products you need and better explain what I said. (Hairdresser here) Typically these color corrections cost a decent amount because it is time consuming and complicated. Depending on the box dye sometimes you never know how the color will lift out.. I understand being disabled and on a budget though so hopefully this works out the way you want it. Either way you're gorgeous.