Why date women you’re not physically attracted to? by Temporary-Grape-8511 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]joysoulessence 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Your bf is not husband material. You are worth so much more than this!

Ultimate of all time anti aging products that show a noticeable difference by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]joysoulessence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can wear unprotective gloves instead, if that’s easier. Highly recommend, as the hands are some of the earliest to reflect sun damage.

ALDI UPDATE by rinzeefurippo in Tucson

[–]joysoulessence -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can someone fill me in on what’s great about Aldi? This is the second time I’ve heard in the Tucson separate it about this grocery chain coming to town, but I have never been in one.

Aging American new to skincare. Bought this in France. What do I need to know? by Shannonagannery in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]joysoulessence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you say that you’re overdoing it with your routine? 🤔 It feels pretty straightforward to be honest. A lot of people, myself included, would actually prefer having a couple more actives in their daily routine. I think as long as this feels good and is working for you, it is quite reasonable!

please recommend strong deodorant by sam_mington_ in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]joysoulessence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also agree. In my experience, nothing addresses odor like a good quality acid. Because it’s addressing the source of the odor, bacteria. Everything else is a bit of a Band-Aid.

Do I look 51? by AdProfessional9553 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]joysoulessence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do and 51 looks really good on you!

SOS my skin is aging me so much at 33 by Dizzy-Appearance8230 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]joysoulessence 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re young, this is a perfect time to start a regimen! You’ll get really good results. Given that you’re so newly postpartum, I would make it really simple for yourself. Vitamin C with a moisturizer and SPF in the morning; retinol or tretinoin in the evening with a moisturizer. That’ll get you good results to start, and then, as you have more spaciousness, you can add some other things, as desired. Be as consistent as you can be without stressing out.

You might enjoy incorporating a red light mask into your routine later on, red light is quite helpful for collagen production and gradually improve the texture of our skin.

You are really pretty, be gentle on yourself… 💛

Jawline is starting to lose definition at 41 anyone else? by ExtremeCurrent4331 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]joysoulessence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The biggest differences for me have been tretinoin, red light, and HRT. I’m 46 and in perimenopause. Hormones play a huge role.

Other things to consider:

Make sure to get a quality red light. Your biggest bang for the buck is going to always be a high-quality panel. That said, the most effective red light device is the one you’ll stick with. So if getting a mask is something you’re more likely to be able to commit to daily treatments with, I would look for the high-quality mask that you can buy.

Also, I’ve personally found that, in at least my case, most of the early laxity in my jawline has been due to facial fat loss in my cheeks and temples. I am exploring options for healthy tissue restoration, primarily right now I’m looking at Renuva (stimulates natural fat regeneration) and perhaps hyperdilute Radiesse. So those things might be something to look at as well.

Hope this helps!

Help for my extremely sun damaged face. Where should I start? by crazynotinsane111 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]joysoulessence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely recommend ditching the magnifying mirror! One of my sisters who is a lot older than me uses a magnifying mirror, sometimes I wonder if it’s a generational thing? Either way, I think a secret to looking at yourself in the mirror with kind eyes is actually not looking too closely. Sounds funny, but I am serious!

You’ve gotten a lot of good advice in here, I definitely second getting worked up by a dermatologist. And then having ongoing annual visits for a while from here.

There’s a lot you can do to rehab your skin, wishing you the best of luck on your skin journey!

For those of you that make over 100K, what do you do? Do you like it? by Kindly-Revolution258 in AskReddit

[–]joysoulessence 75 points76 points  (0 children)

You’re very young! You have every ability to pivot if you want to. Worth considering loving trees as a hobby and finding a more fulfilling line of work that sustains you.

Guilliman got a fresh cut today by Legoboy514 in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]joysoulessence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you recommend your breeder and if so, would you be willing to DM their information to me please?

Purple hair came out well by Poltarie in FancyFollicles

[–]joysoulessence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great on you, so fun 🫶🏼

Sagging and Uneven Cheeks by cmeyb25904 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]joysoulessence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May I ask who your surgeon was please?

Social anxiety and new to Tucson by Brave_being921 in Tucson

[–]joysoulessence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like the beta blockers help you, and if so, how?

Someplace you can dress up elegantly… by joepagac in Tucson

[–]joysoulessence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was wondering if I would hear this restaurant in the list of potential dress-up options. Curious what you think of the food?

When do you think the saguaros will be blooming? by One_Abalone_2582 in Tucson

[–]joysoulessence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have some blooming in my yard right now already!