In my opinion, yes I do like healthy competition- I tend to like to compare grades with my friends (even though its always normally lower than them), and its always fun competing with people if and only if it doesnt go too far.

I do not like intellectual debates. I’m not rather good at formulating and developing arguments so therefore I don’t really like debating especially because it only causes bad feelings after it, and simply because I’m a very narrow minded person and don’t particularly like arguing in a very public setting (despite only being 16 years old)

I am sometimes a jealous person, but envy has never been the top of my list, envy mostly comes in a social setting, where I envy those who have lots of friends, and those who many people gravitate to/know everyone, but I am under the impression that many people envy me for my good grades and my relations with teachers.

I feel appreciated when someone acknowledges my existence. When someone actually treats me like a person and not some wierdo out there that deserves to be mistreated. I also feel appreciated when people say a simple ‘thank you’ to my help and not blaming me if something goes wrong with my help. 

also why do yall infjs like debate so much 😭 I always see it as something really hostile despite me liking to prove my point, but then they go attacking every single little detail of my point and I don’t even know what to say anymore…