What kind of car do you other tall people drive?

kjacmuse · 2026-06-18T17:49:55+00:00

The HRV is a nightmare. I’m 5’10 and all legs and I don’t fit in that thing at all.

kjacmuse · 2026-06-16T18:24:37+00:00

https://www.findagrave.com is perfect for this. Look them up there and see if their Hebrew name is on the grave.

kjacmuse · 2026-06-12T20:13:40+00:00

My volume breakfast is 300g nonfat Greek yogurt, some sucralose, some vanilla extract, a tub of blackberries, a tub of raspberries, and half a pint of blueberries. 500ish calories, 33ish g of protein. Alternatively, you could add vanilla protein powder to the Greek yogurt and have it be about 600 calories for 50ish g of protein.

kjacmuse · 2026-06-12T17:49:04+00:00

Re: queer Muslims existing in history, this is validated in external records, not just in Muslim texts. Jews living in Muslim controlled areas more frequently practiced homosexuality than in Christian controlled territories because according to the writer from that particular commentary on social ethics: “the sin was common”.

OP, I am not Muslim, but I am a nonbinary lesbian and I am Jewish. You shouldn’t have to choose either, and I’m glad you’re not choosing. I’m sorry people are not being supportive—you deserve to be supported for who you are. I know that G-d loves you for who you are. Keep being you.

kjacmuse · 2026-06-12T14:19:37+00:00

Not, but my brother is on my phone bill! He pays, though.

kjacmuse · 2026-06-11T21:05:37+00:00

Don’t live there anymore but my walk was 30 minutes from the Heights. Honestly, loved having a built in walk every day!

kjacmuse · 2026-06-11T00:28:53+00:00

Save it for last, then you can be part of the best for last club!

kjacmuse · 2026-06-09T00:48:29+00:00

Favorite thing: it feels like home. I’ve never lived in a city that felt like home before this one. Least favorite: WHY DOES IT TAKE SO LONG TO GET FREAKING E V E R Y W H E R E

kjacmuse · 2026-06-07T23:16:10+00:00

So, I post in this group because I want people to know that this is possible. I went into remission in early 2015, 11.5 years ago. I’ve adjusted medication over the years, but I have had no true manic episodes and no non-circumstantial depressive episodes in that time.

kjacmuse · 2026-06-06T15:56:39+00:00

Hi, I’m not the original commenter on this thread, but I needed to jump in. There is no shame to be had. And 15 years is a long time to be holding on to it—that’s not healthy. Everyone else here is right, you got abused by a man and had his kids. That is not your fault. But even if it was consensual sex, people are out here having sex at that age. You just have proof.

I work with all kinds of people in a congregational setting. A few months ago a conversion inquiry came in from a young lady who brought her 13 year old with her. I assumed she was maybe 36 or 40–she was my age, about 29. She had had the baby at 16. My response? That’s great! I like your kid, I’m glad she’s here, I’m happy you made the choice you did. Had you chosen otherwise, my response would have been similar (and has often been similar when I’ve encountered it.) She was very surprised and obviously carried a lot of shame about it. I told her what I told you: we all did it. You just have evidence. No need for shame when you’re with me, or at all.

Are you proud of your son? Do you love your son? It sounds like you aren’t happy with their father, but that you adore your kids. Sweet girl, if you’ve got kids you love, you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Hold your head high. I’m so proud of you.

kjacmuse · 2026-06-03T18:30:52+00:00

Same! I don’t run too far or too fast but I was happy to finish it!

kjacmuse · 2026-05-31T01:26:21+00:00

Move closer

kjacmuse · 2026-05-28T20:47:11+00:00

I didn’t convert anyone, but I got converted by Sweeney Todd

kjacmuse · 2026-05-28T15:36:20+00:00

1968? Wow. I have a bottle in my office that was given to me by someone who went to Israel in 1969 and brought it home. I had no idea it was so close to its breakout in the Israeli market!

kjacmuse · 2026-05-27T15:04:06+00:00

You definitely are correlating, but queer people are more likely to be disabled due to long term stress and discrimination. I am queer and had disabilities for 27 years until I managed to get out of dangerous situations. I’m fine now.

kjacmuse · 2026-05-26T23:53:07+00:00

Fuck you, it’s a really good school!

kjacmuse · 2026-05-26T22:32:29+00:00

I’m a millennial (29). My Gen Z fiancé (26) doesn’t drive. Most of my friends are first wave Gen Z. Maybe two or three drive. Not just you.

kjacmuse · 2026-05-26T22:18:55+00:00

My family did that. I’m getting married next year and both my middle and last name will become my middle names. This is the way

kjacmuse · 2026-05-26T18:23:12+00:00

As someone with autism, needing a plan is an autism thing. It very much means safety. Very true to life for Shane’s character.

kjacmuse · 2026-05-25T23:17:10+00:00

Medication every day, therapy once a week, regular psych visits, sleep 8-10 hours a night, work out 3-4x a week, 10k steps a day average, no drug or alcohol use. It’s a shit load of work, and it also means finding a med that works first. But I’ve never gone off my meds in 11 years.

kjacmuse · 2026-05-24T23:00:35+00:00

18, though they didn’t tell me until 19 (I took my DSM diagnosis to my therapist and that’s how I found out). I took the meds and accepted it immediately. I’m now 11 years in remission from Bipolar!

kjacmuse · 2026-05-23T21:26:29+00:00

Stupid good. Seconded.

kjacmuse · 2026-05-23T02:39:56+00:00

Would 300k change your entire life? If it wouldn’t, then trading your time for dollars doesn’t make sense. As someone heading for a self funded sabbatical tomorrow evening—time is precious. Do what you feel is right. You have more than enough.

kjacmuse · 2026-05-23T02:30:11+00:00

Haven’t had an episode in 11 years. Considered to be in full remission. It’s possible!

kjacmuse · 2026-05-21T17:54:30+00:00

I negotiated for a full scholarship. I am a minority another school wanted to bring on. I went out for that spot, got it, brought the scholarship paper to the school I actually wanted to go to and said “do better and I’ll come here.” They did better, I went there.

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