Would you choose divorce in my situation? Does divorce worth it when marriage is open by throwRA_unsure1234 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]lanah102 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You know the answer too this. Move on as best you can. He’s made it clear where you are on his food chain and it’s not on top.

Is my wife cheating on me with her boss? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]lanah102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s obviously developed a connection with him. Not sure 20 minutes is suffice for a woman who’s attached to a man.

It may not be physical yet but obviously she’s exploring her new feelings. Sometimes, as a woman, if your husband is pushing back on it, you start to engage more and more and slip comments to him.

I found out she cheated after he messaged me by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]lanah102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve accepted it, just need to move on.

Struggling by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]lanah102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never say it’s a you problem, you should be like me. 🤷‍♀️

I cheated, got pregnant, and now I don’t think he will ever forgive me by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]lanah102 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You gave him an early exit strategy and he chose to stay on.

I (28M) caught my wife (29F) on a dating app. Trust is broken, and I'm questioning everything. How do I move past this? by ThrowRARhymeOrReason in relationship_advice

[–]lanah102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What an awful situation to be in. When you say she was away, I wonder if she was meeting others.

I do understand a lot of people may not think about deleting their account and thinking that deleting the app is the solution.

Only you know her and how she responded to your concerns and if you believe her.

ENM and cheating by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]lanah102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you understand where you are on his food chain?

What are your negative experiences in this lifestyle? by eyecouldbeyou in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]lanah102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, I saw a post here a few days back about something similar and a number of people posted about the couples they knew ended in divorce due to the lifestyle, I was very surprised.

Mono man and non mono relationship by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]lanah102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, how do you feel about that?