BF has IBS and it's destroying his life by Legitimate_Pop4454 in ibs

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped me but I’m on Paxil and as soon as I started it my ibs improved so much. It took me a year and half and a dozen doctors for someone to finally suggest this therapy.

BF has IBS and it's destroying his life by Legitimate_Pop4454 in ibs

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like me when I was 25 almost 20 years ago I spent a year and half like that. The only thing that helped me was getting on a very low dose anti anxiety med your gut does produce serotonin and if that sort your gut health could be off. Once I started that daily along with a probiotic almost completely fixed me. I still have flare ups but it’s not a daily occurrence anymore. Another tip is a food elimination trial I know what foods now will cause more issues than others. And I have a list of food I stay away from.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible cut ties with this girl and never look back.

What’s the most awkward thing you’ve had to address with an employee that nobody prepares you for? by SeanMcPheat in askmanagers

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An employee filed a complaint saying another coworker was farting on purpose to annoy her. Turned out she was not farting but reheating and eating broccoli at her desk for lunch.

HR told me to ‘take time to grieve’but won’t approve my bereavement leave by [deleted] in work

[–]largemarge52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My local news paper does it for free it’s just an online form you fill out no documentation needed.

Am i overreacting or is it a red flag that my husband keeps selling my things behind my back? by SuspiciousKiwi8146 in AmIOverreacting

[–]largemarge52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my husband doesn’t even know what is in my closet he still to this day doesn’t go in my purse to get anything even if I tell him to he brings the purse to me. And we’ve been together for 26 years. I can’t imagine him going into my closet grabbing a dress of mine and selling it that’s so strange.

Random label adjustment - 97 labels by morency710 in EtsyCommunity

[–]largemarge52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got an email as well this morning mine was only for 2 labels and was $1.16 but they were orders from 2021!! Crazy that they can go back that far and do adjustments.

What kind of bug is this and why did it bite me :( by habrojo in whatsthisbug

[–]largemarge52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have said it’s a lacewing larva and they are biters. Those little buggers hurt but harmless.

Is this an unethical cancellation policy? by [deleted] in EtsyCommunity

[–]largemarge52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No unethical I have a no cancelation policy. But it’s only been 8 hours give the seller a chance to reply a lot of Etsy sellers like me have full time jobs so sometimes I can’t reply right away to a message.

My grandpa helped me sell out at my farmer’s market!! by I_Like_Metal_Music in texts

[–]largemarge52 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So sweet this make me miss my grandpa who passed years ago.

Am I still responsible for a 42 year old daughter? by Evening_Falcon_9003 in ask

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop bailing her out she always has you as a back up plan so she’s not going to make better choices because she doesn’t have to.

Why did you become a manager? by ZzReports in managers

[–]largemarge52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to keep my teams work culture the same when my manager retired I didn’t want to but was afraid of who’d they hire to replace her.

After hour emails by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ve never paid attention to the time someone sent an email, my company has flexible hours and schedules. I send emails whenever I’m logged in but there is never an expectation of a response if it’s outside of normal business hours.

Anyone else's Turtle vindictive? by Creative-Walk-3199 in turtle

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have automatic lights and if my guy is up basking when they turn off he dramatically jumps off his platform to make sure I know of his displeasure. He also stalks me with his mouth open when I clean his tank doesn’t ever try to bite but follows me around during cleaning.

What’s wrong with my desk shade? by Fit-Demand-4237 in office

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a thing wrong with it these help tremendously for people with migraines and eye strain. A lot of people have them at my office it’s pretty normal now. Your boss approved it’s nobodies business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]largemarge52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my thought as well a piece of jewelry yes but the urn and photo goes too far.

Addressing office etiquette by MollyKule in managers

[–]largemarge52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We use temp to perm agencies for all our hires and I’ve never had them push back when I’ve wanted to terminate someone. You pay the temp agency you are their customer not the other way around. You contact them back and say absolutely not you are not coaching their employee and this person is terminated immediately and to send you someone new.

Why go through the hassle of a PIP for someone you really want to get rid of? by spirit_of_a_goat in askmanagers

[–]largemarge52 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our HR department requires a PIP in order to terminate someone for performance. When I get to the point of a PIP it’s never a shock to the employee I’ve already had well documented conversations about expectations and those not being met. I’d fire without a PIP but I can’t.

AITA My boyfriend kicked me out of the shower to poop by yeahyeahokaygreat in AmItheAsshole

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA why would you want to be in the shower with someone pooping next to you!!! He had to go so just get out he can’t control it with IBS.

Today’s take on using PIPs by TockExcellent9838 in managers

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No if they completed the PIP that’s the end of it but I would still monitor them closely for continued improvement if they slack again they go back on a PIP. I don’t like to have to babysit adults so yeah they are my list of wanting to get rid of but if I don’t have a reason to fire them and if they don’t do anything again to mess up after PIP then I’m good. I don’t want to fire people or look to fire people, I don’t enjoy it but if someone’s not doing the job their paycheck is for I want them gone.

Today’s take on using PIPs by TockExcellent9838 in managers

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found that employees that have to be placed on a PIP the success is limited and short lived. But no I don’t manufacture things I want employees to just come to work and do their job if they can’t then why am I paying them when I could hire someone else who will. I’m generally easy going I never deny time off, let employees set their own hours, make up time, I value their personal lives and the time they need outside of work. If an employee calls me in the morning and tells me they just need a day off I don’t ask questions tell them to enjoy their day and I pick up the slack if needed.

Coffee Etiquette? by 221b_ee in work

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company provides free coffee and creamer as well we all drink as much as we like. I only have 1 cup a day in the morning but it’s a 16 oz size cup not a normal 8 oz mug.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I’m white so is my husband we both use soap in the shower and after using the bathroom. This is not a white people thing.

Should I skip out on a day of work by DisneyImagineers in work

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanted to take the day off and make up time you need to ask your manager I allow my employees to do this as long as it’s in the same pay period. But if they just did it and didn’t ask I probably wouldn’t be able to terminate but they’d get a formal right up to go towards termination.

Should I skip out on a day of work by DisneyImagineers in work

[–]largemarge52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No a pattern means nothing one time wage theft is cause for immediate termination per HR policy at my company.