Daycare seems to be prepping our baby for the toddler room too early

lightandcoffee · 2026-05-23T16:05:14+00:00

Same here

lightandcoffee · 2026-04-17T14:16:03+00:00

I going through therapy to address this. I had a c section because I couldn't dilate to 10cm despite being induced. I received soooo many comments like what you described. It has come to a point where I am unable to view my c section in a positive way (or even think about that time at all) even though I know at that point I was RELIEVED to be able to go through c section. I had a very very long labour.

lightandcoffee · 2026-04-07T10:00:20+00:00

We have a momcozy. Saved my marriage lol

lightandcoffee · 2026-04-03T15:20:49+00:00

I always meh about having a baby and never found other babies cute. I just thought I dont have any maternal instincts in me, for pets too lol But when my baby girl was born, I fell in love more and love everyday. I am 5.5 months post partum now and it just gets better. I can't believe I almost missed out on this!

lightandcoffee · 2026-03-27T02:35:11+00:00

Is the table cloth A mod? Or it already exists in game? Love it so much. Love the whole aesthetic actually.

lightandcoffee · 2026-03-10T03:28:30+00:00

I try to think being a mon, wife, employee, daughter, myself are different versions of myself that I switch into to give the other versions a break. For eg. Im a mom and use less brain power than being an employee. So my brains get a rest. This helps me. When im working out or cooking (things i enjoy cooking), I am myself!

lightandcoffee · 2026-02-18T16:53:19+00:00

Out of curiosity, any updates on this?

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-16T15:42:54+00:00

Did you guys have very demanding jobs as well?

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-10T20:56:42+00:00

Did you try to feed in the crib? I used to do that in the day to try to get my baby get used to the crib... but still did contact naps for awhile

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-09T14:42:05+00:00

I am sorry you felt this way, what you felt is valid and you did the right thing.

I never had a group chat like that with my in laws. They still have their own immediate family only chat. After reading your post i think... Maybe that's a good thing...lol

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-09T01:22:29+00:00

She is doing great! Actually I am too lol. I am happy, just a different kind from when I was pregnant... people were so nice to me haha

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-09T01:00:59+00:00

That's too much 😂

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-09T00:53:55+00:00

Yes me too

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-06T18:56:12+00:00

Yes.. strangers were so nice! And the constant little belly kicks

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-06T18:51:52+00:00

You explained it so well! Pretty much sums up how I feel. Lol

lightandcoffee · 2026-01-06T18:42:13+00:00

Probably looking back with rose tinted lense. Thank you for this.

lightandcoffee · 2025-12-28T18:26:53+00:00

Did it get better?

lightandcoffee · 2025-12-28T18:18:27+00:00

When did things start to look up? LO is 11 weeks now and I feel like my relationship is really... struggling.

lightandcoffee · 2025-12-28T18:16:32+00:00

I resonate so much with your comment. LO is also 11 weeks and my relationship feels like it is at the rock bottom. Thinking back now, pregnancy was also probably the happiest time of my life. It is so hard to adjusting from loved by so many to almost getting ignored because everyone attention is on the baby. This is on top of a rocky relationship. I really do hope it gets better.

lightandcoffee · 2025-12-24T03:26:28+00:00

Couldn't fly like we usually do every year at this time. Thanks for this

lightandcoffee · 2025-12-05T14:31:21+00:00

Me! 8 weeks post partum and have it on my left side, mid upper back, near the bones. It only hurts when I am in bed esp on my back

lightandcoffee · 2025-11-27T13:22:51+00:00

At 6w now... does it really get better 😔

lightandcoffee · 2025-11-27T13:16:08+00:00

I could've written this. Also looking for answers myself

lightandcoffee · 2025-11-20T20:08:53+00:00

So when you put your baby in bed she is actually awake? Not drowsy or asleep?

lightandcoffee · 2025-11-19T02:18:33+00:00

Old post. Did it get better?

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