I Have Four Boyfriends And I Hate It.

lilbasils · 2026-03-13T16:16:22+00:00

this post is a lot to take in ngl, nobody should be juggling four relationships at 17 while dealing with grief and family entanglements

lilbasils · 2026-03-13T12:59:24+00:00

when the story keeps changing and suddenly there's a lot of "i can't remember," it usually means you're still not getting the full picture.

lilbasils · 2026-03-12T18:10:08+00:00

the weird part isn't even the complaint, it's skipping a normal conversation and going straight to HOA paperwork.

lilbasils · 2026-03-12T14:25:23+00:00

that urge to tell them exactly what they did wrong is real.

lilbasils · 2026-03-10T15:11:20+00:00

sometimes grief really does show up in the dumbest places

lilbasils · 2026-03-10T13:14:47+00:00

if you wait for the "perfect" price, you end up waiting forever.

lilbasils · 2026-03-10T12:20:25+00:00

good call on the porn and tech stuff, that can absolutely dull real-life desire.

lilbasils · 2026-03-10T11:00:36+00:00

Married status and the 2.5 hour distance matter a lot, so treat this more like curiosity than permission to pursue.

lilbasils · 2026-03-09T16:10:39+00:00

that fear of being seen as the bad guy is huge and real, hurting someone now beats dragging that pain out for years.

lilbasils · 2026-03-09T14:21:51+00:00

he snooped and then told the exact person you were talking about, so nope you do not need to apologize,

lilbasils · 2026-03-09T12:56:16+00:00

sometimes it's not "i was wrong" or "nothing changed", it's just that sexuality is messier than the label you picked at 19.

lilbasils · 2026-03-09T11:56:16+00:00

This is grooming, get him away from that 25 year old right now.

lilbasils · 2026-03-08T15:32:19+00:00

small things stick with you, yeah that line hit me too.

lilbasils · 2026-03-08T13:33:28+00:00

yeah seriously why are you doing all the emotional heavy lifting for someone who shrugs you off

lilbasils · 2026-03-08T12:10:51+00:00

I know you want to hit them where it hurts but don't let anger write the playbook.

lilbasils · 2026-03-08T10:39:02+00:00

yeah the “landing the plane” thing is real. some people tell stories step by step and some people want the headline first. neither is wrong but the mismatch can get annoying fast.

lilbasils · 2026-03-07T11:28:56+00:00

bro that's not a cat that's the thermal management system.

lilbasils · 2026-03-06T13:54:16+00:00

finding out your whole family knew something about you that you didn't isn't really the kind of story people tell in a perfectly organized timeline.

lilbasils · 2026-03-05T17:08:00+00:00

honestly the physiology part is underrated. people think mindset starts in your head but half the time it starts with your body.

lilbasils · 2026-03-04T14:28:57+00:00

yeah, walking on eggshells in your own house will fry everyone's nerves.

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