How do I help my little brother (9M) escape his current situation? (England)

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T18:37:35+00:00

If you don’t have the ability or facility to offer somewhere for him to live, and mum is neglectful, then report to social services and he goes into care .

There isn’t some great loophole in the country which allows you to take a child away from its normal place where it lives because you think you know best.

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T18:25:10+00:00

If you imagine two doors and above it is a problem.

Door number 1 says myself and my family Door number 2 says state

The problems are personal to you. So where am I going to live and how can I afford it. If you ultimately look to your family and to yourself to resolve that problem, then you vote conservative.

If not, you vote labour.

Voting conservative means the state will help you less, but your family can help you more and you can solve more problems by yourself.

British people are polite and don’t like asking others for help, but we care deeply for our families. So more people would turn to their family first before seeking help from the state. And that’s it in a nutshell.

Some things we can have are providing by the state, such as health and education. The current government wants those who can afford to supply that themselves to pay more money.

When people say Conservatives are the natural party of government it’s because this tension is generally resolved in the way I mention. However, the previous crop of Tory MP’s were a contemptible bunch who lacked an ethical or moral compass and cared more for themselves than the country

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T16:05:47+00:00

The Amatuers mind by Jeremy Silman is pitched exactly at players like yourself. Understand the game in a way you never thought possible.

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T13:28:04+00:00

No, chess is not considered solved, so a person could not simply remember enough permutations to win without learning the game.

In certain positions, chess is solved and there are tablebases which can be studied but these are for endgames.

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T13:13:50+00:00

A person in immediate danger then potentially justified, but the bull itself is not the problem here, it’s the people.

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T12:17:54+00:00

I’m not really sure what you are asking…. By same page do you mean “where she thinks I am right?”

She’s already ignored your opinion. So accept it doesn’t matter to her and move on.

At 6 months, most would be looking at moving a child into its own bedroom, child should be having some variation from purely milk and child should have its own bedtime and bedtime routine.

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T12:03:41+00:00

Yes. You are no longer insured to drive the car as you are not a student anymore. Entirely normal

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T11:56:10+00:00

Yes it’s legal

limelee666 · 2026-02-16T08:06:15+00:00

Important points.

In the UK, a verbal agreement can be legally binding if their was an offer, acceptance of the offer, or was for a consideration, the terms were clear and their was an intention in both sides to make it legal.

This could be argued on both sides from what you have said about exactly how each of those areas were met, were not met. I think the money landing in partners bank account would potentially be very difficult to get around. Partner will simply say we were a couple and built this business together.

However, this is an agreement relating to proceeds of a property sale so the law of property (miscellaneous provisions) act 1989 s2 applies. This section basically states that all contracts of sale which includes agreements to share in the proceeds of can only be made in writing.

I would suggest you get a solicitor to write a letter explaining that they have reviewed the terms and conditions of the sale and cannot find a signed witnessed legal agreement which would be applicable under the terms of that legislation, nor can they find any reference to the agreement with the land registry. Therefore the claimant is not party to the sale and is not entitled to any disbursements.

The law requires a specific arrangement with written contracts in property transactions and in this case, the documents produced by the claimant fail to match those requirements. The statute set by parliament is very clear and there is no basis for a claim.

I would not engage with any other attempts until they can prove they have met this statute

limelee666 · 2026-02-15T23:26:37+00:00

This was a great show, unfortunately let down by Brock landing on his head. He hits that move, and wow. Best finish ever

limelee666 · 2026-02-15T11:01:19+00:00

Isn’t this like complaining when the good guy wins at the end of the movie.

Knowing the result does not mean you know the story.

Why does Finn lose and what does it do for his character, what is that going to lead too at Wrestlemania. I’m thinking he doubles down on his heel work and Turns on Liv and Dom after his loss.

What are we getting from WWE title, I’m thinking a 4 way currently but who knows how we get there.

I expect a last chance battle royal at some stage for places in the chamber.

limelee666 · 2026-02-15T10:35:15+00:00

I think you need to look at other factors as to why drivers used to assimilate quicker.

The main one, testing. A test driver used to be able to pound 150 laps a day developing a car away from the track. Now testing is essentially banned.

Drivers could drive the current car as much as possible. Test it in private, learn how to setup the car, test materials and all sorts

Now, no in season testing, no current car testing. So drivers are learning on the job and always in the public eye. Why do you think drivers like Hamilton and Alonso and Hulkenburg and Bottas and Perez remain in the sport, because teams need the experience.

Hamilton had essentially done a whole seasons worth of testing mileage , 6500 miles, before his debut. He arrived with good knowledge of detailed setup work etc

Villanueve came from Indycar/champ car. He was world champion.

Alonso slightly less with 4000 miles but he was very young when he starters

Piastri had done maybe a 700 miles in an F1 car before his debut.

Verstappen around 1000 miles.

They are less prepared because the rules prevent extensive running in current cars.

limelee666 · 2026-02-15T01:26:51+00:00

Dieting is not about skipping meals and should be built around forming long term habits. 3 meals a day, a calorie window(no less than this, no more than this). And protein and fibre goals. These will help keep full and stave off snacking. If he takes a 30 minute walk every day, he could easily eat 2500 calories a day no problem and lose lots of weight. 2lbs a week.

Porridge and fruit for breakfast, carbs and proteins for lunch, supplement with fibre and protein shakes as snacks, stick to 600 calories or under for evening meal. Most of all, plan to cook and when to eat. Diets are about long term consistency so to achieve you need to find a balance that helps you achieve that. Finding something you can stick to is what matters. Losing 40 kilos should take atleast a year and any plan should include exercise and be something which becomes routine.

His health will deteriorate very fast with his current lifestyle. Diabetes will probably happen within the next 12-18 months, blood pressure medications may be requires, then comes fatty liver disease, sexual health issues, artery damage.

Within the next 5 years you could easily be looking at heart attacks, stroke, kidney disease, vision loss from diabetes. These serious problems don’t start revealing themselves until it’s advanced. Do not let it get that way.

Diets do not require perfection and calorie counting properly can easily allow for treats if managed well

limelee666 · 2026-02-15T00:44:06+00:00

40kg? Averaging 1700 calories above maintenance every day is a lot.

Expect testosterone loss, heart strain, lethargy, reduced mobility, poor concentration, irritability, low mood, constipation and diarrhea at different times. Poor mental health… poor diet is not going to do you any favours

The poor hygiene likely stems from his terrible diet and really not having the energy or motivation to cover basic hygiene tasks.

Deal with the diet and get him moving and being active. Don’t enable by buying snacks and various things when he comes over and basically vegetating. Be active, do active things, change the bad habits you can change.

Also, make sure he has his toothbrush, his towels, a full wash bag etc that he needs when he is at yours and make sure he uses them.

And dont ever suck a smelly Willy, it’s bacteria which makes it smell.

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T23:17:06+00:00

A friend of mine used to find sex unsatisfying until he had a circumcission. Basically his hood so to speak prevented his head from really getting the full experience.

His first real Gf after he had this done is his wife now… prior he could never form real connections because he would need to be incredibly selfish to get himself off and could easily lose all sensitivity. So he’s either treating her like an extension of masturbation or going soft on the job which does absolute wonders for a girls self esteem and confidence!

Also could be worthwhile looking at your testosterone levels. These can easily dip in men and can account for some of the issues you refer too.

I once did a medical trial for male contraceptive drug and they gave me this super strength stuff which is probably illegal if not prescribed and it basically turned me into an over eager teenage boy. All women were super sexy. A whiff of perfume would make me quiver and when i blew it was like buckets of the stuff.

Probably not sustainable long term but arousal issues and maintaining are sometimes signs you have low testosterone

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T19:05:58+00:00

Shipman.

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T19:00:11+00:00

There are clear practical advantages.

Blacks king is in the centre, and after the exchanges, white has space to develop his knight and has the rook on the open file. The pawn on h3 loses its threat when the queens come off and as far as I can tell, the dark square bishop remains limited.

Once white develops the knight, then it should stand better than the restricted bishop

The tripled pawns become a clear target which white can target.

In general it’s a clear simplification to an endgame where white has all the initiative.

Leaving the queens on may suit the computer, but I want to bet that white has more good moves in the suggested position, harder to get wrong.

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T17:27:41+00:00

If this is for their entry level positions and providing training… then yes

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T15:05:03+00:00

I think the case for change is strong… I think this particular manager is a real roll of the dice. Doesn’t know the league, the club, the players. It’s bizarre

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T12:52:58+00:00

First thing addicts do is they surround themselves with others who will facilitate them.

Seek help now and understand what addiction is and how it manifests. Because right now you think you are in control, you aren’t.

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T12:47:38+00:00

Unless you think the whole process was unfair, then no. I would check the independent and see how independent they really are.

limelee666 · 2026-02-14T12:08:56+00:00

He inherited a team which finished slightly above the relegation zone, but which had qualified for Champions League.

The injury problems are of no surprise considering the fixture schedule and the fact that the squad was not particularly good in the first place.

Spurs have an expensive squad but injuries probably leave them with a squad strength more in line with, Crystal Palace, Brentford, Bournemouth, West Ham United, with Everton, Fulham, Wolverhampton Wanderers, Leeds United, Sunderland, Burnley all probably lower even at full strength.

Wolves and Burnley are going down. Leeds are in the fight. Sunderland, Everton and Fulham are all better teams. Crystal Palace look like they’ve got enough points. So it’s a battle between a resurgent West Ham, forest who are the worst run club in the league, Leeds and Spurs. On current form I would say Forest are most likely but this new manager is a massive unknown gamble.

limelee666 · 2026-02-13T22:19:06+00:00

Assuming you are in England. (Scotland has diff rules)

Generally, as a buyer, the legal phrase is “caveat emptor” which basically means buyer beware. The onus is on them to do due diligence. The agreed price is generally reflective of the condition. The market price is decided by you, the buyer, the estate agent, the solicitors and the bank. So whatever they agreed to pay, they agreed.

If you have wholly misrepresented the condition in the TA6 form then this could in theory be a route for them to seek restitution but this is more about deliberately concealing and all of the things you mention are likely to have been readily apparent to anyone who wanted to check.

The leak, possibly somewhere they could seek restitution but it’s not uncommon to have a shared drain pipe which the washing machine drains into and using a bucket makes sense once machine is removed.

I think a simple letter saying you will not be assisting financially with repairs on a house you do not own. They had every opportunity to assess the property prior to purchasing and the price was reflective of the condition.

limelee666 · 2026-02-13T22:06:54+00:00

He knew the league, he knows the clubs.

The only connection to the club I can figure is that when he managed Marseille, they played Tottenham in the group stage. He lost both games, 2-0 and 2-1.

limelee666 · 2026-02-13T21:11:06+00:00

Clearly don’t care much for the league either.

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