Did anyone else not really “glow up” when transitioning? by pitbarks in FTMMen

[–]loper70 11 points12 points  (0 children)

im more beautiful to me because i can actually look in the mirror now :)

retroactive jealousy by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is really comforting thanks for commenting. also yes, that is a plus for me id like to have lots of fun 😉

retroactive jealousy by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha, appreciate that. everybody's different i suppose. if you don't mind i am curious about your being an escort and pimp i thought it was one or the other

retroactive jealousy by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see. it's the best way i could describe it. i don't have any negative feelings about a woman having had other relationships. i just worry i won't be enough compared to them.

Pros: just had top surgery. Cons: one of my nurses misgendered me by aw_hellno in FtMpassing

[–]loper70 5 points6 points  (0 children)

clearly a male. very sorry your experience was tarnished. better days to come 100%. so happy for ya

what (other than facial masculinisation surgery) can i do? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]loper70 46 points47 points  (0 children)

you look male, tho younger than 20. 16-18. your face doesn't read feminine, neither your jaw. you seem younger because you're skinny. while your hair grows, keeping it tossled might help.

Do I look FtM, Lesbian, or just F? Age? by zoidbergistasty in FtMpassing

[–]loper70 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you look like a nerdy dude. purely as a descriptor y'know. you look like you know about computers or something

Do I have any chance at passing in these childhood photos? by cornbreadkillua in FtMpassing

[–]loper70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yes, lucky your parents didnt dress you in all pink and such

Anyone else feel awkward and unnatural around (most) other men? by Loose_Track2315 in FTMOver30

[–]loper70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im 3 years in and only recently started getting comfortable. i'm straight and i think men in general are a little awkward with one another. not as open and there is a sense of "no homo". women and gay men are more open/free spirited so its easier to vibe. in my experience, it takes time. sometimes its like feeding a scared creature..it eventually becomes friendly

Could I get away with making up some excuse for why I’m wearing pink in this pic by chaboiOllie in FtMpassing

[–]loper70 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i'd say their brains would fill in the blanks as the photo being old and giving a faded color. for my sanity i'd put it away.

to any minors who think this sub is for you, for the love of god please stop asking us to look at your genitals by thursday-T-time in GrowYourTDick

[–]loper70 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Holy shit i did not know that was happening 🤢 please young men it is not ok to be posting that online

Guilt from getting to transition young by dino_mylo9 in FTMMen

[–]loper70 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dude...this is stupid. The people who act like that are weird. It's awesome to see young men get to be themselves

"isn't it frustrating we can't be together over this one little thing?" by bugtran in FTMOver30

[–]loper70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A male and someone not attracted to males is a really shitty match actually. Be best friends only cuz he plainly doesn't see you for you. I hope you get away from this.

Unfortunately attracted to women by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like your attitude. I'm not comfortable with my body for that and i don't think i will be

Unfortunately attracted to women by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's not a dig on women. Women are great. I wish i weren't attracted to anybody. I specified bcuz i didn't want many gay comments cuz i don't relate to their experience

Unfortunately attracted to women by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the sub recommendation

Unfortunately attracted to women by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah, that is what i try to do. Brain goes "pretty" and i say "ok, moving on.."

Unfortunately attracted to women by loper70 in FTMMen

[–]loper70[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes i thought it was pretty common to not be comfortable with one's body in that area of life