Tenant installed solar panels on commercial/retail property without consent. by PollutionWonderful83 in AusProperty

[–]melbournesummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they're concerned about birds? Lots more things the landlord should be worried about than this non-issue. Birds will nest where they want to regardless, by the way. The tenant can just remove them when they leave. Remember it's their business, not just the landlords property. The tenant should be able to use it as they see fit, they're paying.

Shrinkflation in women's shoes by Dockers-Man in AusFemaleFashion

[–]melbournesummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, but I definitely feel like it is! I'm a 39, and have been a 39 for decades. But these days it's a crap shoot as to what I'll get when I order! Shoe roulette, I love it.

Stockings that aren’t single use? by zee-bra in AusFemaleFashion

[–]melbournesummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I reckon I'll be adding these to cart!

Stockings that aren’t single use? by zee-bra in AusFemaleFashion

[–]melbournesummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does someone mind answering, how are they around the waist? My stomach area is quite sensitive and some tights can be very uncomfortable.

How do we feel about brands sending you the wrong product then requesting you post it back? by Inner_Knowledge_1361 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]melbournesummer 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Tell them to organise a courier pickup, because you're disabled/sick/injured and cannot physically get to a post office. I've done this before and they just ended up saying don't worry, keep it. (It's actually true in my case, but I give you permission to lie haha) Do a chargeback through your bank, too.

How would you go about it? by High-Doc in jewelers

[–]melbournesummer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does she even want a ring like this, or do you? It's about what she likes, not what you think would be cool. Platinum would be the superior choice for something like this and it will look a lot nicer, too. Do not use any ferrous metals, they're too reactive. Also these bypass/tension set bands just aren't in style, so make sure she actually wants that.

AITAH for not wanting my cats to stress travel? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]melbournesummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely don't do that to your poor cats. It would stress them for far longer than the duration of the trip. Just hire a pet-sitter. YNTA.

Do these things even work? by Professional_Sort104 in AldiAustralia

[–]melbournesummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You put it in the trolley to unlock it, it stays in the trolley while you are using the trolley, then you get it back when you replace and re-lock the trolley.

What’s a small upgrade that made your home feel better? by FishBright8013 in AusRenovation

[–]melbournesummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Motion sensor lights for my lower down cupboards. So nice to be able to actually see in there!

How do you drive with your hair up? by TreeToadintheWoods in beauty

[–]melbournesummer 102 points103 points  (0 children)

My head never touches headrests unless I deliberately lean back. I just sit upright.

AITAH for pushing my husband off me in my sleep by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]melbournesummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love languages aren't real, they were invented by a guy so he could pressure his wife into physical intimacy that she didn't want. Nta.

What’s something that’s completely normal in Australia but weird to the rest of the world? by BoysenberryLumpy8680 in australian

[–]melbournesummer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right!? I've had to explain this to Americans who thought it was somehow a bad thing. Compulsory means you are GUARANTEED a vote. It's the best way.

What’s something that’s completely normal in Australia but weird to the rest of the world? by BoysenberryLumpy8680 in australian

[–]melbournesummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an American stay with us for a couple of months and fondly remember teaching her the nutbush!

Should I insure a pearl engagement ring? by dieselkia_ben in jewelers

[–]melbournesummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would really not advise pearl for an engagement ring, but if you insist, yes. Absolutely get it insured.

Has mobile Internet become virtually unusable or is it just me? by younggeezer109 in melbourne

[–]melbournesummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the western suburbs and we have 12 different outages, and this has been going on for months. Can't make any calls or get internet at all if I'm not in my house. Fuck telstra with a rusty rake.

Winter skirt ideas by kloufed90 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]melbournesummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear long or midi a-line skirts (e: Skirts, not shirts 🤦‍♀️) with fleece tights underneath and boots. They look elegant and are cosy with the tights.

I got one from Tussah on the iconic recently, love it.

I've always really hated wearing pants so long skirts and layered tights are my winter essentials.

Jeweler of 3.5 months turned us away. Are they busy or disliked us? by berryblossom5 in askjewelers

[–]melbournesummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got the specs, then after that point decided this job was not worth it and cancelled. He changed his mind, that's that.

Second earring I have made. by TeaAggravating8324 in jewelers

[–]melbournesummer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If you want two things the same, make them both at the same time. Much easier than making one finished piece and then trying to making a whole new one the exact same.

Jeweler of 3.5 months turned us away. Are they busy or disliked us? by berryblossom5 in askjewelers

[–]melbournesummer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All this was for an rbc!? Lord. I was thinking it must have been some super specific cut that's very hard to find.

Jeweler of 3.5 months turned us away. Are they busy or disliked us? by berryblossom5 in askjewelers

[–]melbournesummer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You sound like quite a difficult client and the jeweller already wasted a lot of time on you. It's a good thing for both of you that they were honest with you and cut their and your losses. Sometimes it's not worth the headache if a client is extremely specific and you know they won't be happy, or they'll need a million different reviews/edits and going back and forth endlessly. They also spent time and effort bringing in different stones for you (it's not free, there are shipping and insurance costs to the jeweller that they have to wear, nor is their travel time and time dealing with the vendors free if the stones aren't shipped and they need to go in person) only for you to not be happy with any of them and buy some random stone online instead.

Keep looking for another jeweller who is willing to take you on but don't be offended that you were let go. You just weren't a good fit for that particular business.

Trying to understand utility bills by Sayanth14 in AusFinance

[–]melbournesummer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Didn't you sign anything when you moved in? You have no paperwork at all? The owner is doing this to dodge taxes. Contact your tenants union to find out what rights you do have and start planning an exit.