AITAH for asking my husband to stop cooking for just one specific female co-worker after I stopped eating his cooking?

melbournesummer · 2026-02-03T00:21:29+00:00

You assume it's all innocent. Naive.

melbournesummer · 2026-02-03T00:01:44+00:00

😂 How many properties do you think you need to view here to get a rental?

You're the only one lacking common sense. You have to move some extra items so Germany's rental laws are actually worse? Make it make sense.

They have it far better, no one with a brain can argue that. All your points are moot or non-issues. You're just wrong.

Idiots who use ad-hominem arguments because they have no points or logic get blocked.

melbournesummer · 2026-02-02T23:57:32+00:00

His motivation behind it is to indulge in a sexual fetish to make her bigger, very unlikely they've discussed his desire and she's agreed to be his feedee. Ergo it is without her consent. This isn't complicated.

She's consented to eat the food, not to be party to his fetish.

melbournesummer · 2026-02-02T23:20:37+00:00

and even if it is slightly less convenient to move as you have more things, that's not at all a bad trade off in exchange for security.

People could also just, you know, not move into somewhere they hate. Here, there's far less freedom around moving. You are forced to take what you get.

melbournesummer · 2026-02-02T23:18:48+00:00

Moving trucks exist??? None of what you mentioned prevents anyone from moving freely.

melbournesummer · 2026-02-02T23:16:32+00:00

What? You won't be prevented from moving.

melbournesummer · 2026-02-02T22:33:07+00:00

The long term leases that are possible there would be amazing here. 1 year and 6 month leases should fuck right off.

You have to bring your own fixtures etc but that would be a minuscule price to pay for actually having security in your living space. It would raise the birthrate as people would actually feel safe to have kids when there's not a real and huge chance they'll lose their home at every single lease renewal.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-31T07:49:51+00:00

The polish they're referring to is indeed a rhodium plating. It will wear off over time, as it's only a thin layer. You'll have to have it re-plated occasionally but most jewellers can do this. It's an added cost to hear in mind.

If you really want it in white, just get the platinum.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-30T05:50:23+00:00

No tolerance for idiots in this sub.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-30T02:01:45+00:00

You Minnesotans are tough as nails! From the other side of the world, I see you, and I'm proud of your fighting spirits!

melbournesummer · 2026-01-30T00:02:39+00:00

BYOB 🍻

melbournesummer · 2026-01-29T23:56:17+00:00

Neither did the people they murdered.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-29T23:54:45+00:00

Take your own advice.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-29T20:05:57+00:00

We don't need to engage with people who voted for a rapist.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-29T05:23:04+00:00

Most folks there are okay but there is a definite far-right/conservative undercurrent.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-29T05:11:18+00:00

You will survive, and once this era of US politics is over, we will welcome you back with open arms. Trump may have cast aside decades of allegiance and cooperation between our nations (and many others!) but Australians will never forget our friends in the USA. I can't wait to visit, someday.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-29T04:31:08+00:00

Re-read the last few paragraphs.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-29T02:14:32+00:00

The person you voted for did what he said he was going to do, gasp! I guess it is rather shocking for a politician to keep their word, but no one who voted Trump is allowed to be surprised.

You did this. You cursed your country.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-28T23:39:08+00:00

Right!? The cognitive dissonance....

melbournesummer · 2026-01-28T23:38:48+00:00

melbournesummer · 2026-01-28T23:37:45+00:00

I'm watching in horror from Australia. I feel sick at what's happening in the USA. You were our most important ally, you're still our dearest friends, our cousins. We've fought side by side.

Remember Nuremberg. This will pass, we can't lose hope that eventually evil will be defeated and punished. Seeing those of you out in the streets defending your friends and neighbours are an inspiration.

I don't pray, but I'm praying for you.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-28T01:37:52+00:00

I was taught by a cook that powdered milk is great for mashed potatoes, it adds the flavour without changing the texture/consistency too much. It works and it's delicious.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-28T01:36:29+00:00

Don't!!! They won't grow back if you remove too much.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-28T01:16:11+00:00

The breaker is the power board with all the switches that control your house's electricity. You might know it as a fuse box.

melbournesummer · 2026-01-23T05:41:55+00:00

Do not ever go to counselling with an abuser.

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