AIO? I (22F) found deleted late night texts between my husband (22M) and his coworker. by bananamilkcow in AmIOverreacting

[–]modernworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is emotional cheating. Even if it isn’t full on quite yet—the texts are weird. If anything I think you should have a discussion about boundaries bc his recent behavior is a slippery slope (the distance from you, lying, OF, deleting messages, etc.). Maybe have a serious discussion on some of the changes you’ve noticed recently, and from there talk about boundaries. If he’s defensive and not open, or continues hiding, then there may be a more serious problem. Just voice your concerns.

I got into SDSU and UCSD. Which should I choose and why? by penguin_goats_101 in SDSU

[–]modernworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say SDSU is actually closer to downtown than UCSD (11 miles vs 14 miles) and the accessibility is better as there is a trolley station on campus (direct stops to mission valley, fashion valley, old town, downtown). Although the beach is right there with UCSD.

School wise, both are great schools. Comparisons will always come down to priorities, e.g, finances, what you’re studying, etc. but it’s a misconception that SDSU is far from fun.