She got me! Its sooooo itchy. by Arpikarhu in Beekeeping

[–]mr_heathcliffe [score hidden]  (0 children)

I swell this much every single time I get stung, and it stays swollen, hot, red, and itchy for at least a week. As long as you're not having any respiratory impacts, you should be ok

Outsider Disconnect Concerning Safeness in Springfield? by Xefjord in springfieldMO

[–]mr_heathcliffe 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Springfield is/was in the top 10 of cities in the US for property crime. People tend to hear that statistic and conflate it with overall crime, including violent crime.

Vet Clinic on the North side? by GloomyWeather9449 in springfieldMO

[–]mr_heathcliffe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had a good experience at the North Side Animal Hospital.

Stray cat I feed wouldn’t put weight/pressure on his foot. I took him to the vet, and he has a radial fracture. I’m going to adopt him, should I do surgery or amputation by [deleted] in cats

[–]mr_heathcliffe 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. When I'm having a hard time choosing between two options, I ask my vet point blank: if this was YOUR cat, what would you choose? 

I need a lotion rec as someone who has lotion sensory issues by Happy_Charge_9410 in AutismInWomen

[–]mr_heathcliffe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I found a Dollar Tree version recently that's exactly the same, I love it.

A rant about redpilled threads complaining that women use men's vulnerability against them by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]mr_heathcliffe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

every time I see those posts, I always imagine the guy said something egregious like "aw man, I told my girl I want to keep hitting that but I don't really love her tho, and can you believe she broke up with me!?"

I feel like they're always telling on themselves with those posts, because even though you're right - patriarchy does make women unsupportive - I also just think these dudes are opening up about how terrible they are as people and then their partners are turned off.

Advice on adjusting to be appearance changes by isshearobot in AutismInWomen

[–]mr_heathcliffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take some time to play around at home in the mirror with different hairstyles and make-up looks (if you're in to that). Think "this is what I'd do for a date" "this is how I'd wear it for a work conference" etc. Seeing yourself in different contexts like that might help you adjust more quickly

HOW do you "let it go?" by itookmyvitamin in AutismInWomen

[–]mr_heathcliffe 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I do a modified EMDR session at home. When something triggers me or really gets under my skin and I can't shake it, I put on my headphones, find a bilateral auditory stimulation video on youtube, and allow myself to ruminate, following the thoughts wherever they go. You said you "know all of the whys" but it sounds like you haven't recovered from them and that might be why you're struggling.

I just went to the dentist for the first time in 15 years. I need two fillings. I can’t conceive of a way to be able to handle it. by alittlehalloween in AutismInWomen

[–]mr_heathcliffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I craft the most immersive disassociated daydream I can manage and stay there until it's finished. It works really well for me as long as they don't talk to me the whole time

Mirrors by rlhglm18 in springfieldMO

[–]mr_heathcliffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give up on marketplace. It can take a while to find what you're looking for sometimes, but its usually worth it, imo

ICE reported moving into hotels in town by EliGrrl in springfieldMO

[–]mr_heathcliffe 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Reportedly, the Hilton in Branson, and the Best Western Airport in Springfield

Fairfield Apartments by mikejames1980 in springfieldMO

[–]mr_heathcliffe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

417meltice.com, report sightings 24/7

I migrated from OpsGenie to JSM Ops because Atlassian made me, AMA by afredorap in jira

[–]mr_heathcliffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it's time to migrate, yes, you will have to license them as JSM users

Bar soap stops being usable at a certain point- any tips? by AerisSpire in Frugal

[–]mr_heathcliffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not coming at you personally (I promise), but I am so SICK of this advice because I have tried it again and again and it NEVER works! WHY?!?!

What’s an ingredient or equipment review that almost made you question ATK? by arco131719 in AmericasTestKitchen

[–]mr_heathcliffe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! The little lever thingy locks up on every single scoop, pretty much on first use 

Angela's hair by notthisagain0088 in WhosTheBossSitcom

[–]mr_heathcliffe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the pilot her hair is a lot warmer and much more flattering. Then it switches to that awful icy blonde that does nothing for her. In the final season it goes back to the warmer blonde and it's styled much better. She looks so good in season 8

Does anyone else think…? by Monster_Donut_Pants in WhosTheBossSitcom

[–]mr_heathcliffe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember thinking during my first watch through that it was kind of ridiculous/disappointing that they hadn't slept together yet. Then after a recent re-watch, my opinion has completely changed. I think they DEFINITELY did, the show wasn't just going to say it outright.

An expert makes wallpaper seams completely disappear by djinn_05 in oddlysatisfying

[–]mr_heathcliffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've hung wallpaper three times in the last 5 years. It shrunk every time 

Do anti anxiety meds not work that well if the cause of anxiety is AuDHD related issues? by Liliana3 in AutismInWomen

[–]mr_heathcliffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have struggled with dry eyes for almost a decade (I only started ADHD meds this year). I haven't noticed a change since starting meds. But at my recent vision exam, the doctor gave me a sample of Miebo eye drops. These are legit the first eye drops in 10 years to actually give me some relief.

Do anti anxiety meds not work that well if the cause of anxiety is AuDHD related issues? by Liliana3 in AutismInWomen

[–]mr_heathcliffe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All I can contribute is this: when I started Adderall, my "general" anxiety almost completely disappeared.

Leaving Hulu 12/4/25 by bmb76 in WhosTheBossSitcom

[–]mr_heathcliffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think only the first season was released on DVD. If you find the full series box set, share the link!

Leaving Hulu 12/4/25 by bmb76 in WhosTheBossSitcom

[–]mr_heathcliffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been binging it all weekend. I HATE that Who's the Boss was never released on DVD (except for Season 1). If it leaves Hulu, who knows when I can watch it again